Francisayo:
I'm getting tired abt this life, everything turning against me.

Without dad my mum tried her possible best to send me to school up to university level under thick and thin and graduated with no help from anyone including family..... I served d country via NYSC with all my strength and I passed out with some hope.......

During my time of service I tried all my best sending my younger sister to skul with assisting with d little stipends I'm getting.....Now I'm back home to my old mother.

U can't imagine d pain I'm having everyday seeing my mom in suffering at this time of her life wen she has a graduate as a son and I'm to be taking care of her.....I'm very hardworking but no matter how I'm trying its just not just enough.....

I have it in mind to relocate to Lagos maybe I'll see any job or God will provide anything to do....but I'm greatly discouraged cos I have no place to stay there and also broke even money for tfare and its shameful asking this my mom money cos I know her plight....

Friends now depart from me because of this even my long time girlfriend left because she can't cope any longer, now left with my mum and sister....

I'm pouring out my mind here cos I don't even know who to talk to again..... I'm getting fed up already.....

Family not helping, everybody minding his own business with their immediate family..... Even those that promised wen dad died were no where to be found.....

I studied Pure Chemistry from a reputable University....

To any that cares to read this my life story and can help in one way or d other......

I need a renewed hope, pls if u can help me with anything and anyhow, pls do, I owe my mom a lots she deserve d best.....

For those in similar situation as mine, May God guide us all and send a helper to locate us.....

My number O8132386289......

From Ondo State....

Lalasticlacla u can help me put this in front page maybe my prayer can be answered through someone from Nairaland.......

Thank you all in anticipation

Francisayo:
I'm getting tired abt this life, everything turning against me.

Without dad my mum tried her possible best to send me to school up to university level under thick and thin and graduated with no help from anyone including family..... I served d country via NYSC with all my strength and I passed out with some hope.......

During my time of service I tried all my best
sending my younger sister to skul with assisting with d little stipends I'm getting.....Now I'm back home to my old mother.

U can't imagine d pain I'm having everyday seeing my mom in suffering at this time of her life wen she has a graduate as a son and I'm to be taking care of her.....I'm very hardworking but no matter how I'm trying its just not just enough.....

I have it in mind to relocate to Lagos maybe I'll see any job or God will provide anything to do....but I'm greatly discouraged cos I have no place to stay there and also broke even money for tfare and its shameful asking this my mom money cos I know her plight....

Friends now depart from me because of this even my long time girlfriend left because she can't cope any longer, now left with my mum and sister....

I'm pouring out my mind here cos I don't even know who to talk to again..... I'm getting fed up already.....

Family not helping, everybody minding his own business with their immediate family..... Even those that promised wen dad died were no where to be found.....

I studied Pure Chemistry from a reputable University....

To any that cares to read this my life story and can help in one way or d other......

I need a renewed hope, pls if u can help me with anything and anyhow, pls do, I owe my mom a lots she deserve d best.....

For those in similar situation as mine, May God guide us all and send a helper to locate us.....

My number O8132386289......

From Ondo State....

Lalasticlacla u can help me put this in front page maybe my prayer can be answered through someone from Nairaland.......

Thank you all in anticipation

OlawaleBammie:
before i coment lemme ask dis, i hope u re not living inside one bush called village over der

Francisayo:


Its a local place....

OlawaleBammie:


I pity you, dey der dey complain oo, i hate it wen someone is sayin family members are not helping. com to tink of it, how many family members have u helped either inasmuch as its tough for u, its tough for dem either, dey dont owe u a dime its ur parents dat owe u fortune BECAUSE U RE THE PRODUCT AND CONSEQUENCE OF THEIR THAT FIVE MINUTES ENJOYMENT IN BED.

My 2cents for you is....get d hell out of ur comfort zone and see wat u can do for urself in d city, be radical, be violent with ur dealings, think d impossible, be ready to suffer, take d bold step and come out of d bush ogbeni.

See, nobody wil giv u money as u re asking for money here, even if u re given it wil never be enough.... u tink life is easy i pity you, better take ur luggage and see where u wil land urself and forget about ur certificate patapata


Go to a production company and find something to do der,
U can b a QC der
or a worker
u can even be a motorboy for those trailer loading stuffs out of d company and before u know it u wil hav traveled all over d country and it wil fetch u huge amount of money, work for like four years as motorboy den find a way to have ur own trailer and become oga, i bet it with u dat if u load out of d company and wen u re comin bak from ur journey u wil see some agricultural produce by dos traders to load and colet ur money, within three years of doin dis am sure u wil have ur own land if u wil hav not built on d land,


its better u tink well ogbeni, stop sayin family people doesnt help as if wen ur papa dey Bleep ur mama hard and ur mama was moaning all ur family members were der...mtcheeew....WISE UP KIDDO AND FORGET UR CERTIFICATE

Goddys:


You have no good advice. You reason like an unlearned person.

@Op, you need to relocate, try learn a skill online. You even write very well. Try your luck online and in other smart ways. Some jobs like motorboy are not meant for the learned ones.

Being a graduated l doesn't mean you will be rich. It only means you have a stronger brainpower that can think of a way to survive doing decent jobs or business.

If you are truly learned, then you must be contented with whatever life throws at you and strategize on how to defeat your challenges.

You don't owe your mother or anybody anything just as nobody owes you anything. Learn contentment. Leave and forget girls. Stop looking at the success of others. Try to dress well, look calm and happy.

That's what being learned is all about. You will survive eventually

ggoldmine:


You are not alone, there are lots of people in your shoe. I suggest you take your mind off getting a 'well-paid' job at the moment, that doesn't mean you should stop applying. Teaching jobs are the most readily available jobs one can get, I suggest you try that. Now, the pay may not be much but it will take your mind off the frustrations of not getting a big job and self-pity. While teaching with all your heart, look out for other opportunities (employmentnigeria. com), learn some skills, produce something (as a chemistry graduate) to sell, who knows?…your chance might come.
Keep on believing and being still, and you'll know that He is Lord!

Goddys:


You have no good advice. You reason like an unlearned person.

@Op, you need to relocate, try learn a skill online. You even write very well. Try your luck online and in other smart ways. Some jobs like motorboy are not meant for the learned ones.

Being a graduated l doesn't mean you will be rich. It only means you have a stronger brainpower that can think of a way to survive doing decent jobs or business.

If you are truly learned, then you must be contented with whatever life throws at you and strategize on how to defeat your challenges.

You don't owe your mother or anybody anything just as nobody owes you anything. Learn contentment. Leave and forget girls. Stop looking at the success of others. Try to dress well, look calm and happy.

That's what being learned is all about. You will survive eventually

OlawaleBammie:
i have a man, he's learned but due to some issues which i dont know, he was working with a company inside lagos as one of dos who deliver goods all over d country using long trailer, as at wen i knew d man he said he doesnt need any job from either government or any organization again, this man had four children at a time in university and he was doin fine on home front, he has a home of his own and he's very well to do because he used to realize money, i mean money, and he used to realize it legally and not d other way round, sometimes wen dey go to maiduguri dey might spend a week der and after delivery of goods, d trunk wil bcome empty and dey wil use it to load another goods from traders who want to get their goods down here at a cheaper cost, sometimes dey realize like 200k within dat week apart from der company paycheck, my brother people are makin money big tym

Dat is why i brot d idea of motorboy, and besides dat is not d only thin u can do, der are other tins u can do dat wil fetch u big and huge sum of money if and only if u can swallow ur pride of "am a graduate afterall"

my 4cents.

OlawaleBammie:


I pity you, dey der dey complain oo, i hate it wen someone is sayin family members are not helping. com to tink of it, how many family members have u helped either inasmuch as its tough for u, its tough for dem either, dey dont owe u a dime its ur parents dat owe u fortune BECAUSE U RE THE PRODUCT AND CONSEQUENCE OF THEIR THAT FIVE MINUTES ENJOYMENT IN BED.

My 2cents for you is....get d hell out of ur comfort zone and see wat u can do for urself in d city, be radical, be violent with ur dealings, think d impossible, be ready to suffer, take d bold step and come out of d bush ogbeni.

See, nobody wil giv u money as u re asking for money here, even if u re given it wil never be enough.... u tink life is easy i pity you, better take ur luggage and see where u wil land urself and forget about ur certificate patapata


Go to a production company and find something to do der,
U can b a QC der
or a worker
u can even be a motorboy for those trailer loading stuffs out of d company and before u know it u wil hav traveled all over d country and it wil fetch u huge amount of money, work for like four years as motorboy den find a way to have ur own trailer and become oga, i bet it with u dat if u load out of d company and wen u re comin bak from ur journey u wil see some agricultural produce by dos traders to load and colet ur money, within three years of doin dis am sure u wil have ur own land if u wil hav not built on d land,


its better u tink well ogbeni, stop sayin family people doesnt help as if wen ur papa dey Bleep ur mama hard and ur mama was moaning all ur family members were der...mtcheeew....WISE UP KIDDO AND FORGET UR CERTIFICATE

Nreebge:
OlawaleBammie, please how can you connect one with this your motorboy work ? I need to know

Toseenlove:


Truer words well said In a very brutal way. I'm absolutely sure most people In their right sense will deeply think now before bringing an Innocent kids Into this already saturated world....Most especially HELL called Nigeria.

Nreebge:
OlawaleBammie, please how can you connect one with this your motorboy work ? I need to know

OlawaleBammie:


my brother dat is wat i used to tell my mama den wenever she talked as if her predicament was caused by family members, am telling you she will go cold afterwards, but anyway, am sorry for how i reacted, pls forgive me @OP