XhosaNostra:


Expectations come to play. Nobody expects a mad person to make sense but they sometimes do.

Yes.. when mad people make sense people tend to over value it by saying things like "among the smartest people they've met" etc

henriettttta:
So there was an argument in class today
Our lecturer brought a very hot girl that sits down at the back to the front of the hall and was like no one should be surprised if this girl is a Virgin
All the guys at the back began to shout and laugh that it's not possible
I want some kind of explanation for this
Why do most guys feel it's those girls that go to church every Sunday and are very studious that are virgins and the one's that slay are non-virgins
Please I need some clarification on this

I'm not thinking that way...
Any lady who preserves herself, be it in the city or village, church or non, and that is what matters.

Tallesty1:
Have you ever given a man a ride because he was stranded only to discover later that he's a mad man? Obviously no, reason? Simple, when you see a mad person's appearance, you conclude he's mad without studying his character.



Makes you a bigger simpleton.

You should never give any stranger a ride

joeeee240:



Yes.. when mad people make sense people tend to over value it by saying things like "among the smartest people they've met" etc

Subjectivity.

1Sharon:


So what do virgins dress like? Nuns?

Rather, what do non virgins dress like? Or what a Slay Queen is mostly likely to be based on her dressing?

XhosaNostra:


Subjectivity.

Subjectivity is not excuse for faulty reasoning or psychological bias

joeeee240:


Subjectivity is not excuse for faulty reasoning or psychological bias

Oh well.

What kind of disgusting trash is happening in op's story? Is that what the lecturer was sent to teach?

All these pervert lecturers and these razz local idiotc boys shouting and laughing like the bastards and idiots they are.

Imagine the excess stupidity it takes to drag a lady to the front. Embarrass and sexually harass her just for this perverted idiotic lecturer's pleasure.
Degrading her in such a dehumanizing way. Especially in front of such a crowd.
Treating her like a sexual object that is meant to be discussed like she is nothing. That is why that idiot of a lecturer and the stupid pack of wild hyenas laughing in the background felt it was appropriate to discuss her vagina and her sexual life like she is nothing.

Poor girl. What kind of nonsense is that honestly. Mtcheww

Because they hear words like don't do it before marriage almost everyday, its a sin!

Daeylar:
What kind of disgusting trash is happening in op's story?
Is that what the lecturer was sent to teach?

All these pervert lecturers and this razz local idiotc boys shouting and laughing like the bastards and idiots they are.

Imagine the excess stupidity it takes to drag a lady to the front. Embarrass and sexualize her just for this perverted idiotic lecturer's pleasure. As if she isn't a human being but an object. A sexual object that is meant to be discussed like she is nothing.

Poor girl. What kind of nonsense is that honestly. Mtcheww

The lecturer love vagina

XhosaNostra:


Do you know how many other nationalities are on NL 1st before spewing trash?
Not only are there South Africans, but there're plenty of people from other African countries, including Europeans & Americans. By your flawed logic, Seun travelled to those countries with a memo, right? Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.

Murderer.

IntrovertedK:
Murderer.

Shouldn't I be doing time?

Daeylar:
What kind of disgusting trash is happening in op's story?
Is that what the lecturer was sent to teach?

All these pervert lecturers and this razz local idiotc boys shouting and laughing like the bastards and idiots they are.

Imagine the excess stupidity it takes to drag a lady to the front. Embarrass and sexualize her just for this perverted idiotic lecturer's pleasure. As if she isn't a human being but an object. A sexual object that is meant to be discussed like she is nothing.

Poor girl. What kind of nonsense is that honestly. Mtcheww

Madam, take am easy. the lecturer might be thinking that he is promoting the ladies, thereby telling the guys in the class to wake up and grab her copy because she could be a good and responsible lady. probably not to judge her by her dressing

because that's what have been told to them

Daeylar:
What kind of disgusting trash is happening in op's story?
Is that what the lecturer was sent to teach?

All these pervert lecturers and this razz local idiotc boys shouting and laughing like the bastards and idiots they are.

Imagine the excess stupidity it takes to drag a lady to the front. Embarrass and sexualize her just for this perverted idiotic lecturer's pleasure. As if she isn't a human being but an object. A sexual object that is meant to be discussed like she is nothing.

Poor girl. What kind of nonsense is that honestly. Mtcheww

The girl wasn't really feeling concerned from my observation

henriettttta:




I'm a girl and I'll tell you this
Those girls you guys are thinking are virgins all because they go to church and wear long skirts, are the one's that are more corrupt

I have plenty friends that behave like this yet na them spoil pass
Guys should evaluate their thinking abeg

What’s the purpose of this thread? It makes no sense. So if the church goers are the scum ko, what has that got to do with anything? You have plenty friends that are spoilt, so duck what? Judging your lecturer, you can tell how stupid the students are

Bros I salute.. Perfect nothing to be added

izzou:


Why do you feel bus conductors are poor, and bankers are rich?

Why do you feel a man dressed corporately is educated, while a man dressed shabbily may not be educated?

Simple... The way you dress or present yourself sends a strong message to people

henriettttta:




But I know of a girl that has never had sex
She talks like a wayward
Behaves like she don sabi everything wey dey happen for inside bedroom
But deep down she doesn't really know
All she talks are hearsay

Why do I have this feeling that you are actually talking about yourself here?

Viicfuntop:



What’s the purpose of this thread? It makes no sense. So if the church goers are the scum ko, what has that got to do with anything? You have plenty friends that are spoilt, so duck what? Judging your lecturer, you can tell how stupid the students are

Lol... Did someone annoy you today?

Tallesty1:
Have you ever given a man a ride because he was stranded only to discover later that he's a mad man? Obviously no, reason? Simple, when you see a mad person's appearance, you conclude he's mad without studying his character.



Makes you a bigger simpleton.

What you said is so true in my area there was this guy in a suit with long socks I would see him in the morning before he got dirty but he always roamed the streets Sha and I used to say hi to him when he yells out to me i never for a second thought anything was wrong I did this for like a year never thinking too much of it.

It’s just hello right? it was like just any neighbor saying hi and then one day I drove home later than usual and I saw him all dirty and muttering to himself

I’m ashamed I changed and stopped saying hi as usual but men God help us all appearances can be deceiving but God never lies he places people strategically in your view to show you that you can be the difference I picked race which still haunts me till today but it’s amazing how people can look so good yet be so disturbed. Pray Always

henriettttta:
So there was an argument in class today
Our lecturer brought a very hot girl that sits down at the back to the front of the hall and was like no one should be surprised if this girl is a Virgin
All the guys at the back began to shout and laugh that it's not possible
I want some kind of explanation for this
Why do most guys feel it's those girls that go to church every Sunday and are very studious that are virgins and the one's that slay are non-virgins
Please I need some clarification on this

Are u kidding me? Where on earth did this theory come from eh?

henriettttta:

Most virgins I know of don't like people knowing they are one

In the movie American Beauty; this was the case.

[s]

henriettttta:




I'm a girl and I'll tell you this
Those girls you guys are thinking are virgins all because they go to church and wear long skirts, are the one's that are more corrupt

I have plenty friends that behave like this yet na them spoil pass
Guys should evaluate their thinking abeg

[/s] Shut up you liar!

Stop slandering other girls just to justify your wayward ways.
Stop deceiving guys.
Just because you're a female does not mean you know everything about other females.
That a girl dresses decently does not mean she's pretending.
You want to slander others to make yourself feel good abi ??
To paint them dirty to other guys...
Speak only for yourself !

XhosaNostra:
Because they're simpletons who don't take time to study the character of a person before jumping to stupid conclusions.

You are obviously not a virgin. You sound pained and regretful.

Jcole1985:

The right question is "Why are you lying about your nationality?,I guess Seun travelled to SA to introduce this site to you,right?,Don't you think it is time for a lil bit of verbal xenophobic attacks towards you if you are saying the truth

im from Tanzania bro

henriettttta:
So there was an argument in class today
Our lecturer brought a very hot girl that sits down at the back to the front of the hall and was like no one should be surprised if this girl is a Virgin
All the guys at the back began to shout and laugh that it's not possible
I want some kind of explanation for this
Why do most guys feel it's those girls that go to church every Sunday and are very studious that are virgins and the one's that slay are non-virgins
Please I need some clarification on this

Let's start from you are you a virgin? Whatever your answer is that is the reason for the question you asked.

Most guys feel so because religious girls have a motivation to keep themselves pure.

What motivation do other girls have? None that I know of except for the bookworms.

na which kind otondo men full this thread! ?

Zeal to learn indeed.

izzou:


Ive never taken a stick of cigarette before, but I have a friend who was warned by his mother not to hangout with me because of the friends I have

Like I said, people don't go about with "scanners" to scan characters, attitude and behaviors.

How you present yourself is what they judge with. Only adventurous ones, like me , like to discover what's in the package, without judging the looks of the pack

Oga people jugdement is one of the most complicated things you can think of. Some people hatred and bad judgment are pathological.