I met a lady in January this year, started out hi hi friends in the church

After hanging out a few times with her, I have the impression she is sort of looking for the highest bidder guy. She is pretty so understandably guys flock around. Might be unrelated, but she also has a sharp mouth.

The thing is she had a major heartbreak because it seemed prior to that, that she was sweet, loyal babe.

I don't know if with time and attention she will drop the sense of entitlement. she is caring to me, but to other people sometimes (I dunno) feels like she looks down on them.

At the same time, she is hard working, hardly drinks, doesn't keep late nights, yet I get a nagging feeling. I just want to know who she is. No one is perfect, even I have so many flaws.
So, should I  ignore this feeling, maybe my own is too much. Please advise how I can observe her true character? I want to see if I can help her grow.

Mind that snubbish attitude it might bring tension with your family.

Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.

1. Speak against feminism.
2. Any thread on MIL/DIL wahala, be on FP, curse the DIL. Karma must catch up with her.
3. Be very pro men.
4. Be pro submissive.
5. Don't ever open that your useless mouth to say cooking, washing and all are not your hobbies. You were born with Persil and spatula for a reason.
6. When he asks for your acct number, develop instant ear problem.
7. Anytime he calls, tell him you are cooking so you can have time to go for mid-week service.
8. When he talks, listen, listen attentively.
9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc.
10. He will approach you or send a PM. Do your best not to change formation.

Now, I am not the only one aware of these quick steps. So, do not focus on how she treats you, she wants something from you, if she is out for you, she will get it. 1yr later, you are here saying she changed. She didn't change, face off.

Focus on how she treats people around her. People who she thinks she owes nothing. Very soon, those people would be your family, friends, gateman, employees, house help...etc.

pocohantas:
Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.

1. Speak against feminism.
2. Any thread on MIL/DIL wahala, be on FP, curse the DIL. Karma must catch up with her.
3. Be very pro men.
4. Be pro submissive.
5. Don't ever open that your useless mouth to say cooking, washing and all are not your hobbies. You were born with Persil and spatula for a reason.
6. When he asks for your acct number, develop instant ear problem.
7. Anytime he calls, tell him you are cooking so you can have time to go for mid-week service.
8. When he talks, listen, listen attentively.
9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc.

Now, I am not the only one aware of thesE quick steps. So, do not focus on how she treats you, she wants something from you, if she is out for you, she will get it. 1yr later, you are here saying she changed. She didn't change, face off.

Focus on how she treats people around her. People who she thinks she owes nothing. Very soon, those people would be your family, friends, gateman, employees, house help...etc.

this doesn't apply to only Nigerian men but African Men as a whole. They love respect.

Na u hold yam,na u hold knife...cut am anywhere u like...nothing they will tell you,that you take..a man in love goes with deaf ears.

pocohantas:
Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.


9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc..

But erm this na ibkayee

ornicus:


But erm this na ibkayee

Lol I beg your pardon

what do you mean?

ornicus:

But erm this na ibkayee

pocohantas:
Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.

1. Speak against feminism.
2. Any thread on MIL/DIL wahala, be on FP, curse the DIL. Karma must catch up with her.
3. Be very pro men.
4. Be pro submissive.
5. Don't ever open that your useless mouth to say cooking, washing and all are not your hobbies. You were born with Persil and spatula for a reason.
6. When he asks for your acct number, develop instant ear problem.
7. Anytime he calls, tell him you are cooking so you can have time to go for mid-week service.
8. When he talks, listen, listen attentively.
9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc.
10. He will approach you or send a PM. Do your best not to change formation.

Now, I am not the only one aware of these quick steps. So, do not focus on how she treats you, she wants something from you, if she is out for you, she will get it. 1yr later, you are here saying she changed. She didn't change, face off.

Focus on how she treats people around her. People who she thinks she owes nothing. Very soon, those people would be your family, friends, gateman, employees, house help...etc.

In other words their mumu botton can easily deceived
I concur

CosmicPhoenix:

what do you mean?

You haven't noticed? Ibk is very chill. Almost as chill as the vulkan44 prick. Troll her and she responds with lol or a laughing gif.

I'm just using that fact to poke fun at poco's assertion.

Best way to find a guy or gals character is to when they are in university. That's when you see peeps raw and unfiltered. Runs girl will graduate and become church sister in another state. Cult boy will start wearing suit

ornicus:
Best way to find a guy or gals character is to when they are in university. That's when you see peeps raw and unfiltered. Runs girl will graduate and become church sister in another state. Cult boy will start wearing suit

I was a good girl in uni, can't say same now

Without earning it.

lilianofentse:
this doesn't apply to only Nigerian men but African Men as a whole. They love respect.

AntiBrutus:


I was a good girl in uni, can't say same now

Smiles

liberalchick:
Without earning it.

when you give your man due respect even when he fvcks up, he'll sit down think about it and try to make it up to you. Unless he doesn't have a conscience.
Meanwhile from your moniker I can see you're a feminist. No more mentions. Kapish

O lord what are you talking about? I never said anything about not giving anyone respect. wow how did you get that from one line? I meant some don’t want to EARN it but demand it. I literally just typed a line.

Yeah as long as the quote button is there on THIS public forum I am going to quote whomever I want. You don’t have to respond if you don’t want to. Your choice.

lilianofentse:
when you give your man due respect even when he fvcks up, he'll sit down think about it and try to make it up to you. Unless he doesn't have a conscience.
Meanwhile from your moniker I can see you're a feminist. No more mentions. Kapish

liberalchick:
O lord what are you talking about? I never said anything about not giving anyone respect. wow how did you get that from one line? I meant some don’t want to EARN it but demand it. I literally just typed a line.

Yeah as long as the quote button is there on THIS public forum I am going to quote whomever I want. You don’t have to respond if you don’t want to. Your choice.

I already saw your comment on a topic about feminism being a disaster and tearing women down. I know what you meant so don't get it twisted, ok.

What has that got to do with anything? You do know that human beings are capable of holding more than one views/positions on varying topics? I can’t deal.

Well now that you know me well enough to know my views on ALL topics on NL anytime you see my mentions, you can just ignore me.

lilianofentse:
I already saw your comment on a topic about feminism being a disaster and tearing women down. I know what you meant so don't get it twisted, ok.

liberalchick:
What has that got to do with anything? You do know that human beings are capable of holding more than views/positions on varying topics? I can’t deal.

ok. Noted

liberalchick:
What has that got to do with anything? You do know that human beings are capable of holding more than views/positions on varying topics? I can’t deal.

Well now that you know me well enough to know my views on ALL topics on NL anytime you see my mentions, you can just ignore me.

but.. but...but you said this was a public forum with a quote so why should I ignore you hun?

lol now we are talking in circles.

You said you wanted nothing to do with me because from my moniker, you think I am a feminist. So I was just repeating what you told me, HUN. I really don’t care what you do, ignore or don’t ignore. I only care about what I do, which is quote or not quote whomever I want.

lilianofentse:
but.. but...but you said this was a public forum with a quote so why should I ignore you hun?

liberalchick:
lol now we are talking in circles.

You said you wanted nothing to do with me because from my moniker, you think I am a feminist. So I was just repeating what you told me, HUN. I really don’t care what you do, ignore or don’t ignore. I only care about what I do, which is quote or not quote whomever I want.

its whoever dear. Whoever.

Ok. Thank you dear.

lilianofentse:
its whoever dear. Whoever.

liberalchick:
Ok. Thank you dear.

you're welcome hun.

lilianofentse:
its whoever dear. Whoever.

Whomever is absolutely correct in that context. It's a dependent clause and it applies in the way it was used.

Hope you know I was being sarcastic hun

lilianofentse:
you're welcome hun.

raymi:


Whomever is absolutely correct in that context. It's a dependent clause and it applies in the way it was used.

woah woah. Chill dude. I never mentioned you.

liberalchick:
Hope you know I was being sarcastic hun

same here. Same here. No love lost.

Thank you. I thought the other moniker thought she was wrong too, until I saw she said she was being sarcastic. I don't like it when people resort to being grammar police when they don't have anything else to say.

raymi:


Whomever is absolutely correct in that context. It's a dependent clause and it applies in the way it was used.

lilianofentse:
woah woah. Chill dude. I never mentioned you.

Lol. I know, right? Just felt compelled to do it cos someone could benefit from it. So, take it easy and drop the 'knife', huh? I actually enjoy reading your posts.

pocohantas:
Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.

1. Speak against feminism.
2. Any thread on MIL/DIL wahala, be on FP, curse the DIL. Karma must catch up with her.
3. Be very pro men.
4. Be pro submissive.
5. Don't ever open that your useless mouth to say cooking, washing and all are not your hobbies. You were born with Persil and spatula for a reason.
6. When he asks for your acct number, develop instant ear problem.
7. Anytime he calls, tell him you are cooking so you can have time to go for mid-week service.
8. When he talks, listen, listen attentively.
9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc.
10. He will approach you or send a PM. Do your best not to change formation.

Now, I am not the only one aware of these quick steps. So, do not focus on how she treats you, she wants something from you, if she is out for you, she will get it. 1yr later, you are here saying she changed. She didn't change, face off.

Focus on how she treats people around her. People who she thinks she owes nothing. Very soon, those people would be your family, friends, gateman, employees, house help...etc.

Babe ur sense complete..kisses to ur lips for this reply