i will go straight to my point, she is my fathers younger sister daughter, she used to visit with her family on Christmas when we were small but for more than five years now, I haven't set my eyes on her cos the usually travel to there fathers place,but recently we lost our grandmother and during the burial, she came back with her mum, and I met her,during the cause of the burial we fall in love with each other
I see in her all the qualities i need in a wife,to cut the story short, I can't stop imagining her being my wife and she is not helping the matter as she is helplessly falling for me too.
in my place is a taboo cosidering the fact we are cousins, pls how do I overcome this


NOTE:I never toasted her neither did I confess my feelings to her, it all started as late night chats to running of errands together, but the sign was very clear that my brother and other relations suspected our closeness bt had no evidence,even the Night before I left village for my base, we touched our self's in an unholly manner which if not for timely intervention of her mother who called her, might have led to sex(incense )

Ur Prikk Need To Be Cut.

smh....and you created a thread for this poo. someone like you shouldn't have access to internet.

May the soul of our departed brother, Mr. English Language who "Felled" in love rest in peace.

Falled in-love

Lobatan!

If an Aunty and her Nephew can have s*x....

If a father can have sex with her daughter.....

Then Op, your own na play..

I see no problem here.
You are both adults!

No comment. Oga on top don spoil everything finish na... But that English thou

Incest they say is bad.

Guy focus more on your studies if you are a student, your English is pretty bad

You better shun the diabolic advice of all the devil's advocate that have commented before me. Your cousin is your sister. If you avoid this evil act you will be proud of yourself in the future.

this guy get sense so

Typical of nairalanders...

They leave the question and start commenting shït !

Op, well, it's a taboo in Nigeria and more so, maybe your home's culture doesn't support it.

Albert Einstein married his cousin, a first cousin for that matter. To me, there's nothing wrong in your feelings, even if it leads to marriage. I think such is permissible in India, well, judging from some Bollywood movies I've seen.

But, I think you're lusting after her. And maybe, when you guys consummate whatever you guys find in each other, then you'd think right. It may be lust.

Then to stop it, don't feed yourself with the thoughts of it. Maybe, you may want to populate your mind with other girls' pictures and not her's.

Just love her as a sister...

Konji na bastard, bro na konji dey worry u nothing else

Op small pikin dey worry you so I understand say your problem no be ordinary

PrinceCEE:
Typical of nairalanders...

They leave the question and start commenting shït !

Op, well, it's a taboo in Nigeria and more so, maybe your home's culture doesn't support it.

Albert Einstein married his cousin, a first cousin for that matter. To me, there's nothing wrong in your feelings, even if it leads to marriage. I think such is permissible in India, well, judging from some Bollywood movies I've seen.


But, I think you're lusting after her. And maybe, when you guys consummate whatever you guys find in each other, then you'd think right. It may be lust.

Then to stop it, don't feed yourself with the thoughts of it. Maybe, you may want to populate your mind with other girls' pictures and not her's.

Just love her as a sister...

yes and thanks for the advice,just that its easier said than done

JasonScoolari:
May the soul of our departed brother, Mr. English Language who "Felled" in love rest in peace.

is like u don't know whom you are dealing with, talk nonsense again and u will see

Brother wey mumu..
Is thunder fells on you now, what'd you said?

uyams:
i will go straight to my point, she is my fathers younger sister daughter, she used to visit with her family on Christmas when we were small but for more than five years now, I haven't set my eyes on her cos the usually travel to there fathers place,but recently we lost our grandmother and during the burial, she came back with her mum, and I met her,during the cause of the burial we felled in love with each other
I see in her all the qualities i need in a wife,to cut the story short, I can stop imagining her being my wife and she is not helping the matter as she is helplessly falling for me too.
in my place is a taboo cosidering the fact we are cousins, pls how do I overcome this


NOTE:I never toasted her neither did I confess my feelings to her, it all started as late night chats to running of errands together, but the sign was very clear that my brother and other relations suspected our closeness bt had no evidence,even the Night before I left village for my base, we touched our self's in an unholly manner which if not for timely intervention of her mother who called her, might have led to sex(incense )

for this trash u put up here I pray u remain impotent till ur cousin finally gets married so as not to give room for u fuccking her. it's not a bad wish but for the good of all.

Please change the title quickly to “I fell ...” not “falled”. It’s “cousin” not “cousine” stop embarrassing us!

rtdCivilservant:

for this trash u put up here I pray u remain impotent till ur cousin finally gets married so as not to give room for u fuccking her. it's not a bad wish but for the good of all.

you are a fool, so silence is what u deserve

uyams:
i will go straight to my point, she is my fathers younger sister daughter, she used to visit with her family on Christmas when we were small but for more than five years now, I haven't set my eyes on her cos the usually travel to there fathers place,but recently we lost our grandmother and during the burial, she came back with her mum, and I met her,during the cause of the burial we felled in love with each other
I see in her all the qualities i need in a wife,to cut the story short, I can stop imagining her being my wife and she is not helping the matter as she is helplessly falling for me too.
in my place is a taboo cosidering the fact we are cousins, pls how do I overcome this


NOTE:I never toasted her neither did I confess my feelings to her, it all started as late night chats to running of errands together, but the sign was very clear that my brother and other relations suspected our closeness bt had no evidence,even the Night before I left village for my base, we touched our self's in an unholly manner which if not for timely intervention of her mother who called her, might have led to sex(incense )

Take her to Indian and marry her, after all it's not a crime there

Or stay away from each other and it will fade

Cos from your post I can see that u av sexual attraction for each other, its not love

uyams:



you are a fool, so silence is what u deserve

don't be silly, i prayed a good prayer for u and u are insulting me, ok do u wish to fucck ur cousin?

o.p i really dnt knw if i should say its normal,good or bad, but i will tell you this,

o.p no matter ur feelings,the closeness,love, family, bla bla bla,infact anything atall, IT WONT WORK!!!!...just have it at the back of your mind...just imaging a marriage where ur father's sister is also you inlaw..

it happen to me,same with urs, we met at our grandfathers burial, throughout the 7days burial, we were always together, we dnt sex oo, cux that idea was miles away frm us..so dnt ever think of that shit..
distance yourself and feelings frm her in a way she wont notice cause that's what i did in my own case..i can't even remember her face or how she looks again cux its been long we met..

like someone said,just love her as ur sister and ur best friend, you should be matured enough to control what ever you have for her, that will make her respect you more should incase things go the other way..

Please unfalled in love. Simple

hausa ppl do marry their cousins and it's not really a sin in Islam

rtdCivilservant:

don't be silly, i prayed a good prayer for u and u are insulting me, ok do u wish to fucck ur cousin?

pls I no like that kind play, y generalize it,it would av been fair if u specified my cousine, what if get married before her, ur prayer no work bro

united442:
o.p i really dnt knw if i should say its normal,good or bad, but i will tell you this,

o.p no matter ur feelings,the closeness,love, family, bla bla bla,infact anything atall, IT WONT WORK!!!!...just have it at the back of your mind...just imaging a marriage where ur father's sister is also you inlaw..

it happen to me,same with urs, we met at our grandfathers burial, throughout the 7days burial, we were always together, we dnt sex oo, cux that idea was miles away frm us..so dnt ever think of that shit..
distance yourself and feelings frm her in a way she wont notice cause that's what i did in my own case..i can't even remember her face or how she looks again cux its been long we met..

like someone said,just love her as ur sister and ur best friend, you should be matured enough to control what ever you have for her, that will make her respect you more should incase things go the other way..

thanks for the advice, thank God we are in different cities, I will try and forget her

uyams:
thanks for the advice, thank God we are in different cities, I will try and forget her

Flee every appearance of evil and lust. Its incest in this part of the world. Don't put yourself in trouble which you'll later regret in life.
Read 2nd Samuel 13 for more understanding.
Also read Leviticus 18... The whole chapter.