if u got kids u gotta look all around d corner to search 4 there clothes. oh and would u clean d house too? u gotta bend ur back 4 dat one.

I am very organized. Most of the time I have to teach women actually.

if u got kids u gotta look all around d corner to search 4 there clothes. oh and would u clean d house too? u gotta bend your back 4 that one.

Who said I will do that, look all around d corner to search 4 kids clothes. If it's not in the washing basket I'm not going to wash it. They will get the message after a week I think especially if they are teenagers. I like discipline in my family.

u got a point and it should work cept 4 if they r just lilkids who don't understand d word discipline yet.

I been a swimming instructor and I did control 5 yr olds. You can convince them if you make it fun. Even 3 yr olds try to test you, but if you know how to play your cards well it should not be too difficult.

And anyway, kids like to feel important so if you give them responsibility and trust them a bit you can get good result. Is like training good dog, you begin when they are very tiny.

Very true chrisd. I cant remember the verse right now but even the bible says to train a child from infancy. Kids do feel important when you give them a responsibility. Even at a very young age,they can handle responsibility if you make it fun. My 4yr old enjoys cleaning up cause I try to make it fun. We sing and create drama while doing stuff together. Even my 14 months old baby knows how to put away her toys after she is through With them. Its always a joy as a mother watching them do these things.

Congratulations on the good job

As to a woman's role to her husband or as a wife, I think a woman should mean "rest" to her husband. For a man,  after been around the world and meeting a sorts of women, He seeks a resting place and he finds that in a wife. Please, I hope noone is gonna misunderstand me. A resting place for a man is that place where he is accepted for who he is, a place he wont be judged, a place without nagging, a place he is made to feel important, a place he is loved without question. A woman should be a resting place for her husband. He should never feel like he would rather be anywhere else than spend time with you. Your husband should feel most comfortable in your company not in the company of strange women.
Been a good wife isnt easy, but can be possible with the right backing.

Yep, I mean after struggling and fighting all the time, to find parking space, to get the bus, people pissing you off at work, your computer has a problem, your boss expects too much. One wopuld like to be very glad to be home, just "be home". Who wants to start another battlefield at home too. Same for a woman

True chrisd. Even if I had a fight with my husband and was pissed at him when he went out, I always try to welcome him back with a smile. Even when angry, I welcome him with warmth, of cause I'll deal with the issue later. But welcoming your husband with nagging or insults will only make him find his rest else where. After a hard days work, a man should be able to come home to a loving environment, a woman too, but for a man I think its more important.

Yep, what's a man if he cannot feel like a man

I just want to relax and have dinner and quiet time with my family. And squezze the wify a bit, yes.

@chrisd . Yeah, men are just babies. You just want to be pampered and made to feel important.

Of course she will get a reward after that. I'll make her faint. I Italian ok so I know how to do about everything including cooking.

Oh nice for your wifey . Would love to taste your pasta. My husband cooks really well too- though he's not Italian!

Good for you. Start giving him the difficult ones now

Im lost.

no your not. This thread is now for aldheri and chrisd
dont have the slighest idea what they've been talking abt

lioness:

no your not. This thread is now for aldheri and chrisd
don't have the slighest idea what they've been talking about

come on lioness, dont get upset with us . The thread is not just for chrisd and I, we were just talking about kids and how to make them act responsilbly. Then we also started talking about a woman's role to her husband. Just read thru, you'd understand.

And pls, smile

Its alright girl,

as for the washing of cars,happy is the man who marries me cos I love washing cars!!!

really,
thats kool

Especially if it's a nice cool car.

Anything that will make a man come running home is a Woman's role to her husband.

So she better cook well

Chrisd ! You seem to like food huh? Better get hunger buster Damsel

Chrisd is italian and they cook really good esp pizza

well,I love wash cars and do odd jobs.......as in men's work!!!!

Since y'all have internet access, i would beg you to search out the writings of John Stuart Mill on the presumed roles of women (in reply to the misogynist rantings of John Ruskin). hopefully it will disabuse you of your quaint notions.

i think that role of a women is to stand behind her man, to help him when he is in need, to guide , because we all know women are stonger than men(not phisically), when he is down she will help him better himself, she is his backbone

theres no book saying that she is supose to clean, cook and wash, etc
if you as an a women choose to do that than you can
i would i feel that i want to cater to him i want to have his dinner waiting for him a the table and i want to make sure his clothes are clean , but thats a choice not a role

A woman holds the family together forget the cooking and cleaning,
she reminds her husband to phone his mum and dad on their birthday and buy them presents. for example.