Ah! Naira land is finished. No better news again

Let me get my groundnut, sit and read comments.

Wetin I know sef..

Bros,delay is dangerous. That was exactly how my friend got married,go ahead if only you are definition of a true man.

Gboy

Don't rush things.

You need to be able to speak fluent German before Anything, otherwise the whole thing na joke.

It's not important, but the German immigration system will use that to frustrate your efforts.

Great gesture by your fiancée.

But hey, do not rush into marriage with anyone. Not anyone.

In similitude, do not rush into intimacy with her.

It is obvious she intends to foot the bills. Stay modest through her stay. Do not be perturbed.

Always remember, the paying party often dictates the tune. Thus don’t be excessive and seemingly vulnerable.

I wish you both the very best.

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

hummmm bro 2weeks is very tight...

First the wedding will be at ikoyi registry right? Tell us more details please.. I could guide u bro.

Or anybody experienced here..

I will check thread later in the day.

Who grace found? so oyinbo woman na grace now. SMH.

Anyways, don't marry her on her first visit sir. Step up and be a man, Germans can bitchy and domineering, let her understand that you are just meeting her and decisions like getting married cannot be rushed (especially for her). Make sure you have enough fun (not only sex ) with her. Show her around the Lagos but be very weary of kidnappers.

While she is here, you guys can plan for a wedding in future. If you get small money, buy ring propose to her (if you really want to marry her and be with her).

Ignore everything I have said above, if your goal is just to marry her for papers.

me too I wan go find German woman oooo. oboy you don hammer !!

Hazoooooooo

Can help you with a nice and affordable hotel in ikeja. That’s if u want.

Mizwisdom:


@27, you're a man.

Thanks sis for boosting his ego..
Mind u, at 21, i relocated to Ghana(studies), lived couples live for 3 years before breaking free...

Life is short, follow ur instinct. God be with u

good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals

Obviously you have no idea how German girls think

Look at them. Hungry inferior men getting excited because of this scam. if it was a woman that was doing this, they will have started shouting olosho

MrsInvisible:
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.

how about Poland?

pocohantas:
It is another one...

Another one of what?

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

Garantee her security o if it to talk to ur real niggers to be looking at her and gaurd her guy this country we are in don't forget that everything in it is bent on destroying u so I repeat take note of the little things like who and eho she will see the transportation issue the SECURITY issue all those and make sure u make her wrlcome

Don't miss the opportunity to leave this hell hole

I think that there is a requirement to inform the registry of your intending marriage weeks in advance.

So unless you start that now, you might not be able to even do the marriage within the two weeks when she will be here.

And why do you want to marry someone the first time you set eyes on the person?

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

what about Poland?

ziondaughter247:
Look at them. Hungry inferior men getting excited because of this scam. if it was a woman that was doing this, they will have started shouting olosho

Can you please shut up

PrinceCharmings:
how you carry convince her make she come Nigeria?.

vv

see jamb question

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

I want! Find one for me Monsieur

Hope u will not later fight the young woman... Secondly, hope u re d one paying for d marriage cost in court.... Let it not look as if d woman is the one coming to pick a wife... My thought

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

Whatsapp me on 08100511684 or 08034644451

Guy how you take get am?

Abeg yarn me the way because as I dey look am so, no oyibo girl me I go end up wit Las Las.

You live in Delta State, she's not coming for fanfare or tourism. However, I would advise you have the marriage registered in your local registry or even come to Benin, Edo State, get to any of the registries, and you will spend quiet little money unless for hotel accommodation and transportation.
My best friend married an American with 2 kids. I was part of all their marriage plans and preparations including the registry part.
It's pretty easy. If your apartment is not secure, get a cheap hotel. I hope she knows about your financial situation.

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Guy, you don dey love-vendor women for guys there too? I want o if you can. Thanks.

ziondaughter247:
Look at them. Hungry inferior men getting excited because of this scam. if it was a woman that was doing this, they will have started shouting olosho

Sweet girl, Fine girl, you papa born you well

All I wish you is best of success.
Be brave enough to received her, don't package a fake Life for her. Let her know you for real. Don't for once reveal to her what does not belongs to you. If she sees you for real....... the outcome is your Wedding next level.