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Questions You Ask Yourself To See How Far You Are Growing by adaezeh126(f): 9:53pm On Jun 28, 2019
As a human being that we are,we are supposed to question ourselves at every month end to see how far we are growing if not we will remain on the same spot doing nothing about our situation. So here are some few questions you are to ask yourself. *. What’s My Bare Minimum?
We should always aim above and beyond bare minimum, but knowing where your standards lie is a good way to figure out how to work your way up. Determine what you have to do this month in order for you to feel satisfied and happy with yourself.

This can come in the form of goals. How much do you need to save to feel like you’ve been frugal? How well do you want to do at work? How many books do you want to read? Your bare minimum is personal and unique to you, and knowing this in various areas can help you get your priorities in order.

Are There Any Events I Should Prepare For?
The last thing you want is for a big, important event to catch you by surprise. Making sure you remember them is very important, and it can prevent last-minute rushes that make life so stressful. Here are some sub-questions to ask:

Are there any birthdays, anniversaries, or big days?
Is there a holiday coming up? How do you want to spend it?
Are there any appointments you need to make?
Is there an important event to keep in mind?
How Do I Want To Feel?
It seems like an odd question, but it’s important. Logic is necessary when preparing for a new month, but that doesn’t mean your feelings should get thrown out the window. A big part of personal happiness and positive thinking comes from catering to your emotional needs.

Determine how you want to feel that month, and work from there to figure out what steps you have to take to achieve those feelings. Once again, it will help you choose your priorities.

What’s My Budget This Month?
Not everyone enjoys the process of budgeting. And of course, we aren’t expecting you to keep perfectly meticulous track of every single thing you spend, earn, and save – though if you can, definitely do so! Still, some idea of your financial situation is important to get your perspective straight.

Budgeting is actually a very important aspect of a positive life. Start by going through your accounts. Take note of large expenditures, your salary, and how much of it tends to go where. Now, come up with a general plan of how much you can spend on what. Here are some sub-questions to consider:

What bills need to be paid?
Are there any big expenses I need to prepare for?
Do I tend to overspend in certain areas?
Are my savings sufficient for rainy days?
Do I want to set any financial goals?
Having a proper personal budget, even just a rough outline, gives you a clearer picture of your financial state. It prevents you from running out of money and can make a huge change in your habits. Plus, budgeting is important so you can be prepared for emergencies or for large payments that need to be made.

It’s also great to try setting some financial goals. Maybe you want to try and save $50 extra every week, or $100. Maybe you want to focus on cutting your entertainment expenditure in half? Or perhaps you want to have enough to enjoy a movie and a night out or two during the month. The choice is yours, but it pays to prepare!

how Do I Want To Spend Time With?
A healthy social life makes a healthy mind. Falling out of touch with people, especially good friends, isn’t fun; if you stay disconnected for too long, you’ll come to regret it.

Make time to spend with friends, family, a significant other, or anyone else you’d like to. If you have a very busy schedule, now’s a great time to make plans with them in advance. Lost touch with anybody? Time to reconnect!

Am I Happy With My Possessions?
Marie Kondo has gotten quite popular for her take on decluttering and mild minimalism. While many people like to joke about her methods, she’s actually somewhat right! Decluttering is a very freeing process and it’s one that can be a crucial part of someone’s routine. Some areas to look at include:

Your wardrobe
Food (especially to check for expired cans/cartons, etc.)
Technology (emails, DMs, photos, etc.)
Books
Games
Toys
Other collectibles
Built-up clutter and junk
Of course, we know just how much collectible items can mean to you. We’re not asking you to throw out things that make you happy. We are asking you to examine whether you really need or truly want every single thing you own. You’d also be surprised how much unwanted junk you can collect in a month!

The most important one on this list is probably your wardrobe. Many of us buy items we’ll never use. Every month, dedicate around half an hour to looking through your closet. Pack away non-seasonal items, unpack seasonal items, and donate things you never wear. Your life will get much simpler and you’ll be happier, with much more positive thinkingWhat Fun Things Do I Want To Do This Month?
A lot of serious people look down on the idea of doing something purely for entertainment and fun. Unfortunately for them, this is actually a very important part of maintaining a positive attitude and keeping yourself happy and satisfied.

Living is about more than just existing, surviving day to day, and doing what has to be done. It’s about giving yourself time to breathe, stopping to smell the roses, and having a good time. So figure out what it is you want to do this month that can help make it fun! Some examples are:

Go for a night out on the town
Go shopping
Watch a new movie
Go on a nice date
Take a day trip
Buy a new video game
Take up a new hobby
Buy yourself something small
Make time for a cozy day in
Choose activities that you know will make you feel fulfilled and help you feel happy about life and living. Self-care, and treating yourself, is more important than you think – don’t ignore this aspectHow Can I Keep Myself Healthy This Month?
Health is endlessly important to your life. Without it, you won’t truly be living. There are a number of ways you might want to keep yourself healthy, such as in your:

· Fitness
Regular exercise helps you keep in shape, feel good about yourself, and get enough sleep every night.

· Diet
Food is what keeps you going. Work on eating mindfully. This doesn’t mean you can’t have treats now and then – just focus on having regular, healthy meals.

· Mind
How can you keep your brain sharp and healthy? Read books that you like, meditate, do puzzles, and engage in interesting conversation.

· Mental health
Yes, this can also fall under mind, but it deserves its own category. If you find yourself feeling down or anxious, consider speaking to a therapist, or do some exercises that help reduce these feelings.

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