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My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Richybryn: 10:57pm On Jun 12
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by ato12: 11:29pm On Jun 12
Guy let her come first.

Have it at the back of your mind that the journey is far and not easy... So many paperworks you have to financially buoyant...

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by moriss33(m): 7:11am On Jun 13
U need to get to Lagos a day before her arrival so as to secure a hotel before she arrives nah...I see no problems except when una wan do the court wedding (witnesses, small bribes here and there to facilitate yours faster)

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by MrsInvisible(f): 8:27am On Jun 13
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Richybryn: 9:15am On Jun 13
MrsInvisible:
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.
boss na real mata?

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by good4all40: 9:23am On Jun 13
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Richybryn: 11:04am On Jun 13
good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals
thank you so much sir for this reply,am a total novice in all of this never even been outside of my state,yea its that worse,sir why did you say the marriage should be in her second or third visit??

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Mizwisdom(f): 12:25pm On Jun 13
Richybryn:
thank you so much sir for this reply,am a total novice in all of this never even been outside of my state,yea its that worse,sir why did you say the marriage should be in her second or third visit??

@27, you're a man. Come down to Lagos and spend at least two weeks organizing your court wedding and her stay. You don't need fanfare for court wedding, just go to LG where it will be held beforehand to get the needed information. All you need is a few witnesses that can join you few days before the wedding, but your budget shouldn't be less than N400K(always work with a budget) if you have friends or relatives who live on the Island then you can even reduce your budget to N200K. Explore the fun spots in Lagos, all the best cheesy

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by good4all40: 1:24pm On Jun 13
Mizwisdom:


@27, you're a man. Come down to Lagos and spend at least two weeks organizing your court wedding and her stay. You don't need fanfare for court wedding, just go to LG where it will be held beforehand to get the needed information. All you need is a few witnesses that can join you few days before the wedding, but your budget shouldn't be less than N400K(always work with a budget) if you have friends or relatives who live on the Island then you can even reduce your budget to N200K. Explore the fun spots in Lagos, all the best cheesy


I don't think our man can afford such amount of money according to his message. I will suggest he look for a cheaper hotels online from 10k downnward, check jumia and other hotel portals online. The reason l mentioned you should delay your marriage till her second or third visit, is that it will surely makes your immigrant visa less complicated, Nigeria is rated as high marriage fraud country, so marriage at first visit will be viewed as such except mountainous and convincing evidences are provided by you.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Amuocha: 3:02pm On Jun 13
But where is lalasticlala sef grin

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by franchasng(m): 4:35pm On Jun 13
God is indeed a miracle worker!

God still blesses the poor. Please make sure you treat that white lady well, be a good man to her, don't change tomorrow after you secure a German stay.

I wish you all the best.

But you need to come down to Lagos to make some arrangements ahead, would have offered you some help, but lipsrsealed

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by auntysimbiat(f): 4:35pm On Jun 13
COOL
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Westsida: 4:35pm On Jun 13
Okay nice one. No worry no fear. Just let her arrive safely. Dont bother getting anything done before her arrival. Let her meet the real you, dont form whatever you don’t have. If she give you money for hotel, book am but if not & if you do not have cash for hotel, no borrow money to book one. I’m hoping your environment is safe. Just carry her go house. Let her see how things be! She’s going to let you know what will as things proceed. Like if she’s gonna chill on a low with you or anything ! About travelling process, don’t bother stressing yourself. She don already call embassy, she don ask if 2 weeks go enough & she already told you nah marriage certificate una go need. Hope you already got ur passport? If not you can apply and get it same day for a token! If nah wedding she want straight up, no delay am! You stand to gain a lot as according to your summary! Don’t delay or postpone the wedding o, I see some people saying don’t marry her first time, no follow am! Get married since she’s ready. You guys been dating for a year and that’s it on her mind. Either online dating or real one, both start counting for their mind right from when una start. If you let her enter Germany back without the marriage, yellow story might pop up. Good luck bro! Be a good boy! Sometimes life nah only one chance! Nah exactly as me go do am I don clear you so!

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by paroh137(m): 4:36pm On Jun 13
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Techcribs: 4:36pm On Jun 13
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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by calddon(m): 4:36pm On Jun 13
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?
u get married and fly back together, how is that even possible within 2weeks?

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by chiedu7: 4:36pm On Jun 13
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

You mean your german residency papers are flying to Nigeria. grin

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by YorubaWarrior: 4:36pm On Jun 13
sad
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by rocknation62(m): 4:37pm On Jun 13
Don’t really have much to say...but I wish u all the best things will work out for you the way you want...CHEERS

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by sonnie10: 4:37pm On Jun 13
Ignorance, must it be on social media?

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by ForeThinker: 4:37pm On Jun 13
Naxxo
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by blackaxe78: 4:37pm On Jun 13
MrsInvisible:
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.


False!

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by pocohantas(f): 4:38pm On Jun 13
It is another one...

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by chumaster(m): 4:38pm On Jun 13
see what next level has caused

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by AngelicBeing: 4:38pm On Jun 13
Hmmmm
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by GodCovenant(m): 4:38pm On Jun 13
if you don't have money. it is mission impossible. both of you will regret everything. you need money to host a foreigner and protect her.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by mamatwiny: 4:38pm On Jun 13
How did you meet this your babe?


Modified- I hope you know why they like Africans? Don't disappoint. Don't be a one minute man like Churchill. grin
If you disappoint, there won't be a second chance- so says my classmates in Yankee.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by JubrinElSudan: 4:38pm On Jun 13
Bring her come down Sapele jare make we see our new wife grin grin

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by mmadu5(m): 4:39pm On Jun 13
bro please what ever you do dont marry her on first visit maybe second visit or third , because if you marry her right away the embassy will know your only after green card and they will deny you visa

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by PrinceCharmings: 4:39pm On Jun 13
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?
how you carry convince her make she come Nigeria?. undecided

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