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Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by lahizak: 5:38pm On Mar 01, 2019
Recently, I have been reading guys complaining real hard that they are spending all their savings on girls who later betray them.

Even though its understood that it's guys that are not very rich that make such complain but I still dey wonder, Why the hell will you spend all or a huge bundle of your savings on a girl.

Even if you in a serious relationship, the girl that means well will want you to save up. Guys please stop buying heaven and earth for a girl when you dont have much. If the girl calls you stingy, just smile and leave. Let her go hit herself a rich guy or sugar daddy.

Please, stop disturbing us with the fact that you spent all your savings on her. At the end of the day if you break up, she will still say you spent peanut and you are stingy.

I'm not saying you should not spend on her ooo. Spend the amount that you know you will still sleep comfortably after spending.

That's my little advice

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by CosmicPhoenix: 5:42pm On Mar 01, 2019
the main issue is how many of them will follow your advice,most of those guys find it difficult to help their fellow guys or family members but can even collect loan to spend on a lady all because of puna

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Acetin: 5:48pm On Mar 01, 2019
Guys should be careful about this, no matter what you give to a girl she will always see it as nothing because another guy out there bought or gave more to his own girlfriend. So be careful and manage your life jeje.
Only give to her what you know you can give to your follow guy without asking for something in return.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by TimiRume: 5:58pm On Mar 01, 2019
Actually, we love their salty tears.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by united442(m): 6:10pm On Mar 01, 2019
lahizak:
Recently, I have been reading guys complaining real hard that they are spending all there savings on girls who later betray them. Even though its understood that it's guys that are not very rich that make such complain but I still dey wonder, Why the hell will you spend al or a huge bundle of your savings on a girl. Even if you in a serious relationship, the girl that mean well will want you to save up. Guys please stop buying heaven and earth for a girl when u dont have much. If the girl call you stingy, just smile and leave. Let her go hit herself a rich guy or sugar daddy. Please, stop disturbing us with the fact that u spent all your savings on her. At the end of the day if you break up, she will still say u spent peanut and u stingy. I'm not saying you should not spend on her ooo. Spend the amount that you know you will still sleep confortably after spending. Thats my little advice

my brother u are 100% right ooo...this is seriously becoming too much..
the worst aspect is if they want 2 break the relationship,no matter the heaven and earth you spent,they wont even take a seconds to think twice abt those thingsgrin

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by united442(m): 6:13pm On Mar 01, 2019
Acetin:
Guys should be careful about this, no matter what you give to a girl she will always see it as nothing because another guy out there bought or gave more to his own girlfriend. So be careful and manage your life jeje.
Only give to her what you know you can give to your follow guy without asking for something in return.

true talk

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:38pm On Mar 01, 2019
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by ThatKING(m): 6:43pm On Mar 01, 2019
Simply put... "a relationship is not a business venture don't invest what you heart can't afford to lose"

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Nobody: 6:46pm On Mar 01, 2019
One can't reason with a man in love biko. Love is intoxicating ni

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by lilmax(m): 6:47pm On Mar 01, 2019
when you see through breast,yansh, pretty face, sex, you will be in control of your life

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by calebify1(m): 6:49pm On Mar 01, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy for their level and they come online to cry.

Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...
Bless you

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Fidelismaria: 6:51pm On Mar 01, 2019
Them no go hear

Dog wey wan lost no go hear Hunter's whistle

grin grin

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 01, 2019
I almost weep anytime I read such threads

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by MissSweet(f): 8:39pm On Mar 01, 2019
All I know is that as a guy go for the lady that is within your means...All that matters is happiness and loving each other.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Raalsalghul: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2019
lahizak:
Recently, I have been reading guys complaining real hard that they are spending all there savings on girls who later betray them. Even though its understood that it's guys that are not very rich that make such complain but I still dey wonder, Why the hell will you spend al or a huge bundle of your savings on a girl. Even if you in a serious relationship, the girl that mean well will want you to save up. Guys please stop buying heaven and earth for a girl when u dont have much. If the girl call you stingy, just smile and leave. Let her go hit herself a rich guy or sugar daddy. Please, stop disturbing us with the fact that u spent all your savings on her. At the end of the day if you break up, she will still say u spent peanut and u stingy. I'm not saying you should not spend on her ooo. Spend the amount that you know you will still sleep confortably after spending. Thats my little advice
Word! Someone opened a thread on it recently. Didn't even bother to read self.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by lahizak: 8:51pm On Mar 01, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?
True talk. Sincerely it baffles me. We guy should start admitting that dere re sum babes higher dan our standard. Na wen we dey young we dey say, we fit toast and date any babe. Now everybody has his own standard.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by lilmax(m): 8:53pm On Mar 01, 2019
MissSweet:
All I know is that as a guy go for the lady that is within your means...All that matters is happiness and loving each other.

And that's why most women have prices right?

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by ImaIma1(f): 10:52pm On Mar 01, 2019
Because a lot of guys have ojukokoro. They are very greedy and tend to go for the flashy girls that are high maintenance instead of cutting their coat according to their cloth. Then they come and wail when the girl exhibits what is in her.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by lahizak: 10:56pm On Mar 01, 2019
ImaIma1:
Because a lot of guys have ojukokoro. They go for the flashy girls that are high maintenance instead of cutting their coat according to their cloth. Then they come and wail when the girl exhibits what is in her.
God bless you ooo. D complain just dey plenty 4 social media dis days

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Papertrail11(m): 2:17am On Mar 02, 2019
I feel the ratio as to which we have commited boy friend and girl friend relationship is getting low and exsistent such that we may have a generation of men that didnt grow up to understand how a woman think and same for women too

among my circle of friends i can barely count 1 guy who is in a stable emotional relationship hookup culture has taken over and hey i will blame it on the modern day Woman who isnt settled for any long term growth but wants it now!

Society says " Go and hustle" and women will come to you but if you dont have that experience dating experince i mean you supposed to acuqire in your 20's trust me you would mess up!

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by johnkey: 2:24am On Mar 02, 2019
Bottom line, be a player, stay a player.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Nobody: 4:24am On Mar 02, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by OKUCHI11(m): 4:48am On Mar 02, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?
nice

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by luvyaself95(m): 6:59am On Mar 02, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?
I don't believe you are a girl until i see your pic cos no girl will be honest like this..

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Nobody: 7:04am On Mar 02, 2019
johnkey:
Bottom line, be a player, stay a player.
yes ooh! i agree with you on that account, make she dey continue to dey try to convert me from a player to a keeper naa hm go be her solo assignment, until me go ask me self one day, chai this woman no gree leave ooh despite my wrongful treatment to her and still, she dey continue to dey sacrifice for me; naa wetin she see in me self eh? Wey still make her stick to me? i believe this was the popular pattern or trickery single men played on their love interests in the 70s, 80s and early 90s, and it worked.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by MissSweet(f): 8:06am On Mar 02, 2019
lilmax:
And that's why most women have prices right?

If a man thinks he has what it take to pay the price then he should go ahead

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:17am On Mar 02, 2019
luvyaself95:
I don't believe you are a girl until i see your pic cos no girl will be honest like this..

It saves all of us headaches, actually. When certain kinds of guys ask me out, for instance, I help them make the decision that they couldn't make for themselves by declining...

When a man insists on pursuing a woman...the woman may eventually agree believing the man knows what he's getting himself into...

Not everyone is meant for us... else you become a thorn in their flesh rather than a comforting partner.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by Rextizzle(m): 8:32am On Mar 02, 2019
When a fool is in love, shitt like this happens.

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by slawomir: 8:39am On Mar 02, 2019
Guys should put an an end to their foolishness!
Because the truth is that a woman who truely loves you and have a good sense of responsibility don't give a fuckkkkk about your money.

If you like spend all your life savings on her it doesn't count and it will not make her love you in return.

Women always have this particular guy in their life that they can move mountains for. They will always be comfortable when they are with that guy whether he is broke or not.
When a woman loves she loves for real
There are two people you can not advice in the world
A man with money
A woman who is in love

Wait o did i just say two people?
Nooooo! They are three
Thirdly buhari supporters

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by careytommy37(m): 8:40am On Mar 02, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis grin If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

Well said!
cool cool cool

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Re: Spending On Girls: My Little Advice To Guys by ClearFlair: 8:40am On Mar 02, 2019
Poor girls always feel entitled. Avoid them.

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