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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by khiaa(f): 7:57am On Jun 28, 2019|
You are right, nobody is perfect but those are too many flaws for a woman to tolerate. Try and be better.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by khiaa(f): 8:01am On Jun 28, 2019|
Who's talking about planets, I'm talking about Nigerian men because only Nigerian men are cursed with those horrible flaws.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by starboyflight(m): 8:06am On Jun 28, 2019|
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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by TANID(m): 8:09am On Jun 28, 2019|
victorian:Hmmmm! I Might Not Agree With You And Khiaa On This Your Opinion, Even Though You And Khiaa Are With Meaningful Point.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by MyExpression(m): 8:14am On Jun 28, 2019|
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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by Skmoda360(m): 8:15am On Jun 28, 2019|
khiaa:you better stop saying "all" Nigerian men.....you lot think every Tom, Dick and Harry are the same....change your mindset and perception about life generally before jumping into coven of Nigerian men maybe by then you will get to meet a real and good man or better still he will locate you..come to think of it....you ain't a Nigerian so why the "feck" are you teaming up against Nigerian men..
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by excessmon(m): 8:37am On Jun 28, 2019|
Sorry to quote you......ur view is factless.....u are from ile ife in osun state and u have this myopic mindset about Nigerian men.
Most of you who judge always judge books by the titles....
I can categorically tell you that marriages of blacks is more lasting than whites cos blacks have a culture oriented mindset...sentiments aside who wants to do a marriage that falls apart in weeks or months
Try do a survey on how many foreigners actually have a long blissful marriage time......5 marriages in 2years
Anyways it’s ur choice madam but avoid watching too much of what you see on internet and tv about the whites.....it’s the best medium to cover their shits
To learn more ask verbally from people that have travelled genuinely.......
My piece though...
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by excessmon(m): 8:40am On Jun 28, 2019|
When you can’t reason well...how will ur points make sense?
Please always check what you type online
My piece though
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by cococandy(f): 8:42am On Jun 28, 2019|
As you might have known by now, the population ratio of women to men in the world is higher
Starting your essay with a false statement makes it difficult for anyone with common sense to take you seriously @OP
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by excessmon(m): 8:48am On Jun 28, 2019|
You can’t even be technically rich with this poo you write
U need to be mentally rich before u can be technically rich before finally being physically rich....
Go back to study so u can give valid points online
My piece though
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by excessmon(m): 8:50am On Jun 28, 2019|
Thanks for this.....
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 8:57am On Jun 28, 2019|
Those are politicians. Entrepreneurs like Jeff Bezos, the world's richest man, make the list.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 28, 2019|
Is that your Daughter at your DP?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by Ubdavis(m): 9:00am On Jun 28, 2019|
I still wonder why some people would make an assertion like this when it comes to human, u have valid points but my dear, contrary may also be the case...there is no Almighty formula to this effect...
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 9:02am On Jun 28, 2019|
I'm not from Ile-Ife, Osun state Oga its just my current location. my opinion that nigerian men have polygamous mentality is factless? you do know the meaning of polygamy right? most men here, whether muslim or not, believe it's their right to marry and still have as many women on the side as they want. And even when their wives find out, they are expected to turn a blind eye to it "afterall he is taking care of his family's needs, isn't he?" All I am saying is that this is wrong. I have seen it happen around me, so stop assuming I read it on the internet. Other men of other nationalities cheat, I know...but at least they do not take it as their God given right
Oh and that nonsense about black marriages lasting longer than white marriages is simply because of the stigma that is attached to being a divorced woman in our country. If Nigerians didn't attach so much importance to marriages, our mothers wouldn't have endured all the crap dished to them from their men
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by trapQ: 9:05am On Jun 28, 2019|
Oga, there is a difference between cheating and having polygamous mentality. When a European or American cheats and their wives find out, they apologize and they can both decide to divorce or move on with the marriage but when a Nigerian man (with a polygamous mindset) cheats he feels offended that his wife has the temerity to bring up that topic and tells her he is polygamous in nature. He could even beat her up too.
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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:12am On Jun 28, 2019|
Do European and American men not beat up their wives? Pls define polygamy & tell me whether polygamy has anything 2do with apology or wife beating
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 9:17am On Jun 28, 2019|
These are good points but not a guarantee.
Trust no human being .
Most human beings behaviours are like the skin of a chameleon.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:18am On Jun 28, 2019|
Men of which nationality don't have polygamous mentality?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:19am On Jun 28, 2019|
Tnx. Great points
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by trapQ: 9:20am On Jun 28, 2019|
What part of biology states that men are polygamous in nature? Lol you people will never cease to concoct all manner of falsehoods to suit your narratives.
Oga, they feel remorseful and that is it. Stop making excuses for you Nigerian men who feel cheating is your birth right. Even men who are not the breadwinners feel remorseful too so it has absolutely nothing to do with their impending loss in a divorce settlement.
Let me reiterate. There is not one gene, enzyme or or protein in the body which has been linked to polygamy and the polygamous mindset of you Nigerian men. There are oestrogen for women and testosterone for men and there is nothing to show that men's testosterone makes them polygamous in nature so that argument is baseless and holds no water. Also, the nerve endings topic is dead on arrival too as it's only used by Nigerian men to spew jargons they know nothing about.
Since you brought up Evans the kidnapper, let me ask you. Since you men always claim to be polygamous why don't you claim to be criminal in nature since men committ 90% of the murder and violence in the world?
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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 9:21am On Jun 28, 2019|
non-muslims outside Africa who still respect the sanctity of marriage
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:21am On Jun 28, 2019|
That means u have interacted with d estimated 90,000,000 Nigerian men& also interacted with every other man on d planet to have come to ur conclusion
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:26am On Jun 28, 2019|
Were u able to interact with all d non-muslim men out side Africa to have come 2d conclusion that Nigerian men have a polygamous mentality?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by victorian(f): 9:27am On Jun 28, 2019|
My dear please agree with me on this. I'm serious here
Have had this experience first hand I swear. And i felt depressed, sad, suicidal all through the relationship with the first guy, I ever known when I was just 21. Mehn that guy can kill dreams all in the name of love. Worst ever first relationship of my life!
When khiaa mentioned those traits, my mind flashed back to my ex.
And just yesterday my neighbor, a matured man of 50 . We were gisting about men and women. When I told him what happened between me and my first ex. He said I was at fault? I asked why am I at fault? He said my ex might have had great plans for me career wise but I was determined to follow my passion in fashion design during my course study Of Marine biology in the university
My plan was to graduate with good grades , then head to fashion school and learn my true love ( fashion). And if I marry along the line, no wahala. It's all good as well.
What annoys me most, was when this man said I'm meant to understand a man and knows his weak points. I was like really? I met my ex at age 19 , he claims he wants marriage, I said OK but remember I need to go into fashion design after my grad. He was firmly against fashion design after introduction was made.
Fashion design that have been dreaming from birth to become and u are about crashing my dreams infront of. Me career wise
And u said I should understand a man at that point?
For crying out loud! I'm just 19! Focused on graduating with good grades. What do I know about man at that period of my life!
He's meant to be patient with me ,teach me stuffs with patience. No yell and shout. Or threaten I'm not deaf! Also allow me achieve my dreams. Not been so obsessive and trying to control my every move! You can't clip my wings, if I want to fly! I will fucvking fly! That's who I am. Don't oppress me in the name of love and marriage. Cause u won't like the outcome.
If I start understanding men at that age? I would have been a single mother with kids by now! Oh yes with kids! Then the 50 years old man kept quiet and said oh well! I said look when a girl is growing and in tertiary institution, she can't wait to achieve all her dreams. Parents have controlled one already from birth till one graduates, Fine! I accept because they are my parents.
But the man I will marry should not continue with such control. Cause Im tired of been controlled and a guy breathing down my neck to live One of his fantasized career wise . Mehn! It won't work. Ko Le werk!
Simple advice me, and if u want me to add another career u love so much as a guy. Talk to me about it but don't shove or dismiss what I want to be in life and force yours down my throat. It won't work! And most men for you. So obsessive!
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|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by trapQ: 9:27am On Jun 28, 2019|
Go and read what he wrote again. That's not what he meant.
Also, do you know that as a man, the quality of your sperm reduces at about 45 thereby increasing the risk of having unhealthy offspring? What about erectile dysfunction and prostrate enlargement?
Lol, these are some age related problems affecting men but most men don't even know and think women are the only ones affected by age?
Let me ask you, can a man of 50 truly satisfy a girl in her 20s without having to depend on Viagra which could even adversely affect his heart in the long run?
If your answer to the bolded is yes then the joke is on you.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:28am On Jun 28, 2019|
Then y d high rate of divorce among non-muslim men outside Africa?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 9:31am On Jun 28, 2019|
When a couple realises they aren't compatible, they go their separate ways. The only reason the divorce rate in nigeria is less than theirs is because of the stigmatization attached to being a divorced women
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by trapQ: 9:32am On Jun 28, 2019|
No, cheating is not cheating. Even God forgives us when we confess our sins and the good book says, "if we say we have not signed, we make him a liar and his word is not in us".
So as we see, cheating and being remorseful is different from cheating and feeling it's your birthright.
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:35am On Jun 28, 2019|
So non-muslims outside Africa don't cheat on their wives& d non compatibility responsible 4 high divorce rates isn't due to infidelity?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:35am On Jun 28, 2019|
Oga what is polygamy?
|Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by lexy2014: 9:37am On Jun 28, 2019|
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