okay

I will wait here for you to write what exactly the problem is.
No rush ........

my dear, I join you in waiting.

MissRaine69:
I will wait here for you to write what exactly the problem is.
No rush ........

MissRaine69:
I will wait here for you to write what exactly the problem is.
No rush ........

Time

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Lol I find your tough macho description of yourself funny , Pardon me, well we all know that there is that one person that comes into our lives at a certain point and proof all we think of ourselves wrong. You need not convince us of your emotional intelligence or mental stability as any sane person knows and acknowledges the fact that those two attributes can be breached.Even the mightiest are fallen by little things.

Now to your problem, The only thing to do is to do Nothing! Don't fight it, don't allow it just let it be until it sort itself out. One of the misconception we human make is thinking we have to control it all, most times we get so engrossed in our abilities that we often think of doing something about everything whereas we only end up creating more problems while solving another, a good example is the rebound relationship you thought of, what did you gain? an unsatisfied yearning, unfilled hole in the heart, heartbroken lady and worst of all an overwhelming ex memories.


Brother, the only cure here is putting a long comma to all romantic thoughts and relations until you are completely healed and back to who you were. Don't fight the yearning, but don't yearn, you want to call her? don't fight it but don't call.You want to remember her, kindly let the memory flow but don't dwell on it.Remind yourself why and how it came to this but never hate or despise, smile more often and tell yourself it is for the best until you believe and see it. I wish you Success brother.

MariaLavina:
Lol I find your tough macho description of yourself funny , Pardon me, well we all know that there is that one person that comes into our lives at a certain point and proof all we think of ourselves wrong. You need not convince us of your emotional intelligence or mental stability as any sane person knows and acknowledges the fact that those two attributes can be breached.Even the mightiest are fallen by little things.

Now to your problem, The only thing to do is to do Nothing! Don't fight it, don't allow it just let it be until it sort itself out. One of the misconception we human make is thinking we have to control it all, most times we get so engrossed in our abilities that we often think of doing something about everything whereas we only end up creating more problems while solving another, a good example is the rebound relationship you thought of, what did you gain? an unsatisfied yearning, unfilled hole, heartbroken lady and worst of all an overwhelming ex memories.


Brother, the only cure here is putting a long comma to all romantic thoughts and relations until you are completely healed and back to who you were. Don't fight the yearning, but don't yearn, you want to call her? don't fight it but don't call.You want to remember her, kindly let the memory flow but don't dwell on it.Remind yourself why and how it came to this but never hate or despise, smile more often and tell yourself it is for the best until you believe and see it. I wish you Success brother.

a MILLION THANKS

Takeit2017:


a MILLION THANKS

I hope this laughter is from the heart.

The need for guys to show how "strong" and emotionally detached they are us quite funny. Is it that you don't want to admit that you are human and capable of loving someone or you are conditioned to think that being in love or caring about women is bad?

Guy, like someone said earlier, yoy have not said anything bad here, you love a girl, you have seen that you are venerable emotionally (which is a beautiful thing) so what exactly is the problem right now?

Is it that you don't want a relationship, she doesnt love you back or what? Because if you ask me, you are having a blast, embrace your emotions and let life take you wherever it wishes

Bro just for a moment imagine that she has been climbed by some men before now, you will finally stop worrying about her.

Takeit2017:
Hello Nairalanders

First, thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this, and to those who leave me your advice. I'm asking the guys of Nairaland, because as we all have come to know.

Note: we see each other everyday cause we work in the same shopping complex

I've recently hooked up with a girl, Note: I didn't toast her, but as a good-bad guy i sneaked into the relationship. She's amazing, wonderful, and I venture to say, we were perfect for each other. I'm a fairly recent grad.

I've been in many relationships, ranging from casual to significantly serious. This was probably the most serious I've ever been in - I'd catch myself trying to picture what our children would look like, I put her on my life insurance policy (and I still can't bring myself to take her off - I want her taken care of, you know?), and I even began making long term plans around her. Usually when a relationship falls apart, I'd have the normal guy's night out, have a few brews and talk about how woman are plight on all mankind etc etc, and a few days later be on my merry way. I don't know why this one is different.

I can only phrase it as "heart-sick." Mind you, I'm no wuss. I'm a resilient guy; I've had the fortune of having a tumultuous life, and I've learned the lesson of rolling with the punches, picking myself off the mat and barreling through the next wall. I'm rarely phased by things, I guess I'm trying to say.

I wake up, and my first thought is off her. I catch myself staring at my phone, hoping that it lights up with a message from her. I've tried my damnedest to pull away, move on, stop loving her. I can't, or haven't figured out how for this gal, and its killing me.


I hope this makes sense. I don't blame you if you can't make heads or tails of it; Most days I don't even know what I'm doing anymore. I'm a young man, and I'd appreciate anyone's advice. And believe me, all my other guy friends are giving me the "screw her" / "just move on" / "stop being such a bleeding heart" speech, and although I do appreciate the thought behind it, its not quite as insightful as I seem to need. That said, advice anyone?

Great thanks, and my best to you all.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

boss how did you sneak into the relationship

Mynd44:
The need for guys to show how "strong" and emotionally detached they are us quite funny. Is it that you don't want to admit that you are human and capable of loving someone or you are conditioned to think that being in love or caring about women is bad?

Guy, like someone said earlier, yoy have not said anything bad here, you love a girl, you have seen that you are venerable emotionally (which is a beautiful thing) so what exactly is the problem right now?

Is it that you don't want a relationship, she doesnt love you back or what? Because if you ask me, you are having a blast, embrace your emotions and let life take you wherever it wishes

I WANT TO STOP LOVING HER…

Stop claiming who u aren't!...the empty vessel makes the loudest noise.

adeboi1:


boss how did you sneak into the relationship

@ilLegendd you are needed here

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innteract with other girls and u will 4get abt her

You can't help yourself, can you?

You're vulnerable and a hopeless romantic.

Don't fight it, just fall. It's what you want, what you crave for, her love. Feels like a beautiful thing you know.

Takeit2017:


I WANT TO STOP LOVING HER…

Why? It makes you less of a man?

MissRaine69:
I will wait here for you to write what exactly the problem is.
No rush ........

hahahahhaahhahah

before i got to the middle of the post,i knew the first comment will be awkward

lemme join you jor..

na who no get problem they use english pray.

Takeit2017:


I WANT TO STOP LOVING HER…

Why? Has she done anything or is there any particular reason why you want to stop loving her?

You write very well. Like your friends, I'll say forget her, she isn't worth the emotional rollercoaster. Just keep telling yourself that they are many girls in the world and you are capable of getting someone much better. With time you'll be the one to ask what you saw in her.

Mynd44:
The need for guys to show how "strong" and emotionally detached they are us quite funny. Is it that you don't want to admit that you are human and capable of loving someone or you are conditioned to think that being in love or caring about women is bad?

Guy, like someone said earlier, yoy have not said anything bad here, you love a girl, you have seen that you are venerable emotionally (which is a beautiful thing) so what exactly is the problem right now?

Is it that you don't want a relationship, she doesnt love you back or what? Because if you ask me, you are having a blast, embrace your emotions and let life take you wherever it wishes

It’s all online bravado
They are all pu$$ywhipped in real life

[quote author=MariaLavina

Now to your problem, The only thing to do is to do Nothing! Don't fight it, don't allow it just let it be until it sort itself out. One of the misconception we human make is thinking we have to control it all, most times we get so engrossed in our abilities that we often think of doing something about everything whereas we only end up creating more problems while solving another, a good example is the rebound relationship you thought of, what did you gain? an unsatisfied yearning, unfilled hole in the heart, heartbroken lady and worst of all an overwhelming ex memories.




this is what he needs.

Gaggi:
You write very well. Like your friends, I'll say forget her, she isn't worth the emotional rollercoaster. Just keep telling yourself that they are many girls in the world and you are capable of getting someone much better. With time you'll be the one to ask what you saw in her.

Did you read what he wrote or you just want to be part of guys that condemn ladies for no reason? Why should he forget her? How isn't she worth the roller coaster? Someone better? How? Did Op mention anything like she offended or cheated on him? How did you arrive at these conclusion?

Ok

Ur relationship is new. Give it time and u will regulate as time goes on

Mynd44:
The need for guys to show how "strong" and emotionally detached they are us quite funny. Is it that you don't want to admit that you are human and capable of loving someone or you are conditioned to think that being in love or caring about women is bad?

Guy, like someone said earlier, yoy have not said anything bad here, you love a girl, you have seen that you are venerable emotionally (which is a beautiful thing) so what exactly is the problem right now?

Is it that you don't want a relationship, she doesnt love you back or what? Because if you ask me, you are having a blast, embrace your emotions and let life take you wherever it wishes

Abeg i need your help

Ah.. wahala dey ho..our brother from anoda mida Don fall finish inside Love..

a brother has been lost