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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Xisnin(m): 5:09pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
omooba969: A financially-savvy person will always sign a prenup. I don't have a problem with the love-struck men, what I hate is that the defenders of love often become bitter misogynist or worst murderers if things don't go their way. They start calling all women names and poisoning young men's mind when they were bested by their ex. This is why I am pro-prenup for all men. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Xisnin(m): 5:10pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
BuddhaPalm:We don't need a prenup law. Since marriage is a legal contract, the parties may decide whatever terms they agree on. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Xisnin(m): 5:11pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
lilmax: Everyone actually needs protection. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:12pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
abbey621: The money you get from the proceeds of the house sale will be shared. You can't beat the system easily |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by adontcare(f): 5:12pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
apelike1:Mr apelike1 |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:13pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Cantonese: It won't solve any marriage issues rather, it will lead to fewer marriages and more baby mamas |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:13pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
mmadu5: I tell you |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:16pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Tedpgrass: Laws adapt to address contemporary problems. Any state with a future will pass laws that give the best chance to its young. Soon, we’ll have court mandated child support, despite your marital status. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:16pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
pansophist: Isaiah 4:1 prophecy is coming to fruition gradually |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by etimism1981: 5:18pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
The man can appeal the case. I think the law is for the defence of the children. Women now buys property and register with their brother or sister name. Using their family name to build so that the man will not be aware. While they stay to struggle for the man property. A real man know what to do. Court is the final destination for such issues. If u don't contribute for my growth and u show no concern when l am struggling to build u cannot enjoy the proceed. Hell will let loose, court or no court.a |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by capitalzero: 5:20pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
good ruling. in civilized society, laws protect women and children.we need to protect our women and children 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by cococandy(f): 5:22pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
That’s your interpretation of my post. I never said any was greater than the other. Also no one can work full time and do mothering full time. There has to be daycare, nanny or daddycare involved. Someone has to be with the kids when the mom is working. Versus a full time mom who always has to be with the kids (in most cases). Don’t bring the competition into it Tedpgrass: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 5:24pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
BuddhaPalm: I will welcome that as the children who often have no say, are used as pawns in the game... Certain the laws when operational, will be challenged as well.. To reduce misuse as seen in some publicised cases. . |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by addictiv(m): 5:24pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Daboomb: You are shouting prenup, postnup up and down. Such agreements can always be invalidated and thrown out by the court esp if it's one sided or can be proven to be done under duress. It happens a lot. If you must sign a prenup let it be fair to both parties. You can't sign a prenup that says at event of divorce, the woman goes empty handed even after having kids and expect the court to Honour it except maybe the grounds for divorce is proven to be infidelity, the odds may be favourable . As for postnup nobody ll even look at it. 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by cococandy(f): 5:24pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
You have not a single clue how divorce works. Not one clue eddiebruk: |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:24pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Xisnin: Contracts are not made in a vacuum. There has to enabling legislation. For example, we can’t sign a (legal) contract for me to kill you and harvest your parts. Perhaps, it obtains in some alternate universe, but here it would be illegal. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by omooba969(m): 5:25pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Xisnin: I appreciate your position as per pre-nup but you're yet to address the adverse effects of pre-nups coz we must remember that we're not robots but humans with feelings. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by henryobinna(m): 5:27pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
dominique:that's a very stuuupid law and the American society is regretting it badly particularly the men, go to Quora and see for yourself how the men complain all the time questions related to these are asked. This will only end up destroying our society if the law is not critically looked into. Many women don't contribute shît to things like these, why then should they benefit when things go bad. Of course there are very few who do but the majority do not. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Nobody: 5:28pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 5:31pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
cococandy: I clarified the competition you subconsciously raised in your statement... If you are of the opinion that a full-time mother works as hard or even harder than a father who works full-time and manages to spend some quality time with his children... Then it's acceptable to think you will think the same of a full-time working mother juggling motherhood alongside.. Your argument smacks of the "2-bit theory".. A bit of both to garner points but not a true realistic analysis!! . |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by addictiv(m): 5:32pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
etimism1981:Why do u think a lot of billionaires and millionaires own charities and cooperations and will most of their properties to them. It serves as a means of shielding properties from divorce cases. If you must buy a house for yourself use a cooperation. The house is seen as a property of the company and not your personal property. However she can come for half of your stake in the company which you can also secure by using ur children as owners. With a clause that you ll oversee till they turn 18 or 35...depending on how you want it. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 5:34pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
omooba969: Please educate about adverse effects of pre-nup sir... It is someone who has an agenda that will be scared of a pre-nup... Male or female Often clear ideas as to division of assets are stipulated in a well-written pre-nup!! The disadvantage is the taxman knows your worth and will know to come calling soon.. But there are tax-efficient ways to get that loose end sorted. Lastly if a pre-nup means lack of trust... I argue it goes both ways.. I don't trust that you're not after my wealth You don't trust that I'll be of noble character to support you and the children in the event of a break. . |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by GraGra247(m): 5:37pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
BuddhaPalm: Does your house help deserve your house for doing domestic duties. Men do domestic duties too and nobody rewards them for that. And to be fair men reward their wives richly for whatever efforts she's making at home. They buy their wives cars, expensive clothes, jewelries, shoes, bags, expensive phones and expensive vacations. They pay her hospital bills and every bill accruing to her. So to demand she gets the house he built alone just because of house chores she does is ridiculous. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by abbey621(m): 5:44pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
TheKingIsHere: It won't as long as the sale was well before the divorce. All he has to say is that it was spent on taking care of the family. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by addictiv(m): 5:46pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
GraGra247:such laws are created to provide a stable upbringing for THE CHILDREN. Not the woman, however since its assumed that the woman is the primary caregiver to the children, she's also included. She falls out of such category if she decides to remarry but the house now goes to the children and they can decide she continues to live there with her new husband... .... 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by pansophist(m): 5:48pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
TheKingIsHere: Its already a fruition in places like Japan, and the west, especially USA and UK and Sweden. 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by cococandy(f): 5:48pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Again, I never said anything about a dad who manages to spend quality time with his children. You’re chasing your own tail. Read the story in the OP. Take my initial post that you quoted and apply it to the OP and that’s all I’m talking about. If you’re interested in going into different angles of which might be greater or possibly works harder in different situations, create another thread for that. Your responses are fueled by assumptions that you’re making but not really voicing. Assumptions that are wrong because you don’t even know the true stand of the person you’re quoting when it comes to working moms who also have to be primary care givers. Put your assumptions away. Stop chasing your tail and just apply my initial post to the story in the OP specifically and not as a general rule that applies to all families Tedpgrass: |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Daeylar(f): 5:49pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
The fact that nairaland men are so against these laws which are basically child support laws made to take care of the kids not the wife just shows that they are terrible human beings Being angry because the judge has to force them to take care of their kids and pass rulings to make sure that they cannot maltreat their children because of any useless feelings they have about their ex-wife is just pathetic and shows they are not worthy of procreating with 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by pansophist(m): 5:50pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Tedpgrass: I feel sorry for women, na them go suffer am pass. Laws like this has a backfire effect. It seems progressive, but in reality, its deterrent in nature. It will make marriage completely unattractive to men. Western societies are in an irreversible decline of replacement birth rates. Thanks to law like these, Nigeria is preparing to board the ship. And laws like these can only be enforced in civilised society. A typical naija man will rather kill the woman than watch her live in the house he built. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by omooba969(m): 5:51pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Tedpgrass: Therefore, the essence of marriage is absent unless you choose to be in denial. |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 5:57pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
omooba969: Not at all.. You simply go in without any rose-coloured spectacles.. Its well planned out and thought-through, open to errors, after all we are human.... But overall to minimise the possibility of shipwrecks I must say its not fail-proof but close.... . 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:03pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
GraGra247: It’s not even primarily for domestic chores, but for Opportunity Cost. When people get married, there’s the unspoken expectation that the woman dampen her ambition and look more towards the home front. Yes, it will be abused, as it currently is in the West. But you know how the law leans more towards acquitting a guilty man than convict an innocent person... That’s the same thing here. If not, the only thing women can do is cross their fingers and hope they are marrying a benevolent dictator who will not throw them out on a whim. The law is just trying to give the same kind of protection it offers employees. 3 Likes |
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