I use to be in that same position.. I'm 29 right now and I look like 19(confirm pictures @believe victorhillside aniekan @facebook)...I pull through by killing such feelings and let my self esteem do the talking.. I associated with people of my age and above and I learn to wear clothes that suits my age..and projects my age not my size..try wearing natives etc...don't know if it helps though but that's what I merely did....#believe

vectorhills:
I use to be in that same position.. I'm 29 right now and I look like 19(confirm pictures @believe victorhillside aniekan @facebook)...I pull through by killing such feelings and let my self esteem do the talking.. I associated with people of my age and above and I learn to wear clothes that suits my age..and projects my age not my size..try wearing natives etc...don't know if it helps though but that's what I merely did....#believe

glad I'm not alone in this. some people thought I was seeking attention, but no, the thing is real.

I have tried the native attire thingy, but it didn't work.

for picture go to this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/5106683/thanks-everyone-advice-im-grateful#77104443

Zzyy:


Scam..it will not work, if you no get beards u no get

Don't be 2 sure, it helped me

momove4real25:
Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

YOU LOOK 50.

*SPITS!!!

Forget the body. Grow serious beards

lemme share my own story, though am a female. I had this slow growth and I wasn't tall but I wasn't a dwarf. I was 19 but I look like someone who was still in primary school. I gained admission and everytime I was going to class I wished I never gained admission cuz the ridicule was just too much. I never had any friends, sometimes I was even scared to go out coz I felt everyone was mocking and laughing at me. I got a boyfriend that made matter worse. he always insult me because of my height and body size and said I was a fine gal but I was cursed with being short. I received insults from him and endured everything because I felt no one was going to accept me for being short. even my family too mocked me because I was short, but I don't wanna talk about it. there was times I sat down on my own and just cry. I cried so so much that I never felt what happiness looked like. I was depressed and there were times I felt like committing suicide. was it even d church I attended? every Sunday d pastor's wife will lay hands on me and said I was too short and ridicule me. one day I stopped going to church, stopped school for a while, disengaged my self from any friend or boyfriend and after about 3 months, people started telling me I looked bigger. it's not like I look very tall now but if u see me now ehn, am a living testimony o. anybody that knows me before is always shocked when they see me now. they are like what did I do? but I discovered the secret to looking big and healthy is happiness from within. even a friend of mine walked pass me coz he couldn't recognize me. everyone just says I look different now. my hips got bigger, it's like I just started growing. right now, people want to mingle with me but I can't get over my introvert nature. I have no friends now or boyfriend but am fucking happy. I still cry sometimes when I remember all people have done to me but have decided to move on.

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sorry dear

There's a guy on nairaland who went through the same thing you went through but now has the keys to unlock many ladies hearts
ilegend or iclef ( his two monickers)

He can mentor you on how to build your confidence and how to pick girls up. Just don't become a player when you learn everything.

for your weight gain use apetamin. It works.

it won't make you fat it would increase your appetite ×5

You must take if twice daily and eat up to 5- 6 times daily.

Yes bro he is telling you to GO & COMMIT FOODcide !

generationz:


sorry dear

There's a guy on nairaland who went through the same thing you went through but now has the keys to unlock many ladies hearts
ilegend or iclef ( his two monickers)

He can mentor you on how to build your confidence and how to pick girls up. Just don't become a player when you learn everything.

for your weight gain use apetamin. It works.

it won't make you fat it would increase your appetite ×5

You must take if twice daily and eat up to 5- 6 times daily.

So he should start committing foodCIDE eh kwa ?

optimusprime2:

Trust me, it works to your advantage.
I wish you live abroad.

I don't look my age as well, I look 10 or 12 yrs younger... omo the awoof train passes, meal tickets, transit beta wey I don collect because I dey like teenager me sef don taya the matter, sometimes I dey tell clerk for train station say "I be adult" she go just shout tok say; "minors to the other line please" tooh, na im me go waka go pikin section carry 75% reduction ticket, Las las e dey ep my pocket.

But Enh, this side wey I dey, if pesin no hold body wella, na paedophile im fit turn even by mistake, because 14yr old pikin wey don big finish, go con dey follow pesin Upandan because im go feel say you be im mate & country people no go tok say "no follow huncu", na so wahala fit gas.

are u kidding me! this is really blessing in disguise

viktor88:

If you are interested to grow beard there is a concoction that you can prepare by your self, I will tell you how to, I saw it on YouTube and it helped me.

I need the link bro
Thanks

Poor thing! I feel so sorry for you! I am convinced you should forget about all your disadvantages and start to change yourself. Go to the gym and don't be afraid of anyone. If you want to get fast results you can try peptides from https://gopeps.com/ Then it will be easier.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Sorry oh.....you need plenty of milk......?

Ihsan6:
I feel ur pain bro cos am in this same class...am a father of 2 n will be 35 by November but look 22-24, it's natural for some people to disrespect u but u need to look at d advantages, some of my mates now look like grandparents while I still look young n charming. Am sure u will appreciate it more as u grow older.

I tell you am seriously enjoying it now oh...I look like mid-20s now too...Women, esp those we grew up together, exclaim that I haven't aged at all..The major things I work on are my build, my skin and looking the part too..lolzz

czarina:
Gym. Go to the gym and even you no go believe yourself after just a few months of serious workout with correct diet.

He doesn't need to gym. Just take a look at his other thread where he posted his pic. He's smallish in stature and no height but not a dwarf. Adding muscles to his stature will make him look ugly like ninja turtles kind of look. @ Lilmaydee a little push up every morning to tone ur muscles would be better and maybe sit ups if u want tone the abdomen but what u really need is to dress good and groom your looks to suit your age. No serious gym or special diet needed

Go and join Nollywood and thank me later

I have been trying to gain weight for awhile too without any success.. I just came upon ur comment, how effective is "apetamin" pls?

generationz:


sorry dear

There's a guy on nairaland who went through the same thing you went through but now has the keys to unlock many ladies hearts
ilegend or iclef ( his two monickers)

He can mentor you on how to build your confidence and how to pick girls up. Just don't become a player when you learn everything.

for your weight gain use apetamin. It works.

it won't make you fat it would increase your appetite ×5

You must take if twice daily and eat up to 5- 6 times daily.

ItsTutsi:
I have been trying to gain weight for awhile too without any success.. I just came upon ur comment, how effective is "apetamin" pls?

I've seen many Instagram models say they used it to gain weight.

are u serious!!??

viktor88:

If you are interested to grow beard there is a concoction that you can prepare by your self, I will tell you how to, I saw it on YouTube and it helped me.

do u know anybody personally that ever tried it?

generationz:


I've seen many Instagram models say they used it to gain weight.

ItsTutsi:
do u know anybody personally that ever tried it?

It's just 2k. If it doesn't work, fine.

do u know anybody personally that ever tried it?

generationz:


It's just 2k. If it doesn't work, fine.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

A dead giveaway to someone's true age is white hair. Many who have it go to great extents to hide it, from dyeing hair black or even maintaining a clean shave permanently.

Find a way to dye some parts of your hair white. Try and get it done in a way that it looks natural.

Next time someone sees you and talks down to you, you tell them, "I am not a small boy. You no see my white hair. I'm even a graduate, pls show some respect."

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

any improvement now?

I look small physically but I command a lot of respect because I don't allow my stature to define me.

All the girls around me are very big and tall girls, how I do the magic I myself aren't aware. I am well respected everywhere I go. They call me small but mighty, but I don't give a fu*k!

Many times, many people who look younger than their age come to me and ask how to deal with inferiority complex. I never suffered from Inferiority complex, I have never been bullied. Right from secondary school, I had the big muscular guys as my bodyguards. The bullies were my bodyguards. In the university, while there was a few people who "mocked" me because of my stature, I always had people who were ready to defend me. The tall and beautiful girls in the class were my harem, to the extent that "big/bad" boys were coming to ask for parole from my hand. They ask me which charm I use. Hahahaha..... I enjoyed life and i am still enjoying Life. One rule that helped me is this: "whatever you do, never put yourself in a position of disadvantage"

Holluwhakemmy:
any improvement now?

Yes, there's been loads of improvement. Thanks.

dontrulee:
One rule that helped me is this: "whatever you do, never put yourself in a position of disadvantage"

Can you please explain the above quote?

grandstar:


A dead giveaway to someone's true age is white hair. Many who have it go to great extents to hide it, from dyeing hair black or even maintaining a clean shave permanently.

Find a way to dye some parts of your hair white. Try and get it done in a way that it looks natural.

Next time someone sees you and talks down to you, you tell them, "I am not a small boy. You no see my white hair. I'm even a graduate, pls show some respect."

This is a joke right? Anyway, thanks

Jcole1985:
Ask your parents to go pick any Ada from the village,she will feed you till you look like Uzoho then get married to a city girl of your choice as second wife.It is that easy

lilmaydee:


Can you please explain the above quote?

If you do nothing, life will put you in a position of disadvantage. Consciously change your position everyday