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Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 7:06pm On Feb 28, 2019
Recently met a lady earning more than me. We go on a date she expects i pay her taxify and bills for the outing. Once in a while taxes me. We got into an arguement today. I told her if we get married i expect us to share bills in the home. She went ballistic o. Said never. Abeg what is she supposed to use her 450k salary for abeg. Women ehn. No wonder men die quick

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Ziel20: 7:20pm On Feb 28, 2019
It's a man's pride to handle bills. But I think relationships should be handled differently. Anyone can pay the bill esp when both parties are capable.

I was starring at a lady with all admiration in a taxi, and when we got down, I reached to my wallet, brought out money and was gonna pay for the both of us. But the lady smiled at me and said I paid for you.

I was stunned. That's how u know a lady who wouldn't mind splitting up the bills in a relationship.

I'm not saying basically that u must expect a lady to pay ur taxi fare before judging but any reasonable lady won't see bills as a do or die stuff.

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by donwhit(m): 7:21pm On Feb 28, 2019
That is the problem with modern women,they are so selfish they want priviledges but dont want responsibility. They won't act traditional yet expect men to act traditional. She does not want to spend her money for the marriage, she will rather use it to buy weaveons and useless dresses. You need to be assertive amd tell she must take some responsibility if you are going to get married.Love and peace.
Joromi12:
Recently met a lady earning more than me. We go on a date she expects i pay her taxify and bills for the outing. Once in a while taxes me. We got into an arguement today. I told her if we get married i expect us to share bills in the home. She went ballistic o. Said never. Abeg what is she supposed to use her 450k salary for abeg. Women ehn. No wonder men die quick

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 28, 2019
donwhit:
That is the problem with modern women,they are so selfish they want priviledges but dont want responsibility. They won't act traditional yet expect men to act traditional. She does not want to spend her money for the marriage, she will rather use it to buy weaveons and useless dresses. You need to be assertive amd tell she must take some responsibility if you are going to get married.Love and peace.
bros i no dey do again abeg. I dey stay ajah while she stays at lekki. Say wen i marry am i go rent 2 bedroom in lekki. Dats like 1.5m to 1.8m o. Hahahaha women o
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by CosmicPhoenix: 7:28pm On Feb 28, 2019
most nigerian women will tell you "your money is our money but my money is my money".

Joromi12:
Recently met a lady earning more than me. We go on a date she expects i pay her taxify and bills for the outing. Once in a while taxes me. We got into an arguement today. I told her if we get married i expect us to share bills in the home. She went ballistic o. Said never. Abeg what is she supposed to use her 450k salary for abeg. Women ehn. No wonder men die quick

Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by donstan18: 7:37pm On Feb 28, 2019
Joromi12:
Recently met a lady earning more than me. We go on a date she expects i pay her taxify and bills for the outing. Once in a while taxes me. We got into an arguement today. I told her if we get married i expect us to share bills in the home. She went ballistic o. Said never. Abeg what is she supposed to use her 450k salary for abeg. Women ehn. No wonder men die quick
It is not proper for a HUSBAND to share bills with his WIFE. As a husband, you should know your role.

As for relationship; Nobody should depend on his/her partner for finacial expenses.

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by CAPSLOCKED: 7:44pm On Feb 28, 2019
Joromi12:
Recently met a lady earning more than me. We go on a date she expects i pay her taxify and bills for the outing. Once in a while taxes me. We got into an arguement today. I told her if we get married i expect us to share bills in the home. She went ballistic o. Said never. Abeg what is she supposed to use her 450k salary for abeg. Women ehn. No wonder men die quick

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 7:46pm On Feb 28, 2019
Should any lady expect a man to pay her bills? No

The problem would always be the entitlement mentality.
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by BLUEJAYY: 7:52pm On Feb 28, 2019
I mean a lot of so-called independent women working and earning, are quite really stingy.

Women around here hoard their money a lot and still crave for men's money.

I can't wrap my head around why they act that way.

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 28, 2019
donstan18:

It is not proper for a HUSBAND to share bills with his WIFE. As a husband, you should know your role.

As for relationship; Nobody should depend on his/her partner for finacial expenses.
ehen That y u hardly see 3 generation pics of men. When woman don use bills kill u

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 7:38am On Mar 01, 2019
Some ladies have no shame

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by marvin906(m): 7:44am On Mar 01, 2019
There's no issue there..
first of all remove your eyes from her salary..
Second of all anybody can pay if she doesn't want to pay no biggie you foot the bills it won't kill you..
You asked her out in the first place
As far she doesn't put her father's responsibility on your head..
Wahala nor dey
Thirdly if she knows that you paying for everything is stressing you out financially and she's capable of supporting you buh refuses dude eject from that relationship

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 10:49am On Mar 01, 2019
marvin906:
There's no issue there..
first of all remove your eyes from her salary..
Second of all anybody can pay if she doesn't want to pay no biggie you foot the bills it won't kill you..
You asked her out in the first place
As far she doesn't put her father's responsibility on your head..
Wahala nor dey
Thirdly if she knows that you paying for everything is stressing you out financially and she's capable of supporting you buh refuses dude eject from that relationship
remove indeed. While we spend lik mumu. They acquire assets and other things. Den later wetin we gain
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 11:03am On Mar 01, 2019
Joromi12:
ehen That y u hardly see 3 generation pics of men. When woman don use bills kill u
Your eyes is in her pockets man. Atleast you know u won't smell shishi from d money o. Better go date a kind humble lady wey fit contribute d little she can
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 11:12am On Mar 01, 2019
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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:15am On Mar 01, 2019
That's why I keep saying that we don't have real feminist in Nigeria. All we have here just men haters hiding under feminism to cause problems. You want equality but run away from the responsibilities that comes with it. @ Op,abeg go and make ur own money.

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:24am On Mar 01, 2019
Don't bother marrying her... You're gonna stress out financially and she won't bother to help.....

Nigerian Feminists sha (Awon men haters) undecidedundecided
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by marvin906(m): 11:24am On Mar 01, 2019
Joromi12:
remove indeed. While we spend lik mumu. They acquire assets and other things. Den later wetin we gain



it's a brainless dude that spends stupidly on a chick
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 11:36am On Mar 01, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Your eyes is in her pockets man. Atleast you know u won't smell shishi from d money o. Better go date a kind humble lady wey fit contribute d little she can
ok o, we know them type last last dem go marry company driver and spons wedding after dem deon clock 33. make dem continue o. wicked things . in the traditional setting women no dey work thats y men bear it all. now that u guys work we shud still bear it all i once saw the treasury bill investment of one of my female single bosses by mistate which was 8m. yet she dey find man wey go pay her bills. una don kolo
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 01, 2019
Joromi12:
ok o, we know them type last last dem go marry company driver and spons wedding after dem deon clock 33. make dem continue o. wicked things . in the traditional setting women no dey work thats y men bear it all. now that u guys work we shud still bear it all i once saw the treasury bill investment of one of my female single bosses by mistate which was 8m. yet she dey find man wey go pay her bills. una don kolo
See look it's all about individual personality. You can get a lady who earns far more than you willing to support you. After all the family and all is hers to maintain too. So don't lose hope, you'll definitely meet your helpmate
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by cialis50: 10:29pm On Mar 01, 2019
Simplep:
lipsrsealed

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Sundarita: 10:39pm On Mar 01, 2019
Barawo, what is your business with what she does with her 350kNGN?
Are you not a man? Do you want to be dependent on your a woman throughout your lifetime?
That is how they will be creating issues out of no issue, see him entering heated argument. undecided

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 2:48pm On Mar 02, 2019
Sundarita:
Barawo, what is your business with what she does with her 350kNGN?
Are you not a man? Do you want to be dependent on your a woman throughout your lifetime?
That is how they will be creating issues out of no issue, see him entering heated argument. undecided
with my almost 400k and her 450k. Lets say we marry. We rent house of 1.2m in choice area close to our workplace as she wants. Run the house and all d bills alone. When i no go die bro. Marriage at least 3m will go too. Shud i go and steal
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by lilmax(m): 2:54pm On Mar 02, 2019
where are my independent women here earning 30k? come and answer this please
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:31pm On Mar 02, 2019
Sundarita:
Barawo, what is your business with what she does with her 350kNGN?
Are you not a man? Do you want to be dependent on your a woman throughout your lifetime?
That is how they will be creating issues out of no issue, see him entering heated argument. undecided
Please next time, try to grab what the Op is saying

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Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by jorion(m): 3:57pm On Mar 02, 2019
Sundarita:
Barawo, what is your business with what she does with her 350kNGN?
Are you not a man? Do you want to be dependent on your a woman throughout your lifetime?
That is how they will be creating issues out of no issue, see him entering heated argument. undecided

I swear it when the day I blow and finally comes decide to date a girl and then few weeks, few months, few years, few decades later she asks me that stupid question, 'are you not a man'. I will break whatever relationship we have so help me God. Where were you when I was striving, sleeping in car parks, traveling night journey, reading 24 hrs, going broke on my dreams just to put a decent plate of meal on my family's table. Arrant nonsense, rubbish black starving broke nigger mentality
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Nobody: 4:53am On Mar 03, 2019
jorion:


I swear it when the day I blow and finally comes decide to date a girl and then few weeks, few months, few years, few decades later she asks me that stupid question, 'are you not a man'. I will break whatever relationship we have so help me God. Where were you when I was striving, sleeping in car parks, traveling night journey, reading 24 hrs, going broke on my dreams just to put a decent plate of meal on my family's table. Arrant nonsense, rubbish black starving broke nigger mentality
https://www.nairaland.com/5047077/wife-reduced-me-common-trash www.nairaland.com/5039959/needs-marriage
Look at their type. Very silly parasitea
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Sundarita: 6:39pm On Mar 03, 2019
jorion:


I swear it when the day I blow and finally comes decide to date a girl and then few weeks, few months, few years, few decades later she asks me that stupid question, 'are you not a man'. I will break whatever relationship we have so help me God. Where were you when I was striving, sleeping in car parks, traveling night journey, reading 24 hrs, going broke on my dreams just to put a decent plate of meal on my family's table. Arrant nonsense, rubbish black starving broke nigger mentality
With this thought process, you may never blow.
Re: Should A Lady Earning Well Still Expect A Guy To Pay Her Bills by Biglittlelois(f): 7:01pm On Mar 03, 2019
Ziel20:
It's a man's pride to handle bills. But I think relationships should be handled differently. Anyone can pay the bill esp when both parties are capable.

I was starring at a lady with all admiration in a taxi, and when we got down, I reached to my wallet, brought out money and was gonna pay for the both of us. But the lady smiled at me and said I paid for you.

I was stunned. That's how u know a lady who wouldn't mind splitting up the bills in a relationship.

I'm not saying basically that u must expect a lady to pay ur taxi fare before judging but any reasonable lady won't see bills as a do or die stuff.


Well said.

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