I am a strong believer in traditional gender roles. And i believe that men should work hard and earn reasonably before they nurture any thought of dating or even marrying. Like they say why would a guy who cannot take care of him self properly think he can handle extra expenses that comes with courtship and marriage?

But that's not even the problem, these guys are big time pretenders. They know they wouldn't hang on if they were in your position so they hope that you remain foolish for as long as the world last. They don't love you because if they did they would make your life better not miserable.

Any man that does not seek to make your life better does not love you. African women, African men do not really love you because they are not after your happiness but theirs. They admire the freshness of non African women. Those women are watered by the sweat of their men, protected by the wealth created by their men. We thank God for them. This is something i tell my younger sis; You are a woman, an African woman for that matter, you have very little value in the eyes of African men, not your fault but you must be smart and stand for yourself and every woman that looks like you. Don't be foolish, there are barely no african men who have your back except me. You must do everything to make your life better and not worse Cape for yourself first and make sure you are comfortable before you start supporting another, that's what reasonable people do.

Men know they can never approach some types of women except they are made, be that kind of woman. They don't call this type of women gold diggers, they are called status symbols or trophies. Men desire trophies not struggles. I am a man so i should know. You are a woman, ''ride or die'' is for slaves.

There was a rich man who married his old time lover, but there were hundreds who ditched theirs for ''better women''. Your chances of benefitting from your struggle love are 0.00001. If you are big risk taker go for it and good luck. As for the female folks that surround me such nonsense is frowned upon in our clan.

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op.....if u practice what you preach...... no problem

BiafranBushBoy:
Thanks to your signature.
I still didn't get the message

IDGAF The message is meant for humans.

Preshy561:
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abelprice:
op.....if u practice what you preach...... no problem

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Both should be hard working...no one should be a leech to his or her partner. My 2kobo

Sundrus:
Both should be hard working...no one should be a leech to his or her partner. My 2kobo

Its very paramount that they man be hardworking and succesful else he is done for. There are hardly lazy women here.

H2Ossss:


But I love u and I'm broke

Are you not mad?

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Are you

Backinfront:
Its very paramount that they man be hardworking and succesful else he is done for. There are hardly lazy women here.

hardly lazy women where

So in your sick deluded mind, broke guys have no right to companionship but broke girls do right? And to top it all, it's acceptable that if these men make money, they are to spend it on women like your sister who rejected them in the first place right? Please STFU.

Only a broke family will make another man's account balance their uttermost priority. Make your own money.

SageMK:
So in your sick deluded mind, broke guys have no right to companionship

Yes, in an ideal world those fools have no guts to seek out female companionship because they are emotional wreckers and opportunists who bank on female gullibility. Every man at this stage is just putting up with everything he has including the women that sacrifice themselves until we can afford not to. Even men don't understand themselves at once. We get to a stage and realise some things, some people do not fit in anymore so we cut them off.

but broke girls do right? And to top it all, it's acceptable that if these men make money, they are to spend it on women like your sister who rejected them in the first place right? Please STFU.

Yes broke girls can go into relationships because a woman's financial stability isn't our top most priority. You know it, i know it, everybody knows this. Even kids know this. So FOH.

Only a broke family will make another man's account balance their uttemost priority. Make your own money.

Stay broke but you losers would be encaged if i catch your dusty asses around my sisters. And i'm not about to go into any relationship with a woman i can't provide for. No way would i let my wife lose her looks, youth and warmth in a bid to please me because that poo is appaling as fcck. So fcck you broke as.

Sundrus:
hardly lazy women where

Yep. Hoeing is a job too.

This message sounds like it was written by a South African.
Meanwhile, let me correct you on one thing. White women look good because they hustle to take care of themselves and not because any man takes care of them.

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Well, I personally believe no one should depend on anyone for money in a relationship. Don't mean men shouldn't play their part in the household tho. Now, I want to ask, what's your definition of a broke guy? Cause I feel that most people are mistaking hustlers for them oo.
For me broke guys have no plans and are comfortable with being broke. While hustlers are always looking for legal ways to make money and upgrade their status (academically, emotionally and financially).
I can stay with a hustler any day but not a broke guy if you get my drift anyways.
By the way, money isn't everything oo! Marry an immature unforgiving rich guy first and see if you won't be the one to use your hand and pack out.

Backinfront:
Its very paramount that they man be hardworking and succesful else he is done for. There are hardly lazy women here.

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Backinfront:

Men know they can never approach some types of women except they are made, be that kind of woman. They don't call this type of women gold diggers, they are called status symbols or trophies. Men desire trophies not struggles. I am a man so i should know. You are a woman, ''ride or die'' is for slaves.

I hope you know for men to desire you as a trophy you have to be very hot or very smart If you are not from a wealthy home. I hope your sister is either gorgeous or super smart. Nobody is going to run after an orangutan or a plain Jane. There are millions of women out there. You need to be outstanding to attract successful men otherwise, your DM will be flooded by broke asses and you have no choice than to marry one when menopause approaches...