Mustsucceed:


.......not God. Many of you will spew trash that maybe I am single, you know nothing of me.

SmellySperm:

victim spotted

missimelda01:
Marriage will come at the appointed time with the appropriate person. Don't force it, it's better to be single than being in an abusive marriage. As a woman, let your happiness be your major priority (and it should come from within you).

lefulefu:
Ladies above 30 are not stigmatized cos if they had been i wont be seeing ladies above 30 or over 40 getting married and having proposals as well. The reason some ladies tend to lost is dat some are unfortunate in dating unserious men while there are some who change men like underwear while some have multiple relationships they foolishly flaunt and makes them look unserious then there are the unlucky ones who are good but because they are shy they always indoors and hardly interact hence no man sees them. Various circumstances can make a lady single. Anyway if u a lady and u a serious guy pls hold him tight and try build a solid relationship with him so he can take u down the isle.

Raalsalghul:

Gbam.
You've said it all.
There are many reasons a guy will remain single into his late thirties.
For a lady, I can't fathom any reason unless its by choice.

I mean despite the "hellos from random strangers", "Calls from guys you didn't give your number", "DMs from social media".

And before, they start giving excuses of being with a particular partner for donkey years, I'd put it to them that they didn't quite set their goals and timelines.

Again I repeat, unless it's by choice. I find it unbelievable.

placeofallure:


For many, your last point is usually the problem. They will spend all the promising years with a guy who might turn up irresponsible. Ladies, I think, should love with their brains. This is the scenario, they kept hoping he'll change because they already love him too much to imagine their lives without him and the years are rolling on and on and before you know it, you're already an old cargo who has passed the marriageable bracket. Some don't realise this still, cos they're still their choosy self. I don't like the shape of his nose, His smell irritates me. Meanwhile, Time has gone!

Some are just plain unlucky and kept meeting the wrong guys. Like you said, they should set their priorities right.

Some are due to family pressure. I have a younger friend, a male, who has been dating his girlfriend for some time now, just when he wanted to put a ring on it, the girl's family started making frivolous demands based on religious differences, so much they were almost going their separate ways. People waded in and they had to shed Nikkai or Church and settle for court despite the two of them having been so active in church. Boy is in the choir, Girl is in the Media team. What if the two had gone their separate ways, where will the girl start from?

Some of them get lucky anyway, my 5&6 friend was 40 in April a spinster but she'll be getting married in August to a tear rubber bachelor. Like play, like play, the man just came along.
There's hope still for whoever falls in this category. I believe social stigma or discrimination against this group is totally uncalled for. Las Las, everyone will be alright.