My question is how will a girl know that the guy is serious ( i mean when the guy is not ready for marriage) but proposes to a girl.
Am I new? If you say wellcome I wil be happy

paint a picture of him inside of u

Simple! He will give you an engagement ring and say "will u marry me."

may b YES may b No

I remember when i proposed to my girl: I was rolling on the floor! That may be your answer girl!

You don't "know" your husband-to-be. You choose your husband-to-be. As you lay your bed, so you shall lie on it, so choose wisely and trust only your own judgment since you will be the one to live with him. God luck

This one is serious - enough to ponder on. My mother (and when she says it, then it will come to pass - no be witch woman though).....says a guy who's serious doesnt need to tell you, he acts serious - a guy who wants to marry you, doesnt 'tell' you - he just  'marries' you - the long and short is; when you meet 'mr right', not 'mr right-now', 'the one', not 'the one that slipped away'..........it will hit you like a ton of bricks. don't worry, you'll not pass out and die!!!   YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST! hehehe - give us a bell when it does o!

@mizkay, wise words

@Outkast......girl I take a bow......*humble*

@Outcast: Correct talk.

True talk. U just know when you find him.

when he lets u spend his credit cards n he dosen;t get upset when u go past his max..then u've found him _{just kidding girl}

I have to agree with Seun there. You choose your husband-to-be because it's not only one person that is eligible for you.

a combination of seun and mizkay should do it, use a 70:30 ratio.

otokx:

a combination of seun and mizkay should do it, use a 70:30 ratio.

haba otokx....wetin i do you now? *carries hand on head*........havent you seen my age? i old pass Seun now......the guy is just a kid! I go take all dis my wahala come pour for dis poor pikin head.....then they will say cameroonian lady don kill niaja kid........biko biko..........spare me dis one........

what has age got to do with this?

Otokx, I guess Mizkay misinterpreted you, Lol. I think you were talking about combination of Mizkay and Seun's posts in 70:30 ratio, right? but she thought you were talking about combination of herself and Seun i.e. matchmaking.

@ IAH --- good chick, u got the jist.

That was a good explanation which i believe settles it.

thanks IAH, i was actually very confused, but when i think of it now, it wont be a bad idea.

@IAH- thanks for the clarification........much obliged
@otokx....haba you could have made it clearer but i feel you....

is mizkay from cameroun?

U look lovely by da way @ Mizkay

I thank you all and I love you all.
@ Kaylala * I'm female*
This question is a very difficult one cos the guy is not ready but wouldn't allow the girl to rest.This concerns my best friend and she is confused. The story goes like this- the guy has a girlfriend before he met this my friend.He said that the first girl paid for his house rent (when he had problem). He still lives in that house and would not allow my friend to visit him.He proposed to her and said she(my friend) should hold on until he packs out of that place.That he has one project he is pursueing, that if she comes there the other girl might spoil his plans. So how will one believe this.My people please help me out so that I will know what advise I will give my friend.

The truth? You don't know your husband until you marry one. It is like football, until the ring slips unto your finger, you aint got no husband

mmomi:

I thank you all and I love you all.
@ Kaylala * I'm female*
This question is a very difficult one because the guy is not ready but wouldn't allow the girl to rest.This concerns my best friend and she is confused. The story goes like this- the guy has a girlfriend before he met this my friend.He said that the first girl paid for his house rent (when he had problem). He still lives in that house and would not allow my friend to visit him.He proposed to her and said she(my friend) should hold on until he packs out of that place.That he has one project he is pursueing, that if she comes there the other girl might spoil his plans. So how will one believe this.My people please help me out so that I will know what advise I will give my friend.

hey lady, tell your friend not to be decieved ..........there is still something the guy is hiding from her! tell her to shine her face or else the guy go just chop waka

mmomi pls ur friend should 'ozo', '4/40' that is run for her dear life with all her strength. what kind of talk is that? is it that ur friend is one of them 'ugilities', there is nothing to think of here unless she wants to play with fire.

It's what I told her, that she should 'zero' her mind where the guy is to avoid heart break but she continues telling me that she is in love with the guy.*The thing tire mi o* The guy visits her but she cannot go to the guy's place.The major thing is that the guy is not financially balance (meaning poor) although he is still young.

Does your friend think she can't get a better guy or is age running out of her??

Anyways stuff like this happens and she really needs to be very careful with the game.Just tell her to realax and not rush into it.Thins will definitely work out 4 her.

if he let me spend is money as i want then i know is my husband to be, i get what i want.
^{i'm not joking}