She's whatever she thinks she is... Not what some confused society says

Nairaland is not only for Africans

SEONaijaExpert:
Walking up to a man is not the function of any lady.

You people have been watching too much telemundo.

Western values doesn't work here, our mindset and society doesn't present such act as bravery.

Here in Africa, anything a man doesn't work for, he doesn't appreciate or place value on it.

yinkeys:
Cheap or no cheap. Life is too short if you ask me, live your life

I approve this

It depends on what has to offer.

To some girls , it's because they are cheap like some LovePeddler around ojuelegba. While to some they are brave and clever ... They need to position themselves for the right man .

Happy Sunday all...

Oluwasaeon:
Na girl matter you dey reason for dis time

Next level never hit am for face

She's not.

No, she isn't cheap but very brave.But as for me ,she should just stay close to me,visit me and call me.Then I will understand and do the talking

That's some brave act from any such kind of girl

TANID:
That's A Real Love And Brave.

I Used To Get Request From Girls Since When I Was In Class 4 Both Married And Single One To Be In Relationship With Them But I Always shy And Run Away From Them And I Never In My Life See Anyone Of Them That Come My Way As A cheap Girl But A brave Girl And I Swear In My Life I Never Took Advantage Of That To Say I Wan To Had A Sex With Them But What I Don't Understand Is That After A While They Would Just Change And Some Wouldn't Even Reply Me If Greet Her They Always Hate Me Later. I'm 22Years Old Now I Still Need To Chase Future First That's Why I Don't Get Into Relationship Even The Relationship I Get Now Is From Far Away With White Girl That's Brave As Well

Can Someone Help Me Out Here How To toast Girl Please

Thanos, eh sorry, Tanid my friend

shilenji:
She deserves an award,it takes alot of courage to do that you know,thats some brave act.

she's brave

NaijaTushboy:
If A Girl Walks Up To A
Man
And Expresses Her
Feelings; Is
She Cheap Or Brave?*
Your opinion please

Brave

BRAVE !!!

In as much as I am expressive, I can't do this. It takes a lot of courage to pull this stunt.[Qquote author=NaijaTushboy post=78112573]If A Girl Walks Up To A
Man
And Expresses Her
Feelings; Is
She Cheap Or Brave?*
Your opinion please[/quote]

The man should find a wife not the other way round.

larryking540:


I will tell u my own part, the moment I chase a girl for too long, after she don use me see hell all in the name of toasting,
The moment that girl gree na to chop her move on becus all the love way day my heart she don turn am to yeye, ,,

Na you do yasef na

Why would you chase a girl for so long?

Zinny25:
you shouldn't say I'm wrong, I know what I'm saying mbok

Ok

That's bravery

PotatoSalad:


Thanos, eh sorry, Tanid my friend

Hahahahahaha! Oh Thanks How Are You Doing

meeky007:
me too its happening nd happened to me also

Oh They Do That When They Really Love You

Angelawhite:



Lol. Your matter strong . But say u no see her with phone no mean she no get phone. If u get liver, u don’t have to start from collecting her number. You can start with telling her your name.... like...Hello (I usually kill them with my smile...only few ladies can resist it)... .. I’m Chris ...How was the service... did u enjoy it ? ...

I no wan lose the babe!
Lmao!

I go try on Sunday!

frenzyduchess:
its not about rejection, I have brothers and I have heard them argue over this issue time and time again, the relationship might take off, but that mentality of "na she carry herself come give me jejely for where I dey my own" is always there.

I can tell you that most ladies are not scared to ask guys out but the aftermath is the problem here. While you may think the relationship has flourished he may be still stuck on "na she ask me out" thereby be laid back in the relationship.

I guess your brothers alone account for 99% of guys.

The guys who would not exploit ladies (regardless of who makes the move) are everywhere, but ladies usually don't find them exciting enough. They are only good for the friend zone. So girls usually turn them down in favour of the vain/narcissistic guys that would send her heart racing shortly before it is smashed and tossed in a bin.

Next they come out with stats citing 99% like they know what 99% of guys would amount to.

Actually, yes. Many ladies are scared of being rejected or exploited by guys. The only reason they feel it would definitely happen is because they do it to guys all the time. They don't want to be on the receiving end of a familiar medicine.

Ozkar:
I guess your brothers alone account for 99% of guys.

The guys who would not exploit ladies (regardless of who makes the move) are everywhere, but ladies usually don't find them exciting enough. They are only good for the friend zone. So girls usually turn them down in favour of the vain/narcissistic guys that would send her heart racing shortly before it is smashed and tossed in a bin.

Next they come out with stats citing 99% like they know what 99% of guys would amount to.

Actually, yes. Many ladies are scared of being rejected or exploited by guys. The only reason they feel it would definitely happen is because they do it to guys all the time. They don't want to be on the receiving end of a familiar medicine.

I dont need to know 99% of guys ,but I do know the Nigerian guys mentality, if you don't fall into that category, good for you .


Men are natural haunter ,there is thrill in the chase for them,and as far as human nature is concerned what you don't work for has a lesser value. Its not about my brother but men in general .


Please point me to the direction of this "everywhere" that such guys exist or give examples of relationships that started like that and ended up in marriage.

And I will also like to ask you how many ladies you have met too to know they are scared of rejection? Or its just an assumption you drew from your finger tips?

Firstorderwizard:
My ex did it and our relationship was one of the finest. No drama,no pretence,she's so open to me that I know things she never told her mother.
Infact ,we didn't break up officially, we just separated distance wise.

I got a brother

Some men we took her advantage

RealityShot:
when girls start acting arkward, do bos who approached them cut them off?

Of cos if you can't condone whatever attitude. When I mean arkward, I mean start using the fact that she made the first move to insult her, or acting weird.

bluefilm:
Don't do it, if you're a girl.

'Cause once you do, your intrinsic value in the eyes of the guy starts to tend to zero.

When won’t it tend to zero?
It doesn’t matter.. just approach with sense. Get him and raise ur standard. Give him once in a while but also apply law of scarcity. I like girls like this, who comes to who won’t matter anymore (it’s called maturity). And for a good guy who is smart will keep her “if she’s good ohh” otherwise it will turn to:
Chop clean mouth.. repeat!
Chop clean mouth.. repeat! X infinity

tohyorsih2:
As a guy, i don't think she's brave cos i see it as a normal thing.

you are now a guy

That makes her courageously perfect

Super Brave

NaijaTushboy:
If A Girl Walks Up To A
Man
And Expresses Her
Feelings; Is
She Cheap Or Brave?*
Your opinion please

she's very brave