She is neither cheap nor brave.

She is just being expressive.

It's brave, but a girl expressing her feelings to a guy must understand that the guy turning her down because he doesn't feel same, doesn't mean he is bad or cruel.

bluefilm:
Don't do it, if you're a girl.

'Cause once you do, your intrinsic value in the eyes of the guy starts to tend to zero.

I will tell u my own part, the moment I chase a girl for too long, after she don use me see hell all in the name of toasting,
The moment that girl gree na to chop her move on becus all the love way day my heart she don turn am to yeye, ,,

NaijaTushboy:
If A Girl Walks Up To A
Man
And Expresses Her
Feelings; Is
She Cheap Or Brave?*
Your opinion please

She risks exploitation if its the wrong dude.

She is brave and have grown above the idea that women are not suppose to express their feelings to men. I like such ladies because what defines a ladies cheapness is not in her expressing her feelings.

Seenyo:
she's # LION HEART!

but shyness has made me lost SEVERAL of such ladies cos they felt I'm COCKY.


if there's a MAJOR trait I hate about me, it's DEFINITELY shyness!

guy u can still fix that attitude ....
Erase the negative thought from your mind

It depends on the approach. If a girl throws herself at me, it will raise a red flag. You don’t necessarily have to be direct. Women are meant to be chased and not the other way round but if you must chase a guy, I’ll give you some tips.

Bump into him, or sit close to him , brush your body casually against his, ask him for the time, ask for directions etc. The trick relies on circumstances and place to work .

adewest1999:
lol......so wetin we go do now

make everybody keep their love to them self

Na kids still day tell girl I love u,,,

Anybody that fvcks outside of marriage is cheaper than sweet nylon.

She is cheap with Nigerian mentality but to me she is brave

dingbang:
She is neither cheap nor brave.

She is just being expressive.

what's your beer brand? U deserve a crate. You have said it all. It's a yes or no answer from the guy and should he decide to take her on a ride or be immature, then I expect her to do right thing which is dumping his sorry ass. I have had one or two express their feelings in the past. It's no big deal.

Angelawhite:
It depends on the approach. If a girl throws herself at me, it will raise a red flag. You don’t necessarily have to be direct. Women are meant to be chased and not the other way round but if you must chase a guy, I’ll give you some tips.

Bump into him, or sit close to him , brush your body casually against his, ask him for the time, ask for directions etc. The trick relies on circumstances and place to work .

There is a financial level a guy gets to, all this bump him,sit close to him, brush your body, my dear na waste of time the girl just day waste her time,we kw go just send u,most guys way send those kin girls na chop and run e day end last last, ,,

omojeesu:


She risks exploitation if its the wrong dude.

Wat are u exploiting from a 9ja girl?

Depends on a lot of factors.

larryking540:


Na kids still day tell girl I love u,,,

ehn ehn....wetin adults con dey do

She is boat cheap and brave

adewest1999:
ehn ehn....wetin adults con dey do

his money talks

In Nigeria, cheap. In developed world brave.

Cheap or no cheap. Life is too short if you ask me, live your life

adewest1999:
ehn ehn....wetin adults con dey do

Na b my mouth u wan for hear am, ,,go agbo joint every morning make u sabi how adult take day chase lady

Telvin7:
guy u can still fix that attitude .... Erase the negative thought from your mind

fix?.... probably in my next world.

Clowns! This seems like the only forum where boys say one thing and do the opposite.

There's no such thing a bravery in asking a man out. As a matter of fact, men don't like being wooed. They prefer going for what they want and not the other way round. Taking a greater percentage into account, not the insignificant few who may be OK with it.

I can talk an ex into starting a relationship afresh, but can never woo a man. Truth is, they all see you as cheap and desperate.

larryking540:


There is a financial level a guy gets to, all this bump him,sit close to him, brush your body, my dear na waste of time the girl just day waste her time,we kw go just send u,most guys way send those kin girls na chop and run e day end last last, ,,

When you see your speck ( I like voluptuous waists and boobs ) who is smart... you know the kinda girls that turn heads and cause accidents I bet you’ll rethink your stance

bravely expensive

No girl should do that ooo, the guy go use u tire, even the ones that didn't play hard to get are being used not to talk of one who made the first move. As far as Nigerian men are concerned, let them do the wooing and as a girl, u should play hard to get small that's when naija guys will value you.

yinkeys:
Cheap or no cheap. Life is too short if you ask me, live your life

Exactly, ,,i just love your comment, ,,,
I asked a girl out, and she told her friend who inturn told her, make she date mature man, ,last last she turned me down,,few months later na her friend(advicer) I con go for with re-enforcement, ,,her friend gree(advicer),,,,,advices, ,,both of them now are d worst enemy "like pdp and apc,,,,though I don drop even her, because she is a snitch, ,,


I tell girls if u like a guy approach him, it's either a yes or a no answer, ,,that is not d end of the world,

BluntBlunt:
She is very brave and confident. But the moment the guy starts acting arkward she should bravely cut him off.

Lol

Brave ,some guys can't even walk up to a girl and express his feelings,so if a lady does that then I believe she is brave.

Zinny25:
No girl should do that ooo, the guy go use u tire, even the ones that didn't play hard to get are being used not to talk of one who made the first move. As far as Nigerian men are concerned, let them do the wooing and as a girl, u should play hard to get[b]small[/b] that's when naija guys will value you.

Lol
But many 9ja girls play hard to get very high,,,making them to lose their value even later wen they con gree to date,,,u don make d guy spend both time, money and energy,

If you are a lady you see a man but pride makes you not to give him green you go old for your papa house...