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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Ubdavis(m): 10:41am On Apr 14, 2019
Considering the protean nature of man . u refuse him sex, to prove a point, he goes. U give him , he goes . its difficult to dignify this...

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by stalingraddd(m): 10:42am On Apr 14, 2019
the have enjoyed during their youth and now want to settle with a cuck... my advice is to flee

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by victorian(f): 10:42am On Apr 14, 2019
If guys coming onto ladies on her 30s and cannot hold body to understand whom they want to date and possibly marry, then they can go and hunt for other ladies who give their pussy so free at any given fucvking time.
If you think because I'm in my 30s that means I will open legs for you like expressway, u guys are joking or better still in dreamland.

Don't u guys even have conscience? U see a lady in her 30s, she dey her own jeje, u carry your left legs, saying all sorts of lie to have a date with her. OK fine, she believes u and accept a date, on that first date na to jump on her as if you guys have been locked up in a desert without sex Or a female specie for years!
Haba! U guys should take it easy! If really u are interested in having something stable and real with her, then no need trying to rape her on first, second dates!
Shebi she's evening newspaper like you guys like to say, then leave her the fucvk alone! Than adding your sex depraved dick to her life.

Jeez!

Some men disgust me so much , am serious.

Just jumping at a woman as if u guys are camels! Yuck!

Try such with me and I will so kick that your dick so hard and push u off! And that's the end of the useless lies to get inbetween my laps.

I rather remain single for life than be used randomly by guys because I wan marry. God forbid!

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Platony(m): 10:43am On Apr 14, 2019
MJBOLT:
that term was formed 2-3 years ago undecided


Don't mind him,..he'll be claiming "know know" "I too know". Meanwhile, he knows nothing.

Even d ancient term "One bitten, twice shy" is still very much in existence.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by paddyofboss(m): 10:45am On Apr 14, 2019
Raalsalghul:

This one is part of those op is talking about.
Lol exactly
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Platony(m): 10:46am On Apr 14, 2019
PhenomenalMorgan:

Do people still use that term anymore
It's the 21st century man!!

How much has this your know know "I.T.K" fetched u??

Nonsense & tortoise brain. undecided

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by NoToPile: 10:46am On Apr 14, 2019
Its simply because they have realized from experience that sex cannot and will never keep a man

A man that will marry you will marry you.

I have always been a no sex before marriage advocate anyway, saves you a lot of head and heart ache.

If you begin to sleep with all the suitors that come for your hand, how many will you end up sleeping with.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by poweredcom(m): 10:47am On Apr 14, 2019
Whixh women not naija gals

When many of dem don do olosho finish

https://www.nairaland.com/5083433/girlfriend-sister-here-she-prostitute
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by iragbmite: 10:48am On Apr 14, 2019
victorian:







Shut da fuvk up!

Are u a virgin yourself?
Useless animal

Ode oshi!

Definitely, you are not a virgin. My question is when were you disflowered?

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by MyGeneration(m): 10:48am On Apr 14, 2019
Because a lot of them there bodies are nothing to write home about anymore, just seeing them naked sometimes can make a suitor rethink his decision.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Raalsalghul: 10:48am On Apr 14, 2019
victorian:







Shut da fuvk up!

Are u a virgin yourself?
Useless animal

Ode oshi!
E pain am...

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by paddyofboss(m): 10:51am On Apr 14, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Whether you sleep with him or not, who will marry you will do so.
Best comment ever. So u have sense like this
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by dingbang(m): 10:52am On Apr 14, 2019
My own is that, I need a woman who can guarantee me peace of mind, I dont care if you have bleeped all the men in the world, thats your problem to settle with the most high and not me. I just can't come back after a stressful day and one lioness is in the house waiting to kill me with her issue. God forbid evil things.

If you can assure me 100percent peace of mind and understanding, then I will buy a ring and put on ya finger, I hate drama!

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Amatarasha(f): 10:52am On Apr 14, 2019
I ve read all ur comments

I see that being a lady is a curse ,y ar nigerian guys this wicked ...
No feelings! no sympathy!! no love!!!
Since i came here u guys just wanna turn me 2 a feminist

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by iragbmite: 10:54am On Apr 14, 2019
dingbang:
My own is that, I need a woman who can guarantee me peace of mind. I can't come back after a stressful day and one lioness is in the house waiting to kill me with her issue. God forbid evil things.

The good thing is that in Nigeria, you can beat them silly. Just buy a koboko and keep am for house.
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by victorian(f): 10:54am On Apr 14, 2019
iragbmite:


Definitely, you are not a virgin. My question is when were you disflowered?










Now u are ready to talk like a normal human being, smhhh

Anyways, Immediately after my 5 years programme in my university days. I graduated early, age 23. And by my ex fiance, who is a psychopath, a sadist, With multiple personalities. The worst mistake of my life! I curse the day he came to ask for my hand in marriage. Some men are pure demons in human flesh.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Mizwisdom(f): 10:54am On Apr 14, 2019
Bbbwings:

And by your previous comment, you seem to imply ops marriage won't last..
Sexual compatibility is very important too.. undecided


Maybe konji curing is the only marital challenge he will face in 60 years of marriage.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by dingbang(m): 10:56am On Apr 14, 2019
iragbmite:


The good thing is that in Nigeria, you can beat them silly. Just buy a koboko and keep am for house.
I no dey beat anybody, my mum didnt train me into becoming a wife beater. Even God knows I can't marry someone who is stupid or who likes to be beaten before she knows what to do.


Thats how one lady told me she likes it when a man tells her what to do, and I am like, dont you even have an iota of sense of your own? Must I direct you on what to do everyday? Must I tell you what your role is in the family?

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by victorian(f): 10:56am On Apr 14, 2019
NoToPile:
Its simply because they have realized from experience that sex cannot and will never keep a man

A man that will marry you will marry you.

I have always been a no sex before marriage advocate anyway, saves you a lot of head and heart ache.

If you begin to sleep with all the suitors that come for your hand, how many will you end up sleeping with.






God bless you!

Let them keep opening toto for all the fake suitors coming their way.

The men will have a field day with them.

Hope their pussy is ready to accommodate all the dicks.. Just because they wan marry.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by victorian(f): 10:57am On Apr 14, 2019
Raalsalghul:

E pain am...






Na today? cheesy

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by JustBeing: 10:58am On Apr 14, 2019
Checked86:
I had this experience with several ladies when i was looking for a wife. Just like every other guy, I wanted a relationship devoid of any conditions.

Funny that the bulk of the responses are coming from male trolls in their late teens or early 20s.

Maybe you should have asked these women to be open and actually tell you why they took such decisions.

Well, I'm a woman in my 30s and I have recently detached from a relationship that broke me up in the worst way possible. One of the ways I used to go about relationships was giving my all; time, attention, money, love, care and sex. But after this last episode where i was with someone who was timing his exit would it be wise to go about relationships using that same MO? I think not.

I don't know if I'll get into another relationship or if i do get into one, will I have sex? I can't say. But all I know is there will be holds barred. I can't allow myself be put through such wringer and if 'no-sex' ensures that happens, then so be it. Understand that it has nothing to do with how I'm trying to project myself, I'm no saint. . .I'm only limiting the chances of being someone's fool. And in the event it ends for other reasons beyond our control, I won't go insane counting my losses and regrets. Men always want a woman who gives all but they never do that's why it's easy for them to have multiple partners and when it's time to settle down they start doing the 'choosing analysis' like you did.

I like how you chose to marry the one you slept with, it's only fair you did since it was one of your prioritised goals in a partner. Other men have married women they didn't get to sleep with. Yes, no sex can't force a man to marry you same as giving sex at whim won't increase the chances that a man marries you.

Afterall you almost married the one you didn't sleep with but your conscience forced your hand, which is good in my opinion.

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by iragbmite: 10:58am On Apr 14, 2019
victorian:










Now u are ready to talk like a normal human being, smhhh

Anyways, Immediately after my 5 years programme in my university days. I graduated early, age 23. And by my ex fiance, who is a psychopath, a sadist, With multiple personalities. The worst mistake of my life! I curse the day he came to ask for my hand in marriage. Some men are pure demons in human flesh.


So you are disflowered after marriage? Did he leave because you were not experienced in bedmatics?

See the way you talk, you seem like a lovely woman, the marriage type most men are looking for.
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by omojesu202(m): 10:59am On Apr 14, 2019
MJBOLT:
that term was formed 2-3 years ago undecided


tell am ooo, as if the term don reach 100 yrs.
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Raalsalghul: 10:59am On Apr 14, 2019
victorian:







Na today? cheesy
kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 14, 2019
This your post is full of immoralitues.shame on the mod that pushed this to FP ..are you aware that we have kids reading this ? And you are here practically encouraging sex before marriage? Let me tell you any one that can sleep with his partner before marriage will sleep with people outside even after marriage .quote me even on judgement day before God

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Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by reservd(m): 10:59am On Apr 14, 2019
1234IKECHhukwu:
My friend stop sounding indifferent, most ladies I know can't stay without sex for that long.
That's true for the teenagers and 20s bt can't say fr d 30s bt my fear is if dey ain't getting it from you, most likely dey are getting it elsewhere
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by oglalasioux(m): 10:59am On Apr 14, 2019
wirinet:

Sex although very important in marriage and relationship is not the only thing that can sustain it. If guys keep jilting a girl after sex, then the girl may have serious relationship issues including sex.
In my youth days, I did not have time for girls using sex as a bargaining chip or a blackmail tool. If I really want sex, I would meet all stupid demands and move on as soon as I get what I want.
A man love a girl that truly loves him and show that love unconditionally, not one that manipulates and controls him.

So true.
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by bluefilm: 11:00am On Apr 14, 2019
anthonyuncle:
it's either they don't want u to see them as been too desperate for marriage, or
they don't want u to notice da well before paying for da compound

Bad guy. grin
Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by iragbmite: 11:00am On Apr 14, 2019
dingbang:
I no dey beat anybody, my mum didnt train me into becoming a wife beater. Even God knows I can't marry someone who is stupid or who likes to be beaten before she knows what to do.


Thats how one lady told me she likes it when a man tells her what to do, and I am like, dont you even have an iota of sense of your own? Must I direct you on what to do everyday? Must I tell you what your role is in the family?

Marriage is where women go to learn sense. If you can't teach, you have failed in your responsibility as a man. You are a disgrace to manhood. You father did not teach you well.

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