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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by GeoAfrikana(m): 6:18pm On Mar 22, 2019
Raydos:
This is Nigeria

Look how we living nowww

My brother, the hustle is real. Unfortunately, the few lucky ones are accusing the many unlucky of laziness and indolence.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Toseenlove: 6:34pm On Mar 22, 2019
GeoAfrikana:


Mon Ami, please don't say that. It's not funny at all. The guy needs motivation.

@OP.
My friend please take heart and endure a little more. The interesting think about this life is that when you make a few tens of thousands, you'll completely forget what suffering looks like.
SO endure my friend, just a little more. And keep on praying. pray, strive and rely on your Creator. Indeed victory is near.

Even me that I'm telling you this, I'm consoling myself too. So endure my friend, it's a difficult country and times are tough.

Also, since you have a mobile phone to send create a post on nairaland. You should be able to do some online hustle. try to visit fiverr or upwork and try freelancing. hopefully something will pop-up.

I hope this helps. wink

Finally someone that has a lot of sense.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 6:59pm On Mar 22, 2019
eventsmallchops:


you are a corper , doing INEC election job for 13,000, I would have also done it if I have such opportunity ,but you are not in a position to help me, I posted this thread because of working class people who may have info about empolyment opportunity in their office with good mind to help, I'm not your mate, my wife finished NYSC 4 years ago..

I said can someone just engage me in any productive things, I can drive well, I have experience as a professional pastry chef, I know micro soft excel , I can work as admin staff, driver, support staff or anywhere , are you in position to help? its beyond you, so stop insulting me, in person i would have given you a dirty slap because I know sharp mouthed girls like you, I didnt mention money on this thread, I said I need a job, stay away from my thread! if you dont pray to be in my condition , this thread is not for kids like you.

I am sorry if I got you worked up or angry

or if you think I am mocking your predicament.

I will never do that, I was moved and push with what you wrote, that's why I said so.

it will be important for you to note, I never abused or insulted you on your previous post.

see in this life, people you call your family are not ready to help, not to talk of outsiders.

Don't relent on people for your start up capital or think a job is too small for you to do.

I wasn't inconsiderate to your plight.

Thank you.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 7:20pm On Mar 22, 2019
fatymore:


I am sorry if I got you worked up or angry

or if you think I am mocking your predicament.

I will never do that, I was moved and push with what you wrote, that's why I said so.

it will be important for you to note, I never abused or insulted you on your previous post.

see in this life, people you call your family are not ready to help, not to talk of outsiders.

Don't relent on people for your start up capital or think a job is too small for you to do.

I wasn't inconsiderate to your plight.

Thank you.

why not just go away so everybody can rest, you are found on jumping on thread and write "go and fry Akara and Agege bread, there is no shame in it, do you want to fry that Akara and Agege after your NYSC? the man you are talking to has worked in a standard firm before now , has driven a nice car assigned to him, lost his job and he's looking for another job, why are you against it? what is your problem? I didnt know you, nor had you in mind when I was creating this post, I just dont know why you wont leave me alone, you said you are a Corper right? do you want to work in a corporate organization for 3 years and then return to fry Akara and Agege bread by your junction? show me where I said I'm looking for start up capital on this thread, your problem exactly? why are you so bend on making me look bad? obviously you dont have a job! please leave me alone, I beg you in the name of God, go away!


EDITED.

It's Okay , Thanks Fatymore, Faty Bumbum smiley My Sister , you don't have to be sorry at least you made a point and we all still have a lot to learn in life, I I've learnt some things here today , so I will be saying Thanks to you , don't mean to be rude as well. I'm sorry

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by JbravoAdodger(m): 7:56pm On Mar 22, 2019
Ganjafama:
You don't need help son. What you need is manners. By the way, I got the help I asked for from someone whose moniker I won't mention., but you'll continue to wallow in poverty and lack because of your bad manners.By the way, if you need money to buy the ropes for committing suicide (I know you don't have any), just pm me your account details and I'll send you some.

Me I need rope oh, plenty rope. I should send my details?

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ganjafama(m): 8:10pm On Mar 22, 2019
JbravoAdodger:


Me I need rope oh, plenty rope. I should send my details?
Lol , God will not make us need rope.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 8:12pm On Mar 22, 2019
eventsmallchops:


why not just go away so everybody can rest, you are found on jumping on thread and write "go and fry Akara and Agege bread, there is no shame in it, do you want to fry that Akara and Agege after your NYSC? the man you are talking to has worked in a standard firm before now , has driven a nice car assigned to him, lost his job and he's looking for another job, why are you against it? what is your problem? I didnt know you, nor had you in mind when I was creating this post, I just dont know why you wont leave me alone, you said you are a Corper right? do you want to work in a corporate organization for 3 years and then return to fry Akara and Agege bread by your junction? show me where I said I'm looking for start up capital on this thread, your problem exactly? why are you so bend on making me look bad? obviously you dont have a job! please leave me alone, I beg you in the name of God, go away!

I am sorry, I don't wish any bad for you or whatever.

May God in his infinite mercy answer all your prayers.

I don't know you and I am not jumping on people's thread .

Don't assume what you don't.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 8:13pm On Mar 22, 2019
Livecamp09:


If u don’t have anything meaningful to say, why don’t u keep your mouth shut and act like a normal human being.. Stop rubbing his conditions on his face


I don't want to reply you the way you did.


And may God forgive you for thinking I am rubbing it on his face.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:05pm On Mar 22, 2019
job job job! I need an angel please, or someone to engage me in any reasonable productive activity please! not a troublesome person please.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by izzou(m): 9:18pm On Mar 22, 2019
eventsmallchops:
job job job! I need an angel please, or someone to engage me an any reasonable productive activity please! not a troublesome person please.

Since you drive well, why not look for a driving job? Preferably taxis.

In Lagos, you can drive on uber or bolt. But since you live in the North, you can try and look for all these small corollas and transport people.

I'll advise you look for something that can give you daily earnings rather than a monthly stipend.

Don't give up bro. You go dey alright Las Las grin

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by kristen12(f): 9:28pm On Mar 22, 2019
Many of us are about giving up because of this job issue. Just hold on, things will get better.

I followed your previous thread before and I think you have a temper you should work on. Sometimes just ignore instead of replying and cussing people out.

It would be fine, it's just a matter of time.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by JoannaSedley(f): 9:39pm On Mar 22, 2019
I can't link this personality to anybody I know for a job...so unstable and irrationally angry.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:46pm On Mar 22, 2019
kristen12:
Many of us are about giving up because of this job issue. Just hold on, things will get better.

I followed your previous thread before and I think you have a temper you should work on. Sometimes just ignore instead of replying and cussing people out.

It would be fine, it's just a matter of time.

Thank You, its quite depressing because we are all human and nobody is born to be wretched in life , things must change for better ... God will show us the way , send us an angel because we can not avoid to fail in life, I will never give up till things turn around for better, Thanks.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by 1Sharon(f): 9:52pm On Mar 22, 2019
Yeye OP just wants money

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Abcruz(m): 9:57pm On Mar 22, 2019
eventsmallchops:
How will I have two hands, two legs, two eyes, even good look, strong will to work and unable to find opportunity in this country? passing through a lot of struggles, I have seek here and there for a chance, or any kind of opportunity but no way! I have a child to care for, why must I be squatting with friend when I should be able to provide food for my child, can someone just offer me a chance, can someone just engage me in any productive things, I can drive well, I have experience as a professional pastry chef, I know micro soft excel , I can work as admin staff, driver, support staff or anywhere at all but I don't know why no opportunity has come my way ? this is disheartening and making me feel like there is no need for my existence, what is it that I can not do? I can fix in anywhere, why is my case like this?

please can someone just call me for interview or just engage me in anything please?

Who among you fears the LORD and obeys his servant? If you are walking in darkness, without a ray of light, trust in the LORD and rely on your God.--Isaiah 50:10

For our present troubles are small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!--2 Corinthians 4:17

Nevertheless,
Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way prosperity will come to you--Job 22:21

The ear that listens to the reproofs of life abides among the wise!!!

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 10:01pm On Mar 22, 2019
there is no giving up, I remain optimistic.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 10:03pm On Mar 22, 2019
Abcruz:


Who among you fears the LORD and obeys his servant? If you are walking in darkness, without a ray of light, trust in the LORD and rely on your God.--Isaiah 50:10

For our present troubles are small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!--2 Corinthians 4:17

Nevertheless,
Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way prosperity will come to you--Job 22:21

The ear that listens to the reproofs of life abides among the wise!!!


Thank You.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by PattyB001: 10:19pm On Mar 22, 2019
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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mizwisdom(f): 11:44pm On Mar 22, 2019
eventsmallchops:


why not just go away so everybody can rest, you are found on jumping on thread and write "go and fry Akara and Agege bread, there is no shame in it, do you want to fry that Akara and Agege after your NYSC? the man you are talking to has worked in a standard firm before now , has driven a nice car assigned to him, lost his job and he's looking for another job, why are you against it? what is your problem? I didnt know you, nor had you in mind when I was creating this post, I just dont know why you wont leave me alone, you said you are a Corper right? do you want to work in a corporate organization for 3 years and then return to fry Akara and Agege bread by your junction? show me where I said I'm looking for start up capital on this thread, your problem exactly? why are you so bend on making me look bad? obviously you dont have a job! please leave me alone, I beg you in the name of God, go away!



Why are you taking everything personal? If you don't like her suggestion you can ignore it or simply type "thanks" then move on. You keep picking people's words up and down. You're giving the impression that there's no market for business where you live and you can't relocate unplanned, then why not do what others are doing and thriving too? You can't stick to events and small chops where it won't move, but you can always do what works at your end


PS: look into security jobs

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by LewsTherin: 11:58pm On Mar 22, 2019
I didn't want to post on this thread but I think I should.

I read your first thread and was considering contacting you. A friend needed a cook. But you were based in a different city so it wouldn't have worked.

But now, I'm relieved I didn't. I want to believe you are trolling because if you aren't, you have a long way to go. Your utterances and attitude so far suggest that you believe the world owes you. Even if you don't think so, that is the impression you give me. You most definitely have not put your best foot foward. You've spent more time putting your foot in your mouth instead.

Well, good luck to you. I hope there is someone who can take your attitude.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by jesmond3945: 12:36am On Mar 23, 2019
eventsmallchops:


I have sent out series of job application letters, applied online and all that but I have not received a single reply so far, I'm just tired of this life, even a goat is better than me right now.
if you apply why don't you call them to follow up? Why not change your location? Why not hit the street? See in Nigeria now nothing comes on a platter. Try and do some volunteer work and besides what of the father of your kid? Never you think of committing suicide. Give your life to Christ, always play worship songs, always read your bible. Depression is from Satan.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by cococandy(f): 3:50am On Mar 23, 2019
You made your condition sound really dire. To the point of saying that you’re ready to commit suicide. Anyone who suggests that you fry akara at this point is not making a degrading suggestion to you, considering that people do and use it to survive and even live okay lives. Is that not better than killing yourself?

If your condition is still at a high level that frying akara is too much of a downgrade, then it’s not as dire as you’re painting it. Just saying.
eventsmallchops:


why not just go away so everybody can rest, you are found on jumping on thread and write "go and fry Akara and Agege bread, there is no shame in it, do you want to fry that Akara and Agege after your NYSC? the man you are talking to has worked in a standard firm before now , has driven a nice car assigned to him, lost his job and he's looking for another job, why are you against it? what is your problem? I didnt know you, nor had you in mind when I was creating this post, I just dont know why you wont leave me alone, you said you are a Corper right? do you want to work in a corporate organization for 3 years and then return to fry Akara and Agege bread by your junction? show me where I said I'm looking for start up capital on this thread, your problem exactly? why are you so bend on making me look bad? obviously you dont have a job! please leave me alone, I beg you in the name of God, go away!

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 5:10am On Mar 23, 2019
eventsmallchops:


you are a corper , doing INEC election job for 13,000, I would have also done it if I have such opportunity ,but you are not in a position to help me, I posted this thread because of working class people who may have info about empolyment opportunity in their office with good mind to help, I'm not your mate, my wife finished NYSC 4 years ago..

I said can someone just engage me in any productive things, I can drive well, I have experience as a professional pastry chef, I know micro soft excel , I can work as admin staff, driver, support staff or anywhere , are you in position to help? its beyond you, so stop insulting me, in person i would have given you a dirty slap because I know sharp mouthed girls like you, I didnt mention money on this thread, I said I need a job, stay away from my thread! if you dont pray to be in my condition , this thread is not for kids like you.
This attitude will not get you the help you desire. Help can come from anywhere, including the 'kids' you're underrating.

Success Adegor is a hit today because of an OND student who took interest in her, and God used that OND 'kid' to catapault the little girl to relative stardom.

Embrace humility because it is even written in the bible that "God lifts up the humble, but resists the haughty (proud)"

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eyinjuege: 7:07am On Mar 23, 2019
eventsmallchops:


https://www.nairaland.com/4545312/please-man-create-job-himself / same you looking for someone to teach you web design free of charge, I suggest you pay attention to solving your own problem please, I dont need you to insult me


Unfortunately, you fall in the category of unemployable....
I'm not beefing you here, but just stating some hard facts. Your attitude needs to be worked on. Other than your attitude, your view on life is also so despairing. No employer would want that around them.
Employers need people that are problem solvers, who think outside the box. You always seem to see only the potential problem, never a solution or possible ways of moving around the obstacle.
I wish you well in your search. Again, work on your attitude

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by prettysassygirl(f): 7:23am On Mar 23, 2019
I don't know why Fatymore is apologizing to this uncouth fellow, even if I have a position to offer u, I definitely won't, cos u are too arrogant, I don't know who the heck how think you are, your wife finished nysc four years ago, and so bleeping what? ? change your attitude man,nobody likes a proud man, even you creator, who is more than able to give you what u want. you look down on people too, very bad, if your type get money for this life, everybody must to dey bow down for u.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 7:32am On Mar 23, 2019
prettysassygirl:
I don't know why Fatymore is apologizing to this uncouth fellow, even if I have a position to offer u, I definitely won't, cos u are too arrogant, I don't know who the heck how think you are, your wife finished nysc four years ago, and so bleeping what? ? change your attitude man,nobody likes a proud man, even you creator, who is more than able to give you what u want. you look down on people too, very bad, if your type get money for this life, everybody must to dey bow down for u.
it is well... i dont want him to see me as an obstacle to his potential investor but believe me attitude is like a smoke.
good morning.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Cherez: 8:34am On Mar 23, 2019
eventsmallchops:



please always walk away from my threads, why are you are insulting me, I didnt open thread because of you, same you insulted me in my last thread, I believe God can use someone to offer me a job on this forum and that's why I open this thread, please stop insulting me and go away. Thank you , May God Bless you
Guy, from the look of things you seem not to need help.
Even if people offer you help in bad ways just accept the help and abandon the bad/rude ways.
Just get to the site the lady told you about and get the job.
Then borrow 5k and jump trailers down to the location of your job. Oga, sleep inside the gutter if need be, get what you want and one day be out of the gutter to your house.
Bros, life is tough ooooo!
Take responsibility and stop enjoying a good house your pal has, go out their, slave your ass and make it.
LIFE IS HARD!!!! This is the truth

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 1:34pm On Mar 23, 2019
fatymore:

it is well... i dont want him to see me as an obstacle to his potential investor but believe me attitude is like a smoke.
good morning.

I ran out of data last night, just coming online now, at least you eventually accomplished your mission, exactly what you did on my previous thread! despite begging you to go away. you promised to set me up, hope you are very happy now, Thank You
God is on his Throne.
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 2:20pm On Mar 23, 2019
1Sharon:
Yeye OP just wants money


Imagine a comment like this? what is the relationship between my post and her comment? how old is she that she had the gut to call me YEYE OP, are we mate? saying I was only looking for money, who doesn't want money? is that not why I'm looking for a job? none of you condemn her desperate attempt to give the dog a bad name , I expect reasonable comments and not " YEYE OP", its not funny to me, I never mentioned money on this thread, I was initially looking for a business partner for my catering business before on here but dumped the idea after seeing high number of people begging for money in a very annoying manner on this forum and so decided to seek for assistance to search for a job like I stated in my post, I may have been angry because each time I create a post to seek attention of people in position to help, some kids staying in the hostel rush in and start insulting, create confusion on the thread which has being common occurrence on here, I should have just ignore her with believe that her opinion wont have any effect , but i saw this coming, there is no witch in any hidden place, B'cos this thing she just did now clearly gave her out as one , If I had taken my time to create a thread, why must she come in to post jargon when she knows the issue is beyond her?

anyway, I didn't post this for this reason. whatever problem I'm facing is my problem and all this attacks wont solve it! so I wont even read any negative comment henceforth, I apologize to every well meaning people for repelling her insults, I will no longer respond to any insult.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by DBestDoc(f): 2:21pm On Mar 23, 2019
fatymore:

it is well... i dont want him to see me as an obstacle to his potential investor but believe me attitude is like a smoke.
good morning.

Don't get emotional about this, don't fall for his emotional blackmail. You did absolutely nothing wrong.

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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ganjafama(m): 2:22pm On Mar 23, 2019
eventsmallchops:


I ran out of data last night, just coming online now, at least you eventually accomplished your mission, exactly what you did on my previous thread! despite begging you to go away. you promised to set me up, hope you are very happy now, Thank You
God is on his Throne.
Shut your mouth you idiot! Proud and arrogant peeps like you don't deserve help. I can assure you that the help you are seeking from this platform, you won't get it. Learn to work on your attitude before asking for help.

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