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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Davico(m): 5:11pm On Feb 28
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hope you don't wanna introduce him into yahoo yahoo or ginger him to use the geh pant sha cheesy
I need to encourage a bro! So everyone is a yahoo guy abi? Change the way you think.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 6:17pm On Feb 28
Davico:

I need to encourage a bro! So everyone is a yahoo guy abi? Change the way you think.
Pls do, legitly though. I was only kidding though
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Abcruz(m): 6:29pm On Feb 28
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed


My son, give me your heart and let your eyes find delight in my ways,--proverbs 23:26

For cursed is the man who trusts in mere human and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the LORD.--Jeremiah 17:5

Yet you have not listened to Me," declares the LORD, "in order that you might provoke Me to anger with the work of your hands to your own harm.--Jeremiah 25:7

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the LORD from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by hamanss: 6:38pm On Feb 28
Jayhazard:

Karma isn't real.
I believe, that karma is exist, so I trying to relates to people always good and with respect. As s rule, in return I getting the same. And not so long, when my relative have a problem with health I did not have money, so I decided borrow this money in https://www.wisconsinpaydayloans-wi.com/ We managed to improve health in short terms, and my relative was so thankful to me, that I embarrassed. And he gave money back to me, and I could repay a loan.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Vado(m): 6:59pm On Feb 28
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Draw inspiration from the poo she said about your parents and go out there to become a success. She used you but be rest assured, karma will catch up with her.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Oimn(m): 7:01pm On Feb 28
Abeg Brother.... You better move on. I have been there before on several occassions and now I am way way better than ever... Married to a beautiful wife, have a beautiful daugther, several houses and business and a good Job
.... You better help your life and stop been pitiful. She will still beg, I know this for sure

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by GREATESTPIANIST: 7:01pm On Feb 28
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed
My brother, I really understand what you going through, I was really down when I read your write up, I want you to be strong this times bro..... please I beg you, refuse the depression......you are a strong man, let go of her , abeg bro, leave her, she doesn't deserve you, give your self some break and keep the Hussle going, someone better will come bro........I will be praying for you. ........##muchLove
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by GREATESTPIANIST: 7:05pm On Feb 28
Oimn:
Abeg Brother.... You better move on. I have been there before on several occassions and now I am way way better than ever... Married to a beautiful wife, have a beautiful daugther, several houses and business and a good Job
.... You better help your life and stop been pitiful. She will still beg, I know this for sure
The write up touched me a lot, how could people be so wicked and impatient....am really amazed.....Life moves on....He will be fine, I am sure....a

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by babzlim(m): 7:06pm On Feb 28
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So it's safe to say a guy should give money to a woman with a steady source of income ryt? Nice

Yes, becos she will understand when u say u don't have and will cherish you and also support when need be and not lazy ass I never chop girl thinking money grows on trees.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 7:07pm On Feb 28
babzlim:


Yes, becos she will understand when u say u don't have and will cherish you and also support when need be and not lazy ass I never chop girl thinking money grows on trees.
OK.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Adeinfo: 7:25pm On Feb 28
iphanyi10:


This your last statement is contradictory, If you only help people who are worthy, It means you are thinking deep down that this person will help you someday, that's in itself expectation.
What I meant is that is not everyone is worthy to be helped. You don't just help people because you want to help. They must merit it.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by uchendutalks: 9:25pm On Feb 28
Hello bro

Women are hypergamous in nature. They are always looking for a better deal. The only thing that makes a woman overcome this is her own personal morality. Not you.

From your story, this girl already has someone else or some others who she is probably cheating with. And you probably know this. But because you have invested a lot, you don't want to let her go.

Know this: No woman on earth deserves such a sacrifice of yourself and make your dreams. Not even your wife.

Trust me. A woman will ask you to make such a sacrifice, but you should understand that she is to follow you and you are the leader. She won't expect you to make it. But if you do, she will lose respect for you.

A girl I dated once told me that she and her friend once came back to her uni at very late night and there was no bike. She then called one of the guys that was on her case to help them get to the hostel. With great personal sacrifice, this guy came from where he was to help them to their hostel. It involved a lot of sacrifices on his part.

Guess what? She told me that after he did that, she knew she can never date him. Why? He had no spine. He could have told her it's not convenient and she should call her boyfriend, but he didn't. He wanted to please her so much that he was willing to sacrifice precious things for her, even when they were not dating. No woman will respect such a man. She may stay with him for comfort, but she will find a real man outside and probably cheat with him.

This is what I think happened to you. You sacrificed too much. She didn't deserve it. She isn't your wife. Until when she is, she doesn't deserve such. She will disrespect you for it.

If you need a book that explains this and how to handle it and improve your manliness, email me on breadgiver90 @ Gmail. com

I'll send it free


Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by periphetes: 9:53pm On Feb 28
As a man never lose yourself worth because of a woman. Aim higher goals for your life with humility. The right woman who will love, cherish and respect you will show up easily. You don't need stressing yourself begging and acting deceptive to get a beautiful lady.
The true beauty of a woman is seen in her character and heart not her vain physical look
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 11:08pm On Feb 28
Omoge87:
I am sorry this happened to you, but in the same vein you should be happy and thankful to God. Sometimes man's/woman's rejection is God's protection. Love should never be based on what one has or what one can do for someone, those things are just benefits of the relationship. Hence marital vows state for 'Better or for Worse' and 'in sickness and in health'. Nobody knows tomorrow, but she has shown you if a time comes and your tomorrow is sour she will leave you. Today you have a job, tomorrow one can be made redundant. Today someone has two legs and is walking about able-bodied, tomorrow that same person may be involved in a car accident and loose their two legs, paralysed and stuck to a wheel chair for life... Just know that she would have left you. It is not bad for her to want to marry a super rich man ... she is allowed to want what she wants ... but she should not put someone else down in the process. She has show you her true colours. What you do with what she has shown you is your prerogative.

Please thank God for what he has released you from. Find somebody that loves you not because of what you have, but simply because of who you are. In the mean time just work on yourself. As people have said the best consolation to yourself is working hard and becoming a man of substance. I just pray when you do and she comes back begging you don't take her back as you have done in the past.

She never loved you. No situation is permenant unless you make it that way. You had funds before... so far you continue to work hard and hustle the funds will come .... don't let this girl get to you. Words are powerful, for every negative thing she has said... just reject it and speak positive things into your life...

Unfortunatley her greed may get her into the wrong hands....She will soon find that people go for character over beauty ...hence why many beautiful girls are very much single, whilst the so called 'ugly' girls are very much married... Just let her be.

.... You too in future learn from this mistake to be paying for school fees of girlfriend up and down is just silly - I mean where are her parents/family members. You have better use of the money...like siblings, parents you could have invested the money in... business ventures... I mean you bought her 1 phone, then went to buy her another phone... till she now collected phone from another guy... and you feel you can marry someone like that?What is she collecting all the phones for ?

Aside from beauty - did she add anything to your life - aside from her vagina - what else did she add to you? The relationship seems from your account as though it was one-sided. You give she takes. You are lamenting over someone who insulted your parents - so if she was going to marry you she has insulted her potential in-laws? Abeg. Chin up and keep it moving. Soldier on...

Please let her go and be thankful to God from what he has brought you out off. She is someone else headache now. Your days of taking paracetamol are since over. Abeg...

Take care of yourself
nice one!
well said! kiss kiss
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 11:11pm On Feb 28
Abee79:
A girl I dated told me the same thing 12 years ago . . . now, God has buttered my bread. We are both married now. We are still friends and we keep in touch. I sense regret in her voice anytime she asks me, "have you completed your house?", "have you bought another car?" etc.

She stays in a different state. Anytime I buy a new car, I pay her elder brother and cousins (who live in the same city with me) a visit - so that they can transmit the transmission to her! I will also invite them for my house warming party! grin grin grin grin
cheesy cheesy

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Codes151(m): 12:00am On Mar 01
Let your success speak for you! Move on! Work hard... it’s unfortunate we came at a wrong time in this country!

I pity our unborn kids!
The boys will suffer this and the girls will turn to sth else...

Nigeria has ruined its own
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by samsam2019: 1:54am On Mar 01
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed
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Seriously if you were my son is out a bullet through your head
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by iamHighDee(m): 8:52am On Mar 01
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed


Sorry about that bro.

I think you people need to start dropping the names and pictures of these kind of girls so that the rest of us won't fall victims
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by lakesguy(m): 9:29am On Mar 01
Smiles...... Relax bro' poo happens! Get urself up n continue ur hustle.. God will bless u
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by united442(m): 11:29am On Mar 01
iamHighDee:



Sorry about that bro.

I think you people need to start dropping the names and pictures of these kind of girls so that the rest of us won't fall victims

hhahahahah...true talk ooo
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Rozaytee(f): 2:56pm On Mar 01
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed
ogun kill dat ur gf...she is an ingrate
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by tohyorsih(f): 3:04pm On Mar 01
pray and work hard in other to prove her wrong. may God help you
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by tunize(m): 3:25pm On Mar 01
hehehehehe...!!
my guy u funi moral lesson you can never satisfy or please anybody in this life apart from yourself....(help within your means and nor do extra jst to please learn am today).
Bros hustle hard and make your money not for her sake cos you nor get anything to prove to her or anybody, prove to urself that u can rise again.
keep calm and move on nor try am take her back ooih focus on what is right.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 4:47pm On Mar 01
rukidanty:
thesame thing happened to me..gal i was dating for two years and was planning to marry her ,even my parents was telling me to make sure i marry her and i so much love her but immediately she entered despo to continue her hnd ,she met one yahoo boy and under two weeks the guy has transformed her whole life and has spent more than 500k on her ..change everything about her to even her pants self.she told the boy that i don't have a future plan and future ambition and that was why she left me and the boy told me face to face ,i mean the yahoo guy.i was forced to end the relationship with her and move on with my life and wish her well in the future though it was painful.. Then i realised that women are like cow that they tied rope on their neck,immediately the rope mistakenly loose,they start running and never look back.
what i mean is that,no matter the time and amount you spend on a lady,when she want to leave you,she would leave and forget all what you have done..so op move on and focus on your life...you will meet another decent gal..don't be deceive by their beauty
grin grin grin

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by openmine(m): 5:02pm On Mar 01
Akowemoon:


My guy some ladies don't deserve that kind of attention, u really drop urself on the floor for her, how on earth will u be paying her bills when she's not ur wife? ... Walai she Don chop u finish,Remember theres nothing u can do to satisfy a lady... Let her go and move on with ur life.. She will come begging I had similar experience but today, na she dey rush me but I don't give any f**kng damn coz I have so many on a queue... Man up and move on she doesn't worth u
Bro there is no certainty that a married lady will remain faithful!
As long as her faithfulness and respect to the man is based on material stuffs or financial security,she can scamp anytime!
Once the money is almost finished,she leaves the marriage for another guy who can take care of her!
Marriage does not keep anyone faithful or loyal!
A Casanova who got married will still be a Casanova!
A materialistic lady will still be a materialistic lady even after getting married!
Marriage to a promiscuous individual wont change the person!

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by NNAMDIII(m): 12:52am On Mar 07
MiaB:
Many guys think that if only they were rich, or at least well off, their girlfriend would have never left them. It's not as simple as that. If you don't believe it, just tune into what is happening with the rich and famous around the world, be it movie stars or royalty. It quickly becomes apparent that people with a lot of money have no better luck - an obviously sometimes a lot worse luck - with staying within a relationship. How many movie stars can you think of in the next five minutes who have two, three or maybe four divorces under their belts?

The fact is, having a lot of money is no guarantee of relationship success. If you are feeling sorry for yourself because your girlfriend left you over financial problems, then it's time to start rethinking the whole situation. You could be filthy rich, and she might have left anyway.
What does this tell you about money? Clearly, it makes no difference how much you have or how little you have. If the fundamentals of your relationship are strong, even a terrible money situation should not be an excuse for your girlfriend to leave. Money is only a convenient excuse, an outward factor.
Okay, but let's also recognize that while money may not be the ultimate reason she left you, it certainly was a contributing factor. That's because constant stress over money creates an overall climate of tension and struggle. It is very difficult for any relationship to thrive in an environment of constant struggle.
Incredibly, many guys do exactly the opposite thing they should do when they have money problem, and their partner leaves - they plunge themselves into even more debt! That's right!

There is something about relationship problems that can drive many men to lose all common sense. For example, they think that if they only had a nicer car, maybe their girlfriend would come back to them. So they pull out all the stops, marshal all of their resources, and take out a huge loan to get some new wheels. So now they have a shiny new car, and even more debt and payments to worry about. To get that new car, maybe they had to take out a second mortgage on their house, or run up huge debts on credit cards.
Other guys blow cash on some kind of bribe - maybe an expensive piece of jewelry to dangle in front of their ex in a desperate attempt to lure her back. Even if this works in the short term, as soon as the new load of bills start coming due, the stress level increases to all-new levels. Under these conditions, the relationship is probably doomed.
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What you need to do is start getting your financial life under control. Rather than buying a new car - maybe it's time to sell the one you have!
It's all about making priorities in your life. You have to decide if you want to put your relationship and personal life first, or continue to be a slave to all of your bills. Of course, getting one's financial life in order is never an easy task. If you think you can't handle it by yourself, by all means, seek out some financial counseling

Get some help formulating a solid plan to start paying down you debts, and to start earning more money.
Just taking that first step toward getting your financial life under control can be a tremendous relief. You will immediately get the feeling that you are finally doing something positive to take back control of your life. When you start getting financial control, you start reducing that all-pervasive stress that is tormenting you, and which made your relationship a living hell. It's a sad fact of our modern society that, even when two people love each other, a general condition of financial stress can cripple even great relationships.
are you an under graduate?
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Youngpo413: 10:43am On Mar 20
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by paddyboi: 2:28pm On Apr 12
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

I believe you need Ubunja and his miseducations in your life bro.

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