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Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 2:25pm On Jun 18, 2019
cry cry cry cry
October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira even when my friend adviced me to bill him and i should make sure its something he cant do and as e nor fit e go run,so i did but still he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please cry cry
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by ebonyggurl(f): 2:30pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
cry cry cry cry
October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira so what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please cry cry


This one has passed stalking o. Have you tried changing your sim card? Or reporting him to the security at your workplace so that they don't let him in? Three years is a long time to stay hung up on someone undecided

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 2:34pm On Jun 18, 2019
ebonyggurl:



This one has passed stalking o. Have you tried changing your sim card? Or reporting him to the security at your workplace so that they don't let him in?
I can't change my SIM card because of other important stuffs connected to it.....for sometime have been out of work but am resuming July so i will inform security but this part will be difficult because different police officers comes daily and my job has to do with dealing with customers/patients
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by tikkykay: 2:37pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
cry cry cry cry
October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira even when my friend adviced me to bill him and i should make sure its something he cant do and as e nor fit e go run,so i did but still yet he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please cry cry
For blocking of number, you can do that via an iPhone. That’s the only way I know works well. Let’s hope he doesn’t start buying sim daily cos of you.
Have you prayed about it? There isn’t nothing too difficult for God to do. You’ll be surprised.
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by spyg1(m): 2:39pm On Jun 18, 2019
Why not change that SIM card?



or take this Simple solution if you're serious: Eat things that will make your mouth to smell and don't brush it for like a day or two then have a word with him. grin grin grin



But don't forget there is something called menopause.
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by ebonyggurl(f): 2:43pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
I can't change my SIM card because of other important stuffs connected to it.....for sometime have been out of work but am resuming July so i will inform security but this part will be difficult because [b]different police officers comes daily [/b]and my job has to do with dealing with customers/patients

If you can get his picture, print out a coloured copy with a 'no entry' caption and paste it at the security post...might help cheesy

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Nmezor(f): 2:46pm On Jun 18, 2019
Hmmm, this is serious...Be harsh to him, he will get the message
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Bizmagnet: 2:47pm On Jun 18, 2019
Arrange a guy to call and warn him to stay clear of his girl friend now. I knw sey he go withdraw

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by ThothHermes: 2:50pm On Jun 18, 2019
Can't you report him to the police

Or get a huge male to threaten him?
In advanced countries a restraining would have been all you required.
Watch your back.

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Tradernaija: 2:55pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
I can't change my SIM card because of other important stuffs connected to it.....for sometime have been out of work but am resuming July so i will inform security but this part will be difficult because different police officers comes daily and my job has to do with dealing with customers/patients

Don't you have a boyfriend?
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by iTearHerToto: 3:06pm On Jun 18, 2019
so i did but still yet he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,

Just lookat diz cry


It's a matter of A failed soul attracted to another failed soul

Perhaps if you can work on your English he may succumb



Pukes angry
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by SkinnyNigga: 3:17pm On Jun 18, 2019
Nawa.. it's not like you are fine sef..

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by lilmax(m): 3:23pm On Jun 18, 2019
beaurry in the eyes of every beholder though
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by MJBOLT: 3:26pm On Jun 18, 2019
i dont understand why you are crying on NL,what do you want us to do?you had better go and report him to the police
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:27pm On Jun 18, 2019
Nmezor:
Hmmm, this is serious...Be harsh to him, he will get the message
if insult day kill person....this guy for don die since, I have done all that
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:28pm On Jun 18, 2019
Bizmagnet:
Arrange a guy to call and warn him to stay clear of his girl friend now. I knw sey he go withdraw
I will try this
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:28pm On Jun 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
i dont understand why you are crying on NL,what do you want us to do?you had better go and report him to the police
Ok
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
iTearHerToto:
so i did but still yet he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,

Just lookat diz cry


It's a matter of A failed soul attracted to another failed soul

Perhaps if you can work on your English he may succumb



Pukes angry



Ok
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
lilmax:
beaurry in the eyes of every beholder though
Lol
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:30pm On Jun 18, 2019
spyg1:
Why not change that SIM card?



or take this Simple solution if you're serious: Eat things that will make your mouth to smell and don't brush it for like a day or two then have a word with him. grin grin grin



But don't forget there is something called menopause.
cheesy cheesy very funny
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:31pm On Jun 18, 2019
tikkykay:

For blocking of number, you can do that via an iPhone. That’s the only way I know works well. Let’s hope he doesn’t start buying sim daily cos of you.
Have you prayed about it? There isn’t nothing too difficult for God to do. You’ll be surprised.
I use a Samsung phone and I will put it in prayer....thanks
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Apeshy101(m): 3:36pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
cry cry cry cry
October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira even when my friend adviced me to bill him and i should make sure its something he cant do and as e nor fit e go run,so i did but still he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please cry cry


It seems you are in enugu.

I can get someone to do a neat job over him for you
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 3:40pm On Jun 18, 2019
Apeshy101:


It seems you are in enugu.

I can get someone to do a neat job over him for you
No, Delta
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Raydans: 4:29pm On Jun 18, 2019
Bizmagnet:
Arrange a guy to call and warn him to stay clear of his girl friend now. I knw sey he go withdraw
Try this. You can as well arrange with another guy to pretend as your brother in the military to call and threaten him with arrest if he keeps disturbing your peace.

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 4:49pm On Jun 18, 2019
Raydans:

Try this. You can as well arrange with another guy to pretend as your brother in the military to call and threaten him with arrest if he keeps disturbing your peace.
thank you
Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Deepfeel(m): 4:52pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
cry cry cry cry
October 2015 when i started working, i met this guy at my place of work and he kept on coming everyday for like 4 days for my num of which i gave him with the mind of blocking him when he calls....initially i was listening to him and he started asking me out and i refused....he kept on pleading and i kept on refusing.....At a point i eventually blocked his num because the calls were becoming irritating even on whatsapp incase he locates me there....i had peace of mind for sometime till my phone was stolen and i got a new phone and he started again and i blocked him. After a while the new phone was stolen and this devil started again .....then he started using other nums to call me but when i hear his voice i always end the calls and block him..... After a while, since he cant reach me, he comes to my place of work unannounced ........
Na so we don day turn around since that 2015 day come till last year Oct i got another phone and since i make use of the internet alot i got a torchlite so i can put my active line thereby not disturbing my internet work, na there the major wahala of since 2015 start because I can't block him again....every blessed day is now a nightmare, if to say e go call like 2 or 3 times then he go rest I for nor day disturb myself but how can a person in his right senses keeps calling over 20 to 30 times a day Some will say i ate his money thats why but before God and man nothing like that.....i never see he one naira even when my friend adviced me to bill him and i should make sure its something he cant do and as e nor fit e go run,so i did but still he nor send money and he nor won allow me rest,what have i done to deserve this....i picked his call one day and asked him what he wants, he said he is alone and he wants a friend, i said i cant be your friend, he said then i won't have peace. Am saying my existence is threatened because he knows where i work and he knows i close at night so this guy fit do anything and he stalks me once in a while. I have called mtn to know how i can block or bar this particular num they are not giving me any resonable answer. I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help me to regain my peace, taya me. How do I go about this, I nor get connection......telling my dad will be a threat to his health. Pls advice me on what to do please cry cry
The guy is obsessed with you and you know obsession can be deadly if he can't have you he will harm you, report this guy to the nearest police station ,for him to say you won't have peace its enough threat to report him, I swear that guy will rape you and strangle you if he gets a chance on a lonely path , don't think his in love with you its not love at all its a mental disorder

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 4:55pm On Jun 18, 2019
Deepfeel:

The guy is obsessed with you and you know obsession can be deadly if he can't have you he will harm you, report this guy to the nearest police station ,for him to say you won't have peace its enough threat to report him, I swear that guy will rape you and strangle you if he gets a chance on a lonely path , don't think his in love with you its not love at all its a mental disorder
Thank you very much.....I Will report as soon as possible and try to gather evidence because as it is...I don't have any information about him

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Deepfeel(m): 5:00pm On Jun 18, 2019
BlissB:
Thank you very much.....I Will report as soon as possible and try to gather evidence because as it is...I don't have any information about him
Very good do just that dear , good luck

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by lilianofentse(f): 6:21pm On Jun 18, 2019
He's a freak. If you don't take this to
right authorities, he might harm you.
He's obsessed with you...

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by budaatum: 7:08pm On Jun 18, 2019
Blissb, this is serious, and I know you see the danger, hence your cry for help here, but this is way more serious than you appear to be taking it! You are dealing with an insanely sick person and it's bastards like this who throw acid in the face of people they can't have. You fine but you will fine a lot less with acid mascara!

You need to gather evidence on him. Name, Time of calls, every contact he makes, record it. Also help waste his money. Whenever he calls take it and place him on mute so his money runs but he can't hear you or you him. Go to police immediately please, and tell them he threatened to rape and pour acid on you then kill you! And bravo for yelling out here. That is brave! Tell everyone in the neighbourhood too. Point to him and say loudly, "that man is following me everywhere I go!" And take his photos too!

Don't joke with this! There's lots of people who have been stalked to death already and you must not join them!

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by BlissB(f): 7:15pm On Jun 18, 2019
budaatum:
Blissb, this is serious, and I know you see the danger, hence your cry for help here, but this is way more serious than you appear to be taking it! You are dealing with an insanely sick person and it's bastards like this who throw acid in the face of people they can't have. You fine but you will fine a lot less with acid mascara!

You need to gather evidence on him. Name, Time of calls, every contact he makes, record it. Also help waste his money. Whenever he calls take it and place him on mute so his money runs but he can't hear you or you him. Go to police immediately please, and tell them he threatened to rape and pour acid on you then kill you! And bravo for yelling out here. That is brave! Tell everyone in the neighbourhood too. Point to him and say loudly, "that man is following me everywhere I go!" And take his photos too!

Don't joke with this! There's lots of people who have been stalked to death already and you must not join them!

Preeti Rathi Acid attack case: Bombay High Court upholds attacker's conviction but commutes death penalty

I opened up about my stalker to a true crime podcast. Here’s why it helped me heal.

Living next door to a stalker: Our Japanese reporter recounts the time her neighbour stalked her
I appreciate this.....thanks alot

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Re: Nairalanders,my Peace And Existence Is Being Threatened!!! by Houseofglam7(f): 7:35pm On Jun 18, 2019
50 shades of Obsession!
Get a restraining order against him!

Report him to the cops!
Like WTF?
It's sickening undecided

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