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Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 10:50pm On Jun 18
Please this is a no begging thread.
Just a couple of young people trying to make some things about them right.
Mine is EXTRAVAGANCE and FAST LIFE!
Sometimes I just wonder how I will be able to keep/maintain this lifestyle and for how long?
Like what if my predecessors were like me?
I wonder what old age or bankruptcy might be like for me undecided
but I am too engrossed in it such that I just can't stop!
I wish I had the will to relocate and start afresh.
Feel free to help out and share yours too let's see how we could help each other out.
Let's make this place great again.
No insults Please!!!

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ibkayee(f): 10:55pm On Jun 18
Laziness and procrastination

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 10:59pm On Jun 18
ibkayee:
Laziness and procrastination
are you serious?
How does a programmer afford to be lazy in the first place?
Anyways have you tried to create say daily bucket lists?
It's a great way to solve this issue.
Like create what you want to achieve for the day and do it to the latter smiley
You see,voom!!!it's gone ibk wink
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ayomikuolatunji(m): 10:59pm On Jun 18
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by JudgeOGBUNABALI(m): 10:59pm On Jun 18
The betnaija foool above is my present headache. cheesy

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by CaptainMitch: 11:00pm On Jun 18
I drink too much alcohol and I don't love no one

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:02pm On Jun 18
ayomikuolatunji:
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me
bro I'll tell you the truth.
She might be into that guy.
Just go back into the market and start looking for another distraction.
Your attention towards her will drop and she will sit up and make up her damn mind!
If she doesn't then oh well,it wasn't meant to be then cry
You'll definitely move on.....
Do you make money?

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ibkayee(f): 11:05pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
are you serious?
How does a programmer afford to be lazy in the first place?
Anyways have you tried to create say daily bucket lists?
It's a great way to solve this issue.
Like create what you want to achieve for the day and do it to the latter smiley
You see,voom!!!it's gone ibk wink
Outside of work mainly smiley

That’s a good idea, my problem is I’m very ‘all or nothing’, so when I actually set my mind to something I can be a machine but once I slip into that ‘can’t be bothered’ mode, I’m terrible.

Daily bucket list it is though!

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:07pm On Jun 18
CaptainMitch:
I drink too much alcohol and I don't love no one
kinda having some addiction ish too.
Cigarettes shocked and it is beginning to affect me healthier.
Well you can start by changing your circle bro.it worked for me somehow.
I cut all ties with my extravagant friends and I no longer blow as much as I use to but battling now with what I spend on myself only!
As for love bro,i can't advise on that since I've failed woefully in things like that cheesy
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:08pm On Jun 18
ibkayee:

Outside of work mainly smiley

That’s a good idea, my problem is I’m very ‘all or nothing’, so when I actually set my mind to something I can be a machine but once I slip into that ‘can’t be bothered’ mode, I’m terrible.

Daily bucket list it is though!
goodluck with that girl.
I wish you the best kiss

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ceeroh(m): 11:11pm On Jun 18
I used to be very proactive and motivated. But these days, everything just tire me.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:15pm On Jun 18
ceeroh:
I used to be very proactive and motivated. But these days, everything just tire me.
it comes to all of us bro.especially when you feel you've achieved some of the things you set out to do.
You start feeling like ok what's the point?right?
Now I feel one way to solve this is to start investing if I am aligned with you that is!
Take a huge chunk of your savings or running capital and acquire an asset.
Trust me that shortage will be a huge motivation.
A friend of mine did something similar and trust me bro,he is now a work horse.motivated as hell grin cheesy
Over motivation is now driving him insane.dude's got some mouths to feed cheesy
Dude now rings me for business on a steady cheesy
But wasn't interested in the offer though.low margin cry

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by dingbang(m): 11:19pm On Jun 18
@ op, why not try to engage the services of a financial advisor or someone who will help manage your money
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ibkayee(f): 11:21pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
goodluck with that girl.
I wish you the best kiss
Thank you smiley kiss

dingbang:
@ op, why not try to engage the services of a financial advisor or someone who will help manage your money
Good idea
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ayomikuolatunji(m): 11:22pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
bro I'll tell you the truth.
She might be into that guy.
Just go back into the market and start looking for another distraction.
Your attention towards her will drop and she will sit up and make up her damn mind!
If she doesn't then oh well,it wasn't meant to be then cry
You'll definitely move on.....
Do you make money?
Just want to enter university
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:22pm On Jun 18
dingbang:
@ op, why not try to engage the services of a financial advisor or someone who will help manage your money
can you please explain how he or she woukd do that without sloping with my money or putting me too out there?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:25pm On Jun 18
ayomikuolatunji:

Just want to enter university
wow bro you've got it covered.
Worry not.the uni is a place where you'll meet lots of girls from different homes and cultures.
Trust me be more focused in getting in there.you'll forget the confusionist in no time smiley
Classier,richer and more sophisticated and mature girls await you there.
No Bleep up or kill yourself over one smallie that can't make up her mind

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by dingbang(m): 11:27pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
can you please explain how he or she woukd do that without sloping with my money or putting me too out there?
such person gives you insight in where you should channel your funds to and where not to, exposes you to an array of investment ideas and keeps you on the know on latest information that would benefit you at the long run. There are reputable financial managers out there.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:29pm On Jun 18
dingbang:
such person gives you insight in where you should channel your funds to and where not to, exposes you to an array of investment ideas and keeps you on the know on latest information that would benefit you at the long run. There are reputable financial managers out there.
Like which bro?
Do you know any?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Homeboiy: 11:30pm On Jun 18
I removed the bet9ja guy
Just click on report, then click 9 n submit


My only problem now is how can I start afresh in life

I want to replan my life

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by AstroG: 11:31pm On Jun 18
I Bleep too much cry cry
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by luminouz(m): 11:32pm On Jun 18
I'm very bad at calling or visiting people... Mumsy had to practically beg me before i came to see her at home after 3 years...i havent seen my dad/siblings in 4 years plus. As in I no get that culture at all...n people close to me have complained like hell.its not like I dont care about them but I just believe they are alright. I hope I change soon sha.

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:37pm On Jun 18
Homeboiy:
I removed the bet9ja guy

Just click on report, then click 9 n submit



My only problem now is how can I start afresh in life


I want to replan my life
you removed him from your page only lol.
Anyways,why do you want to start AFRESH?
That is a question I think I should ask.who knows,our inputs might let you know you don't need to start all over but just fix some things here and there.
That is if of course,you decide to share.
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:37pm On Jun 18
AstroG:
I Bleep too much cry cry
not a bad thing
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:38pm On Jun 18
luminouz:
I'm very bad at calling or visiting people... Mumsy had to practically beg me before i came to see her at home after 3 years...i havent seen my dad/siblings in 4 years plus. As in I no get that culture at all...n people close to me have complained like hell.its not like I dont care about them but I just believe they are alright. I hope I change soon sha.
nah bro.courtesy demands you to,moreover you can't just sit and assume all is well.
Not a good way bro
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Apeshy101(m): 11:39pm On Jun 18
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1. Laziness: I'm becoming too la
2. Women
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:44pm On Jun 18
Apeshy101:
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1. Laziness: I'm becoming too lazy
2. Women
1;get a to do list daily
2;I think you have too much disposable income!
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by luminouz(m): 11:44pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
nah bro.courtesy demands you to,moreover you can't just sit and assume all is well.
Not a good way bro
Yes,I know bro...I have this goddamn nonchalance in that aspect,maybe cuz I quickly sense when things are wrong subliminally but the visiting home aspect is worse. I just dont see any reason to go home. I'm planning this December sha,hopefully with a potential wife for mama to see....I don dey old abeg cheesy

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by Homeboiy: 11:45pm On Jun 18
nwanneni:
you removed him from your page only lol.
Anyways,why do you want to start AFRESH?
That is a question I think I should ask.who knows,our inputs might let you know you don't need to start all over but just fix some things here and there.
That is if of course,you decide to share.
....


Guy nothing is working for me, I don tire for life but if u see me u will think that this guy is enjoying life but no be so.


I want to start life afresh n forget the mistakes of yesterday


But majorly it's only financial issues sha

Other aspects are OK

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Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:45pm On Jun 18
luminouz:

Yes,I know bro...I have this goddamn nonchalance in that aspect,maybe cuz I quickly sense when things are wrong subliminally but the visiting home aspect is worse. I just dont see any reason to go home. I'm planning this December sha,hopefully with a potential wife for mama to see....I don dey old abeg cheesy
I see.
Visiting is good but if you can't,that's ok.
But just try and be calling from time to time.or don't you love or is close to your mom?
Re: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by nwanneni(m): 11:47pm On Jun 18
Homeboiy:
....


Guy nothing is working for me, I don tire for life but if u see me u will think that this guy is enjoying life but no be so.


I want to start life afresh n forget the mistakes of yesterday


But majorly it's only financial issues sha

Other aspects are OK
financial issues is a very big word.
Even Dangote has got them.try and break it down for is to understand.
Do you work?what do you do?
business?which?how is it going?
Etc.....

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