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My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 1:51am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Sometime ago I posted on here about my Phillipino girlfriend and my problem with my peeps on the issue of marriage. As it happened , my girl read this and realized how this kinda thing will be a stress for her and decided she is not cut out for that kind of wahala. She informed me of this a few weeks ago. Little did I know that she frequents Nairaland and when she saw that posting and some of the responses, she knew then of the magnitude of the problem she faces. Should I be happy with this forum, my ex or myself for sharing my problem on here? |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by InkedNerd(f): 1:56am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Look, if she got mad because she saw it then how would she have reacted is she was with your family? This is just an online forum so if she couldn't cut it here then she probably couldn't cut it with your family. I don't think you need to be mad at anyone. It probably wasn't meant to be. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by daduke2k(m): 2:05am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Gurls dnt dump guyz, itz d oda way round. Nw get dat in2 ur thick skull 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Osama10(m): 2:07am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Better for you. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 2:18am On Sep 22, 2010 |
daduke2k: Thats one of the dumbest thing I have heared in like forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 2:20am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd: I guess I could look at it that way. I guess I could be in blame for not letting her know the extent of the opposition but I have moved on with my life. I hope to finally get a deserving woman in due time. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Freewilly(f): 2:23am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Give me a freaking break, did you use her name or address when you started the thread ? you not the only Nigerian guy dating a Philippine on Niaraland. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 2:29am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Freewilly: She knows my handle, I use the same name in all the forum I visit. I also use a variation of that in my email so she asked too and I told her its true so there u have it. So get all the info before tearing your clothes. just yanking your chain |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by sohiemi(m): 2:38am On Sep 22, 2010 |
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Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 2:43am On Sep 22, 2010 |
s.ohiemi: There was no reason to lie over something as trivial as that. But if u ask me what I would do if faced with same decision again, I think I will handle it that same way. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by sohiemi(m): 3:00am On Sep 22, 2010 |
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Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 3:17am On Sep 22, 2010 |
s.ohiemi: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=500737.msg6611705#msg6611705 |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Nobody: 3:35am On Sep 22, 2010 |
hmmm well let her go. She would have dump you one way or another anyway. btw can you post the link to the thread you're talking abt? |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 7:23am On Sep 22, 2010 |
I just did, look at the link in the post before ur post. rokiatu: |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by InkedNerd(f): 7:30am On Sep 22, 2010 |
cito us: I don't think that you are to blame. Glad to see that you've moved on though |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by madlady(f): 7:35am On Sep 22, 2010 |
@Poster you are blameless, you just needed advice. Most of the replies on your other thread seemed positive. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by 1102(m): 7:41am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Hehehehehe, so Philippine babes know how 2 dump guyz, tot they were deaf and dumb~ |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by chika98: 7:41am On Sep 22, 2010 |
madlady: Yes. I think she did herself a favor because fighting for a man over his family is like losing a battle before you even try to She made the right choice because you'll def succumb to your family under pressure. I don't blame her. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 8:15am On Sep 22, 2010 |
chika98: You could be wrong u know. I wonder how u know me so much to come to this conclusion. I am a man of my own and have never been the type to tow the line. So ur conclusion is definitely reached with an erroneous assumption. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 8:18am On Sep 22, 2010 |
--190--: Am glad u r learning some aspects of human behavior . |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by chika98: 8:35am On Sep 22, 2010 |
cito us:It is an unspoken thing that every woman knows. Never marry into a family that doesn't accept you |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by derolly(m): 8:51am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Hmmm quite predictable i knw wat am abt to write/say will hurt u bt it remains a fact I could still recall vividly when a guy here widely known as a clown 'MOBO44' advised u to give it up on the filipinos that they were international maids well i guess all hell was let loose on him when he said that, Believe it or not he was right. I didnt want to add a thing cos i'll probably tell u the same and that would make me appear sarcastic for those who dont understand I've got similar experience with a fellow nigerian dudes who undergo the same circular madness and later crumble or come to their senses look at it this way, Mobo44 virtually detest Black women but on that thread he gave u an advice that is worth a piece of his integrity ( by asking u to go back home and get a nigerian gurl )u shld have considered. No filipino could be as down-to-earth as a naija lady well this is a good sign for u to knw she couldn't hack it [s]Damn it , i wonder what gives some dudes the impression that filipinos are white. [/s] |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by 1102(m): 9:11am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Kelvinj(m): 9:36am On Sep 22, 2010 |
derolly:Lwkmd. @poster, i just read ur other post lol But there's not wrong u said and moreover u stood ur grounds So WTH was wrong with her? Well maybe she never loved u |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by madlady(f): 9:49am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Kelvinj: I agree, he the @Poster really did stand by his girl. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Nobody: 9:57am On Sep 22, 2010 |
Sory,u hear? |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Omolola1(f): 10:14am On Sep 22, 2010 |
She wanted to dump you b4, she just found an excuse~ |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by adagz01(m): 11:45am On Sep 22, 2010 |
@poster,9ja babes plentyy looking 4 hus y u'r thinking of 1 philipi.thanks she is gone n dont think of bringing her back pls |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by Spyker: 2:12pm On Sep 22, 2010 |
You got dumped by a philipino, those chinko people dey dump people too when we have 95% beauty here. If she can't stand nairaland, she can't stand Nigeria. Simple. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by tpiah: 2:29pm On Sep 22, 2010 |
the time the guy logged on and started listing the reasons why he doesnt dig nigerian ladies and blah blah blah, he didnt know his filipino girlfriend could dump him then. just saying. and are you sure the lady hasnt hooked up with some other nler. anyway! my point is you people shouldnt always be in such a hurry to diss your own women just because you find yourselves able to date foreign ones. doesnt show you in a good light. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by waleski(m): 4:49pm On Sep 22, 2010 |
@poster obviously u dnt knw 1 of d bro code's in nairaland repeat with me NEVER LET UR GF,SISTER OR PEEPS KNW UR USERNAME ON ANY FORUM OR U ARE FUC.KED. |
Re: My Girl Read My Post On Here About Her And Dumped Me :( by citous(m): 5:15pm On Sep 22, 2010 |
In as much as I appreciate y'all for your comments, the facts still remain. A person irrespective of race is still a person and anyone that makes a conclusion about a race based on a singular incident is making a mockery of all reasoning process. I never have issues with sisters, and I will never stoop to the low level of going out with/rejecting a girl based sorely on their color or race. waleski: Not if u got nothing to hide bro. Incase u forget we still have men in this forum. Its not all boys , u know. tpiah: I never said I dont dig Nigerian women actually I date girls who are of the good category irrespective of race. And please provide me a single place where I dissed our own women. derolly: Some things are so silly that they are not worth responding to. Sorry but are u now in MOBO'S class of intelligence too? |
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