Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

gcof:
which billionaire son He is the money bag. If you catch am, hold am tight

Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

ibkayee:
iamgrey5

You've always come across as one of those deliberately humble guys who go out of their way to not appear as rich, successful, smart etc as they really are by the way lol

To me anyway

Won't be surprised if you're one billionaire's son

Preshy561:

Lol.

I too like money

UyaiIncomparabl:
Like 500K is ideal. Last last 300K. I did not come to this life to suffer.

When is my Ned Nwoko arriving naw?

truthsayer009:


Hustle for where? Where would you have such time? Once you're married you have Minus -50% less time to do anything.

Safiaa:
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it.

tunjilana:
If u are working and live in a country like Nigeria where domestic labor is cheap then simply outsource it(get a maid)...You both can fund this from your pooled funds...rather than fight ur spouse to wash plate before co fund the home....Domestic labor is way cheaper than what u have capacity to earn if u spend ur time working

truthsayer009:


Oh Jisos, Cette dame est venue avec ses problèmes

UyaiIncomparabl:


Thanks for this, my dear. Don't mind these sexists men. After we still split bills with them, they won't be responsible with sharing the house chores. Later later, they'll still cheat last last, so what's the point? Let's drink garri in a mansion than eat fried rice in one room at obalende.

In the end, they'll still call us prostitutes. Let me suffer with my Ned Nwoko in peace.

Safiaa:
Fine, get a maid. What about those who don’t believe in maids or allowing a third party to live in their marital homes? What about people reading this who do not live in Nigeria? Why do you have to result to an untrusted maid when the husband can simply help out in the house? Each to their own, but I really need some women to wake up.

Mizwisdom:



I partly agree, but disagree with the "manipulation" part. I think it's due to wickedness on our part as females and maybe a bit of this shortsighted nature of ours. If guys start being asked to wash plates, clothes and stuff, the mother(female) will be the first to protest, she will want her daughter in law to enslave herself while still contributing financially to the home plus sending money to her. It's still mothers(females) who train girls domestically while allowing boys freedom from domestic chores in the same house. It's not really manipulation, we are our own worse enemy.

Mizwisdom:



I partly agree, but disagree with the "manipulation" part. I think it's due to wickedness on our part as females and maybe a bit of this shortsighted nature of ours. If guys start being asked to wash plates, clothes and stuff, the mother(female) will be the first to protest, she will want her daughter in law to enslave herself while still contributing financially to the home plus sending money to her. It's still mothers(females) who train girls domestically while allowing boys freedom from domestic chores in the same house. It's not really manipulation, we are our own worse enemy.

erico2k2:

See them, U do n get support abi

Safiaa:
That’s also true. I think women are always trying to prove they can do it all, always trying to prove to their husbands that they are worthy. Always trying to do everything to keep their husbands from looking outside, you are deceiving yourself. Stop suffering yourself in the name of love and have common sense for once. You are looking haggard yet you still want to prove you are superwoman. To who exactly? It couldn’t be me sha and I thank God my partner has the same mindset as me.

CaptainMitch:
Preshy561 I know say na this kind thread you go like

nwanneni:
ericko I no know why you dey waste time dey answer all these wannabes them.
Just check the profile of the girl you quoted and see her environment
Which well to do guy go go that kind place to go pick wife? so just let her keep living in her fantasy world
If a woman wants a man that makes much,she should have some value too.even market boys don dey wise up.
The days of men going to one village to pick one otondo to uplift her and her people are over.
If you ain't bringing value too,just forget it!I wouldn't do such or allow anyone close to me to even attempt it.
Period!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Like 500K is ideal. Last last 300K. I did not come to this life to suffer.

When is my Ned Nwoko arriving naw?

Headlesschicken:
110 to 120 is moderate buh must v worked for a while wiv some other investments before thinking about that..

erico2k2:

ahah, my guy, I feel you, today nah Sunday and no work so I just get time to dey here, U see me. Woman wey nor fit pay 10k to go venue wey millioneers dey wan marry millionaires, light and darkness don't mix

HeliosHay:


Depends on the kind of lifestyle the person wants to lead and where he wants to live. Lagos/Abuja is more expensive than most other cities.

Would love to marry a ride or die chick that's down for whatever. Someone who can manage whatever the situation presents without complaint.

That being said, personally, I think 500k a month should be enough

samueloduoye:
For a man living in Ibadan, Lagos, Port Harcourt or any other Nigerian city, how much should he be making monthly before considering marriage?

Share your thoughts





https://punchng.com/how-much-should-a-man-earn-monthly-before-considering-marriage/

nwanneni:
I know na.
I just dey for bed dey laugh at their foolishness since yesterday night while i wait for my departure.
I wish It was the UK I was coming to tonight.Hanging out with you could have been fun.remember me from cartalk?
Your whole range rover conversion ish...I saw you succeeded with that,kudos..
I wouldn't even dare go close to a woman that doesn't make at least 200k.I did not come to this conclusion by sitting out in a cubicle and setting imaginary standards but by giving myself the same value as well
So if na to dey for her shanty dey make those demands,na to just dey watch her mumu dey laugh na

stinflame:


Which work will give u 500k..do I know how much an entry graduate in most ministries in Abuja earn. Some even less than 100k

erico2k2:

Yes nah true I remember joor, howfar where U dey remove go? you go play away match ni
some of these girls for eko dey package in broad daylight if you see where dem dey live you sef go fear.

erico2k2:

I will never wash plates if I was being asked reason is I will see it as 2 much, I will buy my wife a dishwasher end off. This does not mean I can't wash my plates or clothes as I do so now anyway. But being asked to do so is taking it to another level.I think running after the kids is more draining than doing housework. This is where dad can give mum a break.

donbachi:
No be by city,pocket and monthly earnings...if you are matured at heart and ready..no amount or earning is too much or small..find your mrs right first,know about her in and out atleast 60%,because,a woman is a lifetime book.you have to read,read and read.because it's a book full of intrigues,suspense,pains,regrets and laughters..every chapter different story...lastly,dem no dey marry woman finish....i'm still paying...so,how much u don save so far.