Well I know what I am about to say is an overflogged issue, but the thing still remains that ladies don't seem to learn but would come out and start screaming foul when they get burnt.

Why is it that when you give a lady attention and care she starts misbehaving and at the end run to a guy that will maltreat her. But the moment you don't give a damn about them they start flocking around you. I know people will say ladies love guys that can control them.But must every guy become an alpha male before he gets a loyal girl.