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SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by complicatedlove: 10:47am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Had to create a new moniker for this. And because yours truly also reads Nairaland, I won't go too detailed and will keep it short so she won't decipher it. There is a serious problem giving me sleepless nights. I don't know what to do again. It's not money, it's love. Love wants to kill me. It goes like this…................. I once met a girl years ago, let me call her C and I swear I was the type that never believed in love at first sight but I don't know wtf happened to me or how it happened I just fell in love like that. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I toasted her or something, it started like this she walked up to me at a grocery store and said hello. I just Hi'd back and moved on, only got a little glimpsed of her face because that night I had a lot it my mind and talking to a stranger wasn't my thing to begin with, neither was I in the mood that night. Days later, we meet again, this time, still a casual chat but this time around I saw her well and my God she was just it. I don't know how, but it was like love at first sight hit me so hard, like Cupid shot me a billion arrows, like someone blew some sparkle dust into my eyes and I just felt love so strong so deep that moment - I knew it. Don't get me wrong, this isn't about lust nor is it about physical attraction primarily. No doubt she was pretty af, aswerugawd, but she wasn't my type really. My type is the busty, curvy, big round soft jiggly 4-dimensional ass, dark or brown, slender tall. She didn't have none of that. We was just plain like a 2-dimensional 9ja flag, but to be fair, her eyes got me, she had the most prettiest eyes ever. Can't go into details of the eyes, so as not to expose too much, but trust me, her eyes were angelic, not the every day type you see. Later same week I think, maybe like 4 days after, I see this pretty girl and I was like damn, let me just chyke this babe, didn't even know we had met before that evening, didn't recollect at first. Looking back now, I think it was fate that brought her to me somehow, I don't even know how to explain. I'm not the type that goes around place to place chyking females. I'm a proud mudafuka, lol, quite handsome too, well at least, no girl has ever called me ugly before. So for me to chyke a girl, something must be different about her, as in something must stand out about her from the rest. And that something for me is not big ass or big boobs, even though l like these ![]() ![]() |
Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by complicatedlove: 10:51am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by Headlesschicken(m): 10:57am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by Iamicekid(m): 11:15am On Mar 26, 2019 |
I would advice you to go for H cause it always good for a man to marry a woman that love him more than he love her it always balance everything that’s from my own point of view tho, but if you see you can’t work out then you can go for C but know for a fact there would be time wia trouble will arise with C tho |
Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by kollinzgee(m): 11:22am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Iamicekid: you think like me niggur,i always go for the one that love me genuinely i dont have strenght for woman wahala.abeg drink abeg for this comment. 1 Like
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Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by akiinzz: 11:31am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You know the right choice is in choosing C because the love is genuine. What happens to H when the physique takes a turn, maybe due to older age or the attraction turns boring. Long distance is the only obstacle between you and C but with the right commitment, it won’t matter much. |
Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by aanuoluwami14(f): 11:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: SOS: I'm In Serious Trouble. Somebody Help Me Before Love Kills Me by Martinez39(m): 11:45am On Mar 26, 2019 |
I took my time to read this nonsense. You are still naive and just like all boys, grew up being programmed by romantic novels, telenovelas, society and movies on what love is and how it should be. The overly romanticised love. You are deeply into this kind of love. It's quite pitiful. You have to grow up and love the personality rather than the physical appearance. A beautiful physical appearance doesn't equate a sweet personality except in telenovelas and fantasies. Truth is during hard times, beauty is of no use as most women don't want to have anything to do with a broke ass. C and H might not even actually love you and are just pressing your mumu button. You will know if this is true during hard times or if a higher bidder comes calling. So you have to set your priorities right. You must learn to love the personality and not the appearance. You seem so caught up in appearance that you build an illusory love and images of these girls' personalities (which is based on their appearances) in your head. This is childish. Marriage is not like what you see in movies, it can be challenging and it demands a lot of sacrifice that's why many these days are getting divorced. They want to eat their cake and have it. Hustle, if you have done that and you are successful, go and look for someone with a good personality, good looks(not really important) and will take up the roles of a good wife when the time is right while you cover the bills. Don't create long term relationships based on beautiful face, big ass, thick thighs, big boobs and what you consider 10/10 physical features or assume their personality based on these. Many girls who satisfy these conditions are devils on the inside, they don't care about you except your money and are good at concealing their characters. Their characters come out during hard times and when you can no longer provide for them. All you've done for them in the past doesn't matter so look well and be realistic in your pursuit. By your own naivety, your are stranded in your love life. Left to me, I would like if you maintain your current relationship and tell C that there cannot be anything between both you. Follow the mother of your child. ![]() |
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