How on earth can you date someone for 18years?

This One na CHAMPIONS LEAGUE

What was he telling her for 5 years that made her stay till the 18th year? She aided the evil that came on her.

Too bad

18 yrs.... D girl need to answer some questions

The dude has been ACCUSED as if he broke the law or anything.
The lady he dated for 18yrs must be very stoopid if she ever thought that after 18yrs of getting the honey for free, a man will now settle to buy the damn honeypot, highly laughable!

This dude don't owe this woman SHIIIT, not even an explanation.

lol, but the lady should have known that dating is not a guarantee for marriage.

Mcy56:

You should blame the lady for allowing a man to tie her down that long.
Anyway, I smell lies in the story. It's not possible for a lady to be in courtship for such donkey years.

Pls explain how the lady should be blamed ❓

MrBrownJay1:
The dude has been ACCUSED as if he broke the law or anything.
The lady he dated for 18yrs must be very stoopid if she ever thought that after 18yrs of getting the honey for free, a man will now settle to buy the damn honeypot, highly laughable!

This dude don't owe this woman SHIIIT, not even an explanation.

So you think ❓

You never get esperance until you become a victim

Pidginwhisper:
Oboy!! Let's assume he slept with her each day of the 18yrs spent together. 365x18yrs=6,570millage. Okokobioko!

Help me with the girl name abeg, make i add her join my prayer point say make she no cross my path

Haba Bros why naaw!
Just Pity the Girl at least.

But to be sincere, it's not fully her fault. Don't she have parents, guardian or church members?

Women sef. Bros pray ooo. Let me even join you.

frozen70:


Pls explain how the lady should be blamed ❓

Nne! It's like you didn't read the article above.
The reporter said 18years ooo.
Not 18days, weeks or 18 months. 18 good years. At what speed is her brain's processor clocked.

18 purposeful, energetic and productive years wasted just like that by a woman.
Aah, Eleyi gidi gaan!!!
Please how old was she when they started the episode?

tiredoflife:
A gal may assume she is dating a guy for 5yrs
Whereas the guy only dated her for the first 6month of the 5yrs
From her attitude of broke guy
Na love I go chop
He doesn't dress fine
Look u will have to wait wen I come back from Paul's house
We will see
The guy love don japa
So he will manage her attitude for the remaining years
After he gets money
He finds his way

If u want to date a guy for DAT long and expect him to marry u
Ask urself this simple question
Did I treat him well

I share your sentiment. Additionally, she might have done something to the man which he used against her. Some guys will treat a girl's f**k up subtly. She might have played with other guy and the man kept quiet and she feels he doesn't know.

Meanwhile, there is no need to conclude from a single story. Let's wait to hear from the man. I believe the girl messed up during the course of the relationship

IvyGRush:


Nne! It's like you didn't read the article above.
The reporter said 18years ooo.
Not 18days, weeks or 18 months. 18 good years. At what speed is her brain's processor clocked.

18 purposeful, energetic and productive years wasted just like that by a woman.
Aah, Eleyi gidi gaan!!!
Please how old was she when they started the episode?

Nna, because of our culture and mentality, a relationship can go on without the guy proposing to the lady

But the lady will be hopeful that she is going to be his wife

A guy that kept a lady for that long and later dropped her,

Do you think the lady will swallow it just like that ❓

Besides there would have been series of abortion and he thinks she would accept it to go like that❓

When a lady is keeping silent, lots of evil plans are going on in her mind especially when they are at the receiving end

frozen70:
Pls explain how the lady should be blamed ❓

As a lady, when a man starts using you to buy time unnecessarily, its not a good sign. Note the "unnecessary" used here.
Imagine waiting for a man for good 18yrs, (though I dont believe the cra.p anyway) how old do you think the lady will be or are they saying she started dating since she was 5yrs old?
Dont think or expect that you can change a man, just find your level.

Chai! What was she thinking? 3 years, 5 ,10,15,18.....WOW.. Abi na village pepple ?

1, the girl no get sense. What did he tell her, or has been telling her to make her stay that long? Hian. Na korofo dey her head.

2, the guy no get conscience. He knew all along that he wasn't gonna marry the girl, yet he kept her away from men that would av made a wife out of her.. his judgement is here on earth.

3, I dey come. Make I check wetin dey fire .

rockstar27:

DON'T TALK LIKE THIS, DO U KNOW HOW THEY START?
I DIDN'T BLAME THE GIRL OOOO
NAH THAT GUY BE UNFORTUNATE PERSON

I agree he maybe I what ever you called him, the lady didn't see the signal coming before committing to such long courtship?

Pidginwhisper:
Oboy!! Let's assume he slept with her each day of the 18yrs spent together. 365x18yrs=6,570millage. Okokobioko!

Help me with the girl name abeg, make i add her join my prayer point say make she no cross my path

Can you use your child's pictures to do this?
I think this is child abuse

Well this is heartless i pity the girl
Not every relationship leads to marriage
Advice to women pls don't allow ur current boyfriend to scare away ur future husband coz when he will be ready for marriage he may no longer sees u worthy to marry

Lol! This are the type that are usually "patient" with a man. Obviously, he did not have money for marriage all this years if not they would be married a long time.
So madam was waiting for a Nigerian man while her biological clock was ticking.

See how his fellow Nigerian men on nairaland are even insulting her. Hahahahhaaha!


Women, open your eyes o!!!! This men are not worth it. When you are ready to marry, do not stick to one mu.mu who hasn't put ring on your finger. In fact, consider yourself as not being in a relationship until after he says "I do". No carry anybody put for forehead as badge and scare other potential suitors o. If not, 18yrs na your case.

chiommy123:
Some people can be heartless and they think they will go free

My dear sister, you don't judge a situation from one side. wait and hear from both parties. Did you ever wonder why the Facebook poster did not release any pics of them together even after he claimed they dated for 18years. Too many unanswered questions and I honestly doubt the genuineness of the whole drama. which family will allow a lady date a man for 18years. how old were they when they started?

frozen70:
So you think ❓
You never get esperance until you become a victim

You mean HOPE ?! If you'd even understand the word, you wouldn't be here writing rubbish.

- Just because you HOPE to win the lottery, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE you will have beautiful healthy children, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE that you will become the next oga at the top, does NOT mean you ever will!

HOPE is just an imaginary belief that something may (or not) happen..... Thinking that it MUST happen is the reason why people like you will always fail on this issue (like the dumb woman of this fake story)

His life
His decision

MrBrownJay1:


You mean HOPE ?! If you'd even understand the word, you wouldn't be here writing rubbish.

- Just because you HOPE to win the lottery, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE you will have beautiful healthy children, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE that you will become the next oga at the top, does NOT mean you ever will!

HOPE is just an imaginary belief that something may (or not) happen..... Thinking that it MUST happen is the reason why people like you will always fail on this issue (like the dumb woman of this fake story)

You are still a kid, maturity is still far from you

frozen70:
You are still a kid, maturity is still far from you

If your view of maturity is GLADLY/WILLINGLY dating a man for 18yrs then complaining like a spoiled child when that man leaves you to marry another... Then let me just say that I want nothing to do with your "maturity"