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Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:29pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday. Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now. Let's call this my friend James. So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James. Please I need your advice for a friend. Thank you |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by peteruuu(m): 3:30pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123: ![]() Hanti! Tell us the truth ![]() ![]() |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:32pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
But the lady in question should tell the truth, does she have a kid out of wedlock? 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
dingbang:Yep she does A 10 month old child |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
peteruuu:Uncle Thomas. It's for a male friend |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:34pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123:ok. The husband should be her advocate now sha and make the parents see reasons why the baby won't bring problems in the future. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:36pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
dingbang:According to him, she did. But he didn't tell d family, the said sister found out and told the family. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:37pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
dingbang:That seems impossible since the parents doesn't want to hear of it |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123: Is it family that will live the marriage for him ![]() His answer to this question is what he needs |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:38pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123:ok so its his fault then. He should clear his mistake. Some sisters can be so annoying. Why didn't she go through him first, if I have such kind of sister I swear, I will be highly disappointed in her and may not forgive her until she fixes what she caused. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:39pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
dingbang:The sister took permission from him before telling the parents sha |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:40pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123:well, at this juncture, I think he should just give her belle then. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:41pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123:something that he is supposed to tell the parents by himself. I think the guy sef is not man enough. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:42pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by madridguy(m): 3:53pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
The guy in question should listen to his family otherwise he will regret is action. Marrying a lady with a baby daddy is completely waste of time. Let the lady go back to her husband " the father of her 10 month old baby ". 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by donbenie(m): 4:51pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Abuheekmat:Ol'boy forget o.. If you enter a marriage without the blessings of your family.. You're in for a long thing.. ![]() |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 4:58pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
donbenie: It's not blessings but curse to allow them to make you marry whom you don't want.. It's marriage we call it... Not dating. . No parent would want his or her kid to suffer in marriage...... I don't know why people take woman that has given birth as stigma that singles shouldn't marry.. Dumb cultural crap |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Maxi3k(m): 6:06pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
If that niggá loves her he should marry her
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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by lobell: 6:14pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123: How old was the baby when they started dating? James comes off as a weakling and is trying to help her by marrying her. I will not be surprised if she was his girlfriend and left him to get pregnant and is now back to James with some sob story about how it is him she always loved. Women can be evil sha. Quickly looking for maga to take care of her and her baby since baby daddym is not forthcoming. Better tell that spineless Arrow that he should run away as fast as his short short legs will allow him. There are plenty girls out there that have not open eye and he should go find himself one. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
Jenifa123:Knowing how dicey such matter can get with parents, he should have told everyone that he is the baby daddy. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Powermind: 6:28pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
lobell: This is exactly what I wanted to post. You can imagine such a wicked lady! Ten months old baby!!! Haba!! How long have they even been dating that he wants to marry her? What if the baby daddy later comes back and says he wants the lady back. Nna she should wait till the baby is grown to like 2 years to clear all doubts of any return of her baby daddy before thinking of even dating 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Printerscanner: 7:10pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
He should not try it. There are millions of young single ladies, responsible and Godly. This fornicator and baby mama should go and get married to Alhaji Megida and be his 7th wife. Useless olosho. Baby mamas are useless prostitutes. Fellow baby mamas that have picked up cutlasses and guns, go fight your baby daddy. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by revolt(m): 8:00pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
The family is simply wise. He will regret his life. The guy wants to wreck his life. |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by frozen70(f): 10:22pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
The most important thing in marriage is happiness of both parties What leads to happiness is love for each other If the guy in question is happier with her despite she has an infant, it's his choice, He already knows that she is nursing a baby His parents should allow him to follow his heart He is the one in the field and he is the one in procession of the ball, he should be left to play it well Marriage is not for sentiments but for true love and happiness |
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by SOFTDRINK: 2:05pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
The parents are right. No sane man marries a single mother. Why will a man waste his money marrying a single mother when he can get better girls for the same price? If the lady wants to marry,she should go and look for single fathers, divorcees ,polygamist etc. No sensible single man will spend his money to marry a second hand. |
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