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Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by cococandy(f): 3:15pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege: The fact that this had to be said. On a forum where people claim to have common sense. Sigh. I don’t even bother anymore. 7 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:15pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Maybe that's what it is. If I'm that woman, let me put it pomp and plain... I WILL deal with that man. Next time, he better learn not to disrespect my body when I didn't disrespect his. Nonsense. .. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:16pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: Like I said, their beliefs stand in their way to objective reasoning. It is well. Everything changes eventually and there is no regression, only progress. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:16pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: I applaud your clarity, strength and determination. This is how it should be. Self-respect first. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:17pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: A large Resounding Amen to the Progress Part. Amen. We need it in this country. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:17pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:You're prevaricating. I am not trying to justify the slap. I only put it to YOU that if YOU can justify a wife being rude to her husband because of stress, then YOU should also be able to justify the husband slapping her because he's also experiencing stress. Everyone reacts to stress. I put YOU in capitals this time, in case you missed them other times. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by eyinjuege: 3:20pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: When you're faced in a high pressure situation, with a lot of hungry, probably loud customers waiting for their food and you're alone in the restaurant dishing out food and collecting money at the same time(perhaps it was even lunch break hour, usually busy) you'll be glad to see any life saver like a husband, sister/brother or friend and you'll probably shout over the noise - "PLS, HELP ME BE WASHING THOSE PLATES OVER THERE". (Unfortunately in her case, her husband was not a lifesaver but a stressor). You probably dont have time to go and meet the person, take him/ her to one side and be explaining why it would be nice for them to help you (remember your customers are waiting and queuing up, your money box is probably still out there over the counter exposed. I definitely expect someone who feeds from the proceeds should know better. That's just me sha. I cant see my friend struggling in her food place and won't automatically render help without being asked, how much more a spouse. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:20pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness:You remember when I used to tell you to get treatment for your wide-spectrum psychological disorders? Those were the days mehn...I honestly thought you were nuts |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:22pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege:Hmmm, okay. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:23pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Yes. Even if you give me the world, you don't dare disrespect my body or disfigure it in any way. Only childbirth is permitted to do that to me. My parents did not give my hand in marriage to you for you to turn me to slapping or punching bag. If I hit you, it would be different.. If I gave you hot insults that really pushed you.....that one is different.. In fact, if I insult you..Insult me back. But don't hit me. I did not hit you. And if you feel my mouth is too much for you, walk out. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:24pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: These days I think you are a psychopath. How times change ... 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:25pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: Problem is that some daughters will even be told to go back and apologize. Imagine that! |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:27pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: If I did not disrespect your body, why should you disrespect mine. If I disrespected your ego and you have the need to go on a vengeful spree, disrespect my ego too. Don't touch my body when I have not permitted you to do so. Don't disfigure it either. Doing otherwise means you're a psychopath. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:29pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: They should well done. Tomorrow, they will fill the news about how one wife stabbed their husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:32pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: You know dysfunctional families are healthier than divorced parents who co-parent without all the drama. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:32pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Does she really? I think she's too hot and mentally sound for you guys to handle. Well, whether she fights or not, I just love her like that biko. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:33pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Only in Africa, and some parts of Asia, I suppose 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:37pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:But isn't this kind of thinking that gets some of you women beat up by men with little self-control? Like you seriously do something to hurt a man's ego, then go ahead to dictate how he should react to you... You're too funny. Your Majesty.. By the way, the ONLY way a woman can disrespect a man is using her tongue to break his ego. Ain't nothing else y'all can do besides that. It's not like there's a choice between hurting his body or hurting his ego. Don't make me laugh abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: You see the result of this way of thinking. Hun, I need to get some more pages finished. I hope I will see you around soon? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:40pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Yassss. :-" I'm always around. Just not always writing. Hope the project goes smoothly And hope I'll see you around more. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:41pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Very nice description of it means to be in this business. She is running and sweating but as soon oga enters she must tiptoe. Nonsense! 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:42pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness:Coming from a veteran psychopath, it's hard to take it serious. You probably think the voices you hear in your head are full of wisdom. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:43pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Did Crackhaus read this and still justify the slap I've said enough. Let me sleep 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:43pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: I have nothing to lose. From now on everything is an extra. Take good care of yourself. Make your well-being top priority always It's so easy to remember all the wisdom that should guide me when talking to you, as usual. I might sneak in later. Until then ... take perfect care of yourself. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:45pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: And you too, Angel Go happier, go higher. It only gets better from here on. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:47pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:I know you're kidding... |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by eyinjuege: 3:48pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness:In fact, I tire. Most problems in marriage happen because spouses dont put themselves in the other's shoes. If we all applied the golden rule of "Do unto others as you want done to you", many will be in happier marriages, and the difficulties of life won't appear so overwhelming. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:50pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Absolutely not. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:51pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:You are the one justifying things here using stress as an excuse. My very first submission on this topic already condemned the slap, don't take us back. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:53pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:For her own sake, you better be kidding. Someone that is too hot and mentally sound for ALL the males on Nairaland to handle. Get where I'm going yet? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:56pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: All the males she's bantered with, yes 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by bukatyne(f): 4:01pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Nigerian marriages right from time doesn't run by that principle. If a woman can't make sense of a Nigerian marriage, she should steer clear of a Nigerian man. And may I stare that some wives are so dysfunctional that the only man they can respect is a Nigerian man. I have seen examples of wives who sit up after serious handling by their husbands. Demand and Supply. 1 Like |
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