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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:20am On Jul 12
Geosystem:
Day 35 for me. One more step keep matching on

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:26am On Jul 12
stubbornman:
Good morning fellas.... most of you know my name already!!!

I've been in this bullshit for a long time .... I wanna quit today!!
so help me God....I'll update y'all as I make progress!!

Thank you!

For taking such a positive stand today, we the members of this thread have decided to root for you.
We look forward to being made proud by you.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by TeeNBee: 11:44am On Jul 12
Day 4/20 I pray I keep moving

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:44am On Jul 12
Moschinochimma:
Please I am finding it so difficult to stop.. i might decide not to do it again and maybe just after few days I fall back to it again... The memory of my wife makes me do that... I just wish I could stop it just like u guys... I go on it almost everyday , maybe it's because of my being at home and emotional torture..

Bro one of the easiest way of getting healing is by talking about your predicaments out loud.
Mind sharing who you are, age, when you started and what you meant by "the memory" of your wife?


Talk to us bro. We're here for you

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:45am On Jul 12
TeeNBee:
Day 4/20 I pray I keep moving

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:46am On Jul 12
jworos:
Good evening guys... Day 10 for me, today’s been met with one temptation to another, I tire...

But it is well, I already know what I need to do when faced with these temptations, I just pray God continues to give me the strength to overcome...

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by IghravweIG(m): 11:54am On Jul 12
Nnamebuka:


Why bro! undecided
You were doing just fine almost just 5 days to completing 30 days, what happened?

I noticed you visited sexuality section recently, could it have contributed?
You see, honestly staying away from all possible triggers is the secret here.

Pls take note of your causes of relapse and avoid them going forward.
The most important thing is that you are willing to restart cos relapse discourages rebooter usually.

Let's go bro!
Thank you bro. I appreciate

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by naijafox(m): 12:38pm On Jul 12
Hello bosses
You know my story already, it's been over a year I masturbated, last year January, we always emphasize on avoiding your triggers, please try as much as possible to avoid your triggers, you know the feeling after been celibate for a long while and then you have sex, that sweet feeling. It's the same as masturbation


So yesterday, something crazy almost happen, Thank God that I had the strength to overcome it.. I was scrolling through sexuality session on nairaland and I stumbled across the "THICK BLACK WOMEN" thread, I thought it was just picture of beautiful women not knowing it was sexy pictures of black porn Starz �

I clicked and the second picture I saw there was my accomplice, one of my favorite porn star when I was still in the game, I nor dey use her videos play lol, I was like "finally nairaland Don kill me"

The urge to masturbate came back heavily, Jesus, I started remembering some of her videos and my sessions, haaaaa a mogbe, everything about me was so sensitive, I was alone at home, my babe traveled self, I close my eyes and my hands was almost drifting, immediately I shouted NO, (JUST BE LIKE WHEN ACTOR WAKE UP FOR FILM LOL), i jejely went outside, started gisting with my neighbours... My foolish neighbors carry sex and girls matter for head � from fire to fry pan.. Came back home late at night, urge was still there.. Started thinking about payment wey WU cast lol.. Finally slept

I thank God for the strength to overcome this, please stay away from your triggers... Mine is porn, I had to delete anything porn from my phone, yours might be porn, sexy ladies (stay away from IG), erotica stories (yes I have a friend who masturbate when reading sexual stories), and your thoughts, stop seeing every girl as sexx object.. That was how I lost many of my good female friends because I was always looking at them wrongly

Peace
Together we overcome

Sorry for my typo,

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by stubbornman(m): 12:57pm On Jul 12
Nnamebuka:


For taking such a positive stand today, we the members of this thread have decided to root for you.
We look forward to being made proud by you.






Thank you bro.... just pray for me.... determined this time around for my own sake and the sake of those i intend to inspire

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Durentt(m): 1:05pm On Jul 12
Day 0 out of 3 years.

I'm an undergraduate, and I need to be sexually disciplined to focus all attention on my academics and future career, It's very difficult and I've always seen this thread but ignored, thinking I could do it on my own. I have relapsed 13 days in a row, every day I relapse after deciding to stay out of sexual immorality.

I recently read on Napoleon Hill's Think And Grow Rich, chapter 11, the mystery of sex transmutation, how one can connect with infinite intelligence and success by controlling sexual desires. It's very difficult for me, I'm highly intelligent, I stay out of drugs and trouble, I am always studying but then again I lack discipline sexually.

I don't want to destroy my body while young and regret in my dotage, I believe this is a time to study, to learn as much as possible, and not to sleep around or self gratify.

I just relapsed today, so day zero till graduation.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 2:31pm On Jul 12
Durentt:
Day 0 out of 3 years.

I'm an undergraduate, and I need to be sexually disciplined to focus all attention on my academics and future career, It's very difficult and I've always seen this thread but ignored, thinking I could do it on my own. I have relapsed 13 days in a row, every day I relapse after deciding to stay out of sexual immorality.

I recently read on Napoleon Hill's Think And Grow Rich, chapter 11, the mystery of sex transmutation, how one can connect with infinite intelligence and success by controlling sexual desires. It's very difficult for me, I'm highly intelligent, I stay out of drugs and trouble, I am always studying but then again I lack discipline sexually.

I don't want to destroy my body while young and regret in my dotage, I believe this is a time to study, to learn as much as possible, and not to sleep around or self gratify.

I just relapsed today, so day zero till graduation.

Hello Durrent
We welcome you to this thread. The negative impact of masturbation can never be over-emphasized. I am (was) a victim.
Poor academic performance meanwhile I was Acing all my subject before my senior secondary school days. Forgetfullness, anger issue, inability to keep relationship/friends, generally unhappy and sweezy face almost at all times, self loathing, loss of attention/poor concentration. The list is endless.

Please if you want to live a happy life tomorrow, now is the time. Kill this monster or it'll kill you.
We are here to assist you acheive the former.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by IAmFreee: 2:38pm On Jul 12
So, its my day 10.

I plan on having this for 180 days - hopefully till the end of the year. No masturbation/ No sex.

I trust God's grace and the finished work of Christ to break free from this demonic habit.

Started during my teen year and now in my twenties.

Challenge has been little triggers that set me off.

I really hope to run away from all form of triggers - social media, sex stories, and anything that sets me on.

I plan engaging myself by learning new skills, associating more, reading productive books, prevent unnecessary seclusion and distancing myself from ladies with provocative dressing.

Ill be updating my progress in every 10 days or when I think its necessary.

Thanks to the creator of this thread. It would help people break freee.

IAmFreee.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 2:50pm On Jul 12
IAmFreee:
So, its my day 10.

I plan on having this for 180 days - hopefully till the end of the year. No masturbation/ No sex.

I trust God's grace and the finished work of Christ to break free from this demonic habit.

Started during my teen year and now in my twenties.

Challenge has been little triggers that set me off.

I really hope to run away from all form of triggers - social media, sex stories, and anything that sets me on.

I plan engaging myself by learning new skills, associating more, reading productive books, prevent unnecessary seclusion and distancing myself from ladies with provocative dressing.

Ill be updating my progress in every 10 days or when I think its necessary.

Thanks to the creator of this thread. It would help people break freee.

IAmFreee.

May it work for you according to your moniker. Be free! grin

You can do this bro cos

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Durentt(m): 2:51pm On Jul 12
Nnamebuka:


Hello Durrent
We welcome you to this thread. The negative impact of masturbation can never be over-emphasized. I am (was) a victim.
Poor academic performance meanwhile I was Acing all my subject before my senior secondary school days. Forgetfullness, anger issue, inability to keep relationship/friends, generally unhappy and sweezy face almost at all times, self loathing, loss of attention/poor concentration. The list is endless.

Please if you want to live a happy life tomorrow, now is the time. Kill this monster or it'll kill you.
We are here to assist you acheive the former.
thanks. Much appreciation.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 2:55pm On Jul 12
naijafox:
Hello bosses
You know my story already, it's been over a year I masturbated, last year January, we always emphasize on avoiding your triggers, please try as much as possible to avoid your triggers, you know the feeling after been celibate for a long while and then you have sex, that sweet feeling. It's the same as masturbation


So yesterday, something crazy almost happen, Thank God that I had the strength to overcome it.. I was scrolling through sexuality session on nairaland and I stumbled across the "THICK BLACK WOMEN" thread, I thought it was just picture of beautiful women not knowing it was sexy pictures of black porn Starz �

I clicked and the second picture I saw there was my accomplice, one of my favorite porn star when I was still in the game, I nor dey use her videos play lol, I was like "finally nairaland Don kill me"

The urge to masturbate came back heavily, Jesus, I started remembering some of her videos and my sessions, haaaaa a mogbe, everything about me was so sensitive, I was alone at home, my babe traveled self, I close my eyes and my hands was almost drifting, immediately I shouted NO, (JUST BE LIKE WHEN ACTOR WAKE UP FOR FILM LOL), i jejely went outside, started gisting with my neighbours... My foolish neighbors carry sex and girls matter for head � from fire to fry pan.. Came back home late at night, urge was still there.. Started thinking about payment wey WU cast lol.. Finally slept

I thank God for the strength to overcome this, please stay away from your triggers... Mine is porn, I had to delete anything porn from my phone, yours might be porn, sexy ladies (stay away from IG), erotica stories (yes I have a friend who masturbate when reading sexual stories), and your thoughts, stop seeing every girl as sexx object.. That was how I lost many of my good female friends because I was always looking at them wrongly

Peace
Together we overcome

Sorry for my typo,

I'm inspired bro..
Your level of resilience rises with each successful temptation surmounted

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by DMPaulSr: 3:55pm On Jul 12
Geosystem:

It's gonna be well with you
Yeah...
I'm looking forward to achieving your feats...
You all are amazing...
30+days, 40+ days...
Wow!!!
I've never reached 40days since i started this poo....

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 4:25pm On Jul 12
DMPaulSr:

Yeah...
I'm looking forward to achieving your feats...
You all are amazing...
30+days, 40+ days...
Wow!!!
I've never reached 40days since i started this poo....

Do not berate yourself, instead use these acheivements to challenge yourself to success.
You can do it bro, come on!
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:27pm On Jul 12
stubbornman:
Good morning fellas.... most of you know my name already!!!

I've been in this bullshit for a long time .... I wanna quit today!!
so help me God....I'll update y'all as I make progress!!

Thank you!

Even the hard men on NL are joining grin
Welcome smiley
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:40pm On Jul 12
Moschinochimma:
Please I am finding it so difficult to stop.. i might decide not to do it again and maybe just after few days I fall back to it again... The memory of my wife makes me do that... I just wish I could stop it just like u guys... I go on it almost everyday , maybe it's because of my being at home and emotional torture..

Keep trying. With time u will conquer
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:42pm On Jul 12
Nnamebuka:


I can identify with everything you said but you know what decide today, mean it and be honest with yourself you'll be free to your amazement in weeks to come. Let's go bro!

Today is my 42nd day if that'll encourage you.

✓✓✓
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:43pm On Jul 12
Geosystem:
Day 35 for me. One more step keep matching on

✓✓✓

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:45pm On Jul 12
TeeNBee:
Day 4/20 I pray I keep moving

✓✓✓

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:50pm On Jul 12
naijafox:
Hello bosses
You know my story already, it's been over a year I masturbated, last year January, we always emphasize on avoiding your triggers, please try as much as possible to avoid your triggers, you know the feeling after been celibate for a long while and then you have sex, that sweet feeling. It's the same as masturbation


So yesterday, something crazy almost happen, Thank God that I had the strength to overcome it.. I was scrolling through sexuality session on nairaland and I stumbled across the "THICK BLACK WOMEN" thread, I thought it was just picture of beautiful women not knowing it was sexy pictures of black porn Starz �

I clicked and the second picture I saw there was my accomplice, one of my favorite porn star when I was still in the game, I nor dey use her videos play lol, I was like "finally nairaland Don kill me"

The urge to masturbate came back heavily, Jesus, I started remembering some of her videos and my sessions, haaaaa a mogbe, everything about me was so sensitive, I was alone at home, my babe traveled self, I close my eyes and my hands was almost drifting, immediately I shouted NO, (JUST BE LIKE WHEN ACTOR WAKE UP FOR FILM LOL), i jejely went outside, started gisting with my neighbours... My foolish neighbors carry sex and girls matter for head � from fire to fry pan.. Came back home late at night, urge was still there.. Started thinking about payment wey WU cast lol.. Finally slept

I thank God for the strength to overcome this, please stay away from your triggers... Mine is porn, I had to delete anything porn from my phone, yours might be porn, sexy ladies (stay away from IG), erotica stories (yes I have a friend who masturbate when reading sexual stories), and your thoughts, stop seeing every girl as sexx object.. That was how I lost many of my good female friends because I was always looking at them wrongly

Peace
Together we overcome

Sorry for my typo,

Woooow! Nice one

Triggers are the worst
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:53pm On Jul 12
Durentt:
Day 0 out of 3 years.

I'm an undergraduate, and I need to be sexually disciplined to focus all attention on my academics and future career, It's very difficult and I've always seen this thread but ignored, thinking I could do it on my own. I have relapsed 13 days in a row, every day I relapse after deciding to stay out of sexual immorality.

I recently read on Napoleon Hill's Think And Grow Rich, chapter 11, the mystery of sex transmutation, how one can connect with infinite intelligence and success by controlling sexual desires. It's very difficult for me, I'm highly intelligent, I stay out of drugs and trouble, I am always studying but then again I lack discipline sexually.

I don't want to destroy my body while young and regret in my dotage, I believe this is a time to study, to learn as much as possible, and not to sleep around or self gratify.

I just relapsed today, so day zero till graduation.
Welcome✓

I am also an undergraduate

Today is my 32nd day

You can do it! smiley

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:54pm On Jul 12
Nnamebuka:


Hello Durrent
We welcome you to this thread. The negative impact of masturbation can never be over-emphasized. I am (was) a victim.
Poor academic performance meanwhile I was Acing all my subject before my senior secondary school days. Forgetfullness, anger issue, inability to keep relationship/friends, generally unhappy and sweezy face almost at all times, self loathing, loss of attention/poor concentration. The list is endless.

Please if you want to live a happy life tomorrow, now is the time. Kill this monster or it'll kill you.
We are here to assist you acheive the former.
✓✓✓

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:55pm On Jul 12
IAmFreee:
So, its my day 10.

I plan on having this for 180 days - hopefully till the end of the year. No masturbation/ No sex.

I trust God's grace and the finished work of Christ to break free from this demonic habit.

Started during my teen year and now in my twenties.

Challenge has been little triggers that set me off.

I really hope to run away from all form of triggers - social media, sex stories, and anything that sets me on.

I plan engaging myself by learning new skills, associating more, reading productive books, prevent unnecessary seclusion and distancing myself from ladies with provocative dressing.

Ill be updating my progress in every 10 days or when I think its necessary.

Thanks to the creator of this thread. It would help people break freee.

IAmFreee.

Welcome✓

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:56pm On Jul 12
DMPaulSr:

Yeah...
I'm looking forward to achieving your feats...
You all are amazing...
30+days, 40+ days...
Wow!!!
I've never reached 40days since i started this poo....

You shall get there bro! ✓
Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 4:58pm On Jul 12
DAY 32... PROGRESS REPORT smiley

You can do it guys!

Inspire and be inspired☑️

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Ytea(f): 5:14pm On Jul 12
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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Ytea(f): 5:14pm On Jul 12
Good job guys. I read the success stories, each one points at how capable and determined everyone of you are. Keep the fire burning, it only gets better.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Thitus: 5:32pm On Jul 12
Good job guys, am also dealing with this monster, on and off and all, there was a time I stay away from it for like 6months only for me to relapse again, though I have made up my mind to go toe to toe with this evil and eventually kill it, with the help of God since last month I have successfully stay away and still counting, one of my major trigger is pornography and provocative dressed women on social media especially.. will try harder to deal with these.. together we are people of common I believe with encouragement and support here we shall conquer.

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Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by AntiM1: 6:28pm On Jul 12
Ytea:
Good job guys. I read the success stories, each one points at how capable and determined everyone of you are. Keep the fire burning, it only gets better.

Thanks✓

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