This is how one lady that was about to get married a month to the wedding she told me she's not happy � I ask her why? She said is her husband to be that is pushing her in to the marriage then i ask her again why are you not happy she now said her MAN is one minute Guy i said for real that's the reason you not happy?� about the marriage she said yes


From that moment i learned never to let a hoe be a housewife

A cheating wife or husband is dangerous

Preciousgirl:
Lies

This write up is the bitter truth.

hammerFC:
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PORN-STARS ARE HAVING SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI?


PROSTITUTES HAVE SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI.


THE DAY U LEARN SEX IS A THING OF PLEASURE FOR MEN AND WOMEN IS THE DAY U WAKE UP.


A WOMAN WILL FUCUK U FOR THE FUN AND NOT LOVE U. FACT!


SHE WILL GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS.

Well spoken my dear, guess that's why smart ladies don't wanna stay married no more. They have 1 or 2 kids and leave the man, just for their sanity!!! I am just so happy more women are wiser now!!! Bunch of self centered kids who knows nothing about being responsible!!!

...... But the truth women dey dey really try marriage for real woman na big deal she go guard and handle wit care ......sometimes temptation when some married women dey face nor get part 2 but still overcome am ..men nor need temptation before dey even cheat. But if u give ur wife reason to cheat on u and evenually she cheat just forget and nor expect love again from r na how u go dey die she go dey find dey go

kennygee:
Na wa o

Do we forget that God will not judge us based on our gender but on sins committed?

It is very okay for a man to cheat but it is dangerous for a woman to?

The Bible says that God looked at His creation and said Everything he created was good. So God created men to be polygamous so they can commit the adultery/fornication He said is a sin?


Make Jesus do come abeg.

It's obvious You don't really understand the writer's standpoint. He wasn't justifying the act of cheating in either genders. Cheating hasn't been of good use to any, but rather dangerous. God didn't create any gender to be a cheat, against Your notion. Cheating either for the fun of it(pleasure) or as a means of revenge or transfer of emotions/love as the case may be CANNOT be justified come-what-may. Hence, the writer's points that one goes with pleasure, the other goes with emotions, BUT NONE IS RIGHT.

maybachmusic:
Runs gals have sex without emotions

runs girls are not married

hammerFC:
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PORN-STARS ARE HAVING SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI?


PROSTITUTES HAVE SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI.


THE DAY U LEARN SEX IS A THING OF PLEASURE FOR MEN AND WOMEN IS THE DAY U WAKE UP.


A WOMAN WILL FUCUK U FOR THE FUN AND NOT LOVE U. FACT!


SHE WILL GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS.

Don't even go there, they fall in love with their customers whybcuz... "kai, that guy can Bleep" just like that Oooo... They will stop collecting money from you after yanshing them...

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Good Thread,Haven't read something like this in a long while

Ayotemide:


another ridiculous article to justify the lawlessness of cheating, with the ridiculousness of making Male cheats 'righteous' and females 'villains'.

How dumb does one get to justify any kind of cheating?

no one is justifying the cheating of any gender here, neither is anyone encouraging it.
We are merely comparing the risks!!!

nnadychuks:
they have sex cos of money. What do married women have sex for?

MONEY, PROMOTION AT WORK, POWER, ETC

Men are just selfish and sex obsessed that's why they keep vomitting this thrash about men can have sex without emotions so wives should tolerate their cheating.
In fact the more I read Nairaland men's comments the more I realise how very useless, senseless and extremely selfish Nigerian men are

So your wives should be 100% faithful while you cheat because you can have sex without emotions?

What about men that end up loving their girlfriend so much thy marry them and start rejecting/abandoning their first wives like the evil pieces of shiit many men are?

What about STDs? Or you think condoms protect against every single sexually transmitted disease? Newsflash, there are diseases you can get even after having sex with a condom. So after catching on of these diseases you want to go back home to infect an innocent woman who was busy staying faithful and respecting herself?

What about if your condom tears during sex and you get another woman pregnant? Or worse contact HIV from her? Should your wife also stay and start taking HIV drugs forever because you were a fool that had no control over his sex urges?

Fight corrupt politicians them no fit fight, only to come online and fight women and claim superiority when the rest of the world disrespects them for being dishonest scammers.

Nigerian men are a disgrace.

Biglittlelois:
A cheating wife AND a cheating husband is dangerous, I dislike one sided views

God bless your mother, for this comment you are great

Preciousgirl:
Lies

Madam, What Then Is The Truth

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

this one na yeye talk.


so a woman having an affair with the gateman is emotionally attached to the gateman?


Yeye

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Biglittlelois:
A cheating wife AND a cheating husband is dangerous, I dislike one sided views

Everything the op said is the truth. We are attracted by what we see my dear.I might have sex with you without any emotion attach but I can't say the same for women.

Biglittlelois:
A cheating wife AND a cheating husband is dangerous, I dislike one sided views

Though it is applicable to men as well most especially when the wife in question is rich more than the man, it happens like that as well but it is vulnerable in women than me.

Biglittlelois:
A cheating wife AND a cheating husband is dangerous, I dislike one sided views

Both party is dangerous they contact disease and infect their partner, condom dos not save cheaters 4rm disease every one should zip up

What exactly is the point of this thread? Women shouldn't cheat but men should?
Its not every girl that wants emotional attachment before sex. Crap.

Headlesschicken:
A cheat x a cheat, doesn't matter d gender,n!gga stop talking sh!t,most ppl now cheat wivout reason cos it has just become a lifestyle... We r all human beings regardless of the gender..

true

Life can be refer to a coin, (up and down) but one appears more when and that's where probability comes in, in every situation in life, there is a probability that the up happens or the down happen according to my coin analysis but in a particular situation, one is more likely to happen than the other, like for example, we believe if you rob, you are going to get caught but to be sincere, there are people who have robbed and they haven't been caught till they leave the profession, but 70% of what happens most of the time is that when you rob, you get caught. If you can understand this ideology, you would realize there is no point arguing because the Op is actually Right, pls permit my errors if I make any, I am open to correction

hammerFC:
ALL THIS SUGAR MUMMY FUUCUKING YOUNG BOYZ UP AND DOWN, I WONDER IF THEY DO SO WITH EMOTION OR JUST FOR FUN.


NIGGAS LEARN, WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE U OR MAYBE WORSE.

don't mind him

Adakintroy:
You are referring to African women. Mostly subdue by cultural thinking of what a woman should or should not do. Lift those away and take yourself to the western societies and women are having one night stands like no one business.

no mind him

Superman30:
no one is justifying the cheating of any gender here, neither is anyone encouraging it.
We are merely comparing the risks!!!

Compare the gains of faithfulness, I can read quite well BTW.

partially accepted.

I'm here to read and learn

Preciousgirl:
Lies

To add to what he op has said so far:

Women are naturally inclined to be taken care of by ONE MAN AT A TIME.
On the other hand, Men are emotionally and psychologically built to handle and take carenof multiple women.
Men can even love multiple women at the same time. Men have such capacity.

Big lie... Cheating is same for both sex. Women don't have to kill, divorce is always an option. Even people who never cheat divorce. This poster is crazy. Cheating kills a home and removes God's grace, whether from a husband or wife

Your statements are true words

Women are delicate people to love

The only way out is for a man to love his wife and avoid situations that will warrant her to have any reason whatsoever to love another man

Women have just one heart and once its not taken care they move on to another man with the same heart of love to give to him

Men have more than one heart of love to give that's why you see them having a wife and still have girlfriend yet the love is not clashing in this head and he can still handle both women in his life

It's not so for women

The moment a woman who is married finds love with another
Automatically the attention is shifted to the new man

It's a situation that can be avoided by men

How should it be avoided

Firstly marry a woman you are willing to show love to and give her attention

Secondly, master the act of love making to your woman that will take her to orgasm and make her feel like a real woman

Thirdly, protect her from your family because she is prone to attack from her inlaws

Lastly, I didn't meantion money here because what women want is pure love not money,
Money comes in to blend the relationship.

victorian:
Both cheating husband and cheating wife are like suicide bombers in one's life.

They are both dangerous in marriage.
None is different from the other.

They are both dangerous but women are more dangerous, they can do anything for this new partner. Once a girl is in love, she can easily be manipulated.

First hand information- a woman killed her NNPC staff husband because her BF told her to do it. Most times the husband live at the mercy of the woman's bf. Married women don't have multiple sex partner if she's cheating but a married man can be sleeping with several girls this is because no emotion is involved and the man can easily cut away.

SEXYBILLIONAIRE:
I have cheated on my wife a few times and man I love her like die. The time she cheated on my when we where in a relationship she was already no more into me. So the op is right

you cannot disrespect your wife and claim you love her. Love and respect go hand in hand.

Your wife cheated (disrespected ) you then because she didn’t love you. She doesn’t love you now and may be cheating (disrespecting) you now but just clever to hide.