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I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do / My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day / Man Sets Ex-girlfriend’s Property Ablaze For Quitting Relationship (2) (3) (4)
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by damsund: 3:16pm On Jun 08|
That's good bro
Channelling the energy into something more profitable.
I have never attended any computer class before so I have downloaded some tutorials on Microsoft word, Excel, Access, PowerPoint, and Publisher.
Currently on the Excel tutorial - it contains 30 lessons.
I also write poems; I planned to give it more attention.
I've also given myself a Target to memorize at least 5 memory verses from the Bible on different aspects of life every week. I planned to constantly uses this verses to occupy my heart so that there will be little or no space for any immoral thought.
This thread is a motivation too. I planned to share my testimony of 2 years of freedom here if God spares my life.
Nnamebuka, how far?
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by damsund: 5:48pm On Jun 08|
This is one of our enemies. We've gone past this bro. We are never going to look back. However, you are free to continue wallowing in the mire. It's a free world after all.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 11:03pm On Jun 08|
Am really sorry for MIA
Been extremely busy since yesterday
Just got home at past 10pm from the gym.
My French programme is picking up too.
No time for irrelevant thoughts
Ololo12 and Damsund am proud of you guys.
Stephchat hope you're keeping up. Just know we're behind you bro come what may. Welcome brother.
Bj5all how far bro. Haven't heard from you since your first post. Pls do say hi when you come around and share your progress to encourage others. You are strong bro
Ytea I appreciate the encouragement.
Diji04 thanks for stopping by bro. Really appreciate your inspiring comment.
BTW I'm first week gone today.
Count down to 82 days.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Bj5all(m): 7:59am On Jun 09|
Good morning bro, it has been a fulfilling journey. These days I found it easier to control the urge and I believe it's something that will help boost self control and live a rewarding life
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Harlaan007(m): 8:35am On Jun 09|
I have been masturbating since 2004 and till date and I am 29 years now. Although I don't do it everyday, I only do it once in a week and rarely twice a week. I wish I can stop but anytime I promised not to get back to it I would found myself doing it again after a week...
I want to stop it and I will stop it one day
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Drshobz(m): 10:23am On Jun 09|
get ur self a steady gal friend
and occupy ur self with something positive
always refrain from porn
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 3:49pm On Jun 09|
Having a steady girlfriend isn’t the cure or should I say stops you from masturbating. It’s much more than that, it’s psychological. It’s an addiction. It takes hard work and self discipline to break loose from such habit. I do have a very beautiful girlfriend. But did that stop me from masturbating ? No bro.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 3:57pm On Jun 09|
We shall emerge victorious
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 3:59pm On Jun 09|
Join us in the challenge bro.
You'll be fine if you strive hard along with us.
It's not impossible
Let's go there!
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 4:05pm On Jun 09|
Ololo12 sup with you bro
See you don't have to respond to all them detractors.
Nigerians always have opinion on everything including on what they know nothing about.
My style is leaving them to drown on their own ignorance. Pls STOP getting their attention and don't post even your gf pictures here. You have nothing to prove to anybody
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 4:08pm On Jun 09|
Yes, I’ve taken down the picture. I did it to let that guy know having a gf isn’t the cure to Masturbation
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Godwithus20: 6:26pm On Jun 09|
Telling one that stopping masturbating is easy, is a big fat lie...
I too started masturbating the same year with you after having contact with a blue film cd from my elder's brother's bag...
Ever since then i have being doing the act.
The point in my life i was able to stop masturbation was around 2016, i stopped it for like 2 years, and it was because of Jesus Christ.
Brother... forget challenge this, challenge that, the Only thing/person that can help you stop this act is Christ and nothing more.
I have gone three straight weeks now without indulging in the act. and guess who did it for me..... Its Jesus Christ. and with him, i believe i will stopped this cankaworm called masturbation that has eaten deep into many potentials and great destinies
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|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by damsund: 7:56pm On Jun 09|
Another day of abstinence from masturbation gone.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by damsund: 8:03pm On Jun 09|
Well, u are entitled to your own opinion
But even going spiritual, the Bible says "faith without work is dead". We are doing the work here by engaging in this challenge
The holy book says also "I have said, Ye are god's, ye are the children of the most high". I as a person in accordance to the above scripture reckon myself as a "god" so I I have the will power and strength to do anything I want which in this case is stopping masturbation.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Ytea(f): 8:30pm On Jun 09|
Welcome to the new guy. You all shall emerge victorious.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 6:24am On Jun 10|
Another day gone. For some reason I no longer feel the urge anymore. Been 2 days not feeling any sensation around that region. I hope it’s nothing to be worried about tho. Anyways, getting ready to hit the gym now
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Kirchhoff01(m): 8:47am On Jun 10|
I'm Kirchhoff, I was abused while I was a kid by two Aunties. Even though I enjoyed it as at the time. I started masturbating while I was 14, I'm 25 now. I've had sex only but once. I think I' masturbate cos am sex starved. I didn't masturbate yesterday and I want to join the challenge even though I am planning to have sex soon
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 8:55am On Jun 10|
It's nothing to be worried about really.
However, it tricks your brain to think that you've conquered the urge only to make you to begin to lower your gaurd unconsiously.
You will fall to even the simplest of temptation when that happens. Just keep telling yourself that the fight is far from won, not any time sooner.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Kirchhoff01(m): 9:09am On Jun 10|
Earthquake2:Get thee behind me Satan
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 9:13am On Jun 10|
Done with gym. Going stronger. I’m thinking of enrolling for Krav Maga classes. I’ll update you guys if I ever enroll �. We shall emerge victorious
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 9:23am On Jun 10|
Welcome to the challenge bro...
A word of caution over the highlighted though: Seeing that you are not sexually active, it tantamounts to setting the stage for failure if you PLANNING to have sex. The psychological effect of PLANNING to have sex soon is enough to drive you into releiving yourself once your expectation is not met as soon as your brain yearns for it cos there's a planning it has been counting on. Secondly, whether you eventually release through masturbation or by meeting a woman, there is what is called 'a chaser effect'. That is the time between the release and the next yearn to want to release again(I's usually intense this period cos the body will yearn for more pleassure). It usually happens when you break the will to celibate.
Just make up your mind bro and we'll have your back
Gonna be rooting for you.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 6:29am On Jun 11|
What’s up bro! I think there’s a problem ooh. So, this morning I decided to look at some pornographic just to make sure I still feel the urge. My brother, nothing happened. No urge nor sensation. I’m scared ooo! Please tell me there’s nothing to be worried about, and it’s not ED. I do have a very high SD. Before I started this challenge, whenever I come across any pornographic content, instantly I get the urge. It’s totally different now
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 6:30am On Jun 11|
Anyways, I’m getting ready for gym. Would be looking forward to hear from you. We shall emerge victorious!
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Prognose: 6:45am On Jun 11|
Watching porn is like being on an emotional loop or circuit if you will. The more you watch porn to masturbate, the easier it becomes to get an erection. Sometimes you don't even really have that big an urge to masturbate but thinking of the porn alone makes you forget all else and you don't rest until u watch the porn and have your release.
What has happened now is that you've broken the emotional circuit/loop. You brain has been unwired from the bad habit hence you're not being moved by the porn anymore. This is actually a good thing. But people that reach this stage for the first time panic and get scared and they force themselves to masturbate
Before you know it the loop/circuit has been restored.
Stopping masturbation does not cause ED, its just that you're not as prone to responding to any and all kinds of sexual stimuli like an uncontrollable animal like you were before. Its fine really. And when you do finally have sex the erection is going to be hard as stone.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 8:46am On Jun 11|
Thanks very much for explanation.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 10:25am On Jun 11|
Bro no cause for alarm. It's called FLATLINE and it's normal just as Prognose said. This is periods of zero libido during reboot/complete lack of sexual desire whatsoever(Almost surprising since you have a sex related addiction.). It typically occur early on, especially in the 2-6 week period. Of course transitioning from an overexcited libido to none at all can be disconcerting and even scary. It can also be frustrating for people who started a reboot to help alleviate physical sexual dysfunction only to have their sexual drive taken away completely!
Although it might seem like having a reduced libido would help you as a rebooter achieve victory in a rebooting challenge, flatline has actually caused several rebooters to reset(ie start afresh).The flatline experience will cause them to panic, so they’ll sit down and look at some porn or masturbate–just to “make sure everything’s working okay.” (Please don't fall into this trap)!
Just don’t panic! It may last for several weeks, but it will more than likely go away eventually. If it does not go away after rebooting, it is usually suggested that you talk to your doctor. At any rate, I believe it's a phase that would eventually pass. Just concentrate on your programme. Cheers!
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 10:28am On Jun 11|
10th day people
80 days to go!
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by Nnamebuka: 10:48am On Jun 11|
Don’t be a fool, stay away from your tool
Alright this might be really corny but...
Don’t be silly, don’t touch your willy
Don’t make a mistake, don’t touch your snake
Don’t be a fool, stay away from your tool
Stop the stream before you cream
Don’t be a loner, ignore your boner
You can’t go wrong if you don’t touch your dong
Don’t whack it, just sack it
Pen that rooster or you’ll be a loser
The right selection is to neglect your erection
Avoid a frown, contain your clown
Conceal your train, don’t cause yourself pain
To make her squat like a turkey, don’t touch your jerky
Sock that wanger so you can bang her
Holster your gun, then shooting’s more fun
Sheath that knife until you get a wife
Wrap your whooper, you’re a trooper
You’re better off not jerking off.
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 7:07am On Jun 12|
Was worried about not feeling the SU. So, I relapsed to make sure, I am ok.The body system is a very tricky one. So. I’ve reset my challenge counter. I’m starting all over again. Now, I’d know better never to fall for the FLATLINE. Thanks for all the support. We shall emerge victorious!
|Re: Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread. by ololo12: 7:11am On Jun 12|
It’s a good thing my girlfriend has finally come on aboard with my new 90 day challenge, she’d be supportive, and she knows no sex until after 90 days.
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