SenorFax:
What would you have her do??

Condemn her own husband?
It's for better for worse.
Most of them bashing her are singles anyway.

tactius:
Last comment on this rape or no rape issue, before I sail off into the sunset.

1.The funny thing about this case are the people saying...It was not rape, she did not cry out! Okay...there are many cases like that.

2.Again, a raped woman is in a horrible state. She is not going to just go and report to the authorities (Even the current Lagos case involving a young student, it was a friend who took her to report the case).

3.With the way many are responding to the rape case....no wonder no raped woman is going to come out and tell her story.

4.Sluts don't deserve to be raped, just like any other woman

5.Anyway, I could say more, but I am tired. And I have to find my way off this thread.

6. Yes...women do lie against men on rape. And many of the men defending Fatoyinbo have been victims too of this. Let us not diminsh their stories.

To every Nairaland woman...please, if you have been raped, please, cast your sorrow aside, make a report, and put your rapist behind bars. To every Nairalander...let us offer support to every rape victim. Let us not stigmatize them, call them names, and let us not sweep such cases under the carpet.

And yes, Biodun is still INNOCENT till proven guilty. Just because we all suspect him, does not mean that he does not deserve to prove his case in court.

And all you Chrstians defending your philandering pastors......God is watching. Repent. Otherwise...God will soon show us he is not mocked, and his name is not for profaning.

Good night from me.

I may have the sweetest smile, glowing between my nose and chin,
But only I know the truth about the deep secrets held within.
I may have the prettiest eyes that have seen more than they should
And have cried more delicate tears than anyone else ever could.

I may have the kindest heart, but that came with a cost.
It has felt the worst of pains and experienced the greatest loss.
I cannot change the past, an event to which I succumbed.
But I can focus on the present and change what is to come.

We are all so different and yet so much the same.
Everyone, in some way or another, will experience a kind of pain.
Everybody has things they wish not to recall,
Into each life some rain must fall.

Scattered throughout our lives, like a friend that is one of a kind,
Dreary days will steadily approach, bad memories trailing behind.
These dark days are necessary, just as important as the rest,
For if we didn't have the worst, we couldn't recognize the best.

Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/change-what-is-to-come

To any rape victim reading this...the best is yet to come. It does get better. The darkness will fade away.

justflow1:
A yoruba saying goes thus:
ta ni e'le shinshin o ba gbe bi ko ba n se e'legbo

translated as:
who do you expect a "housefly" to favour if not a person with a diseased patch of skin

connotatively: mummy D no get option than to support Daddy B lols....if push turns shove Daddy B might still be a virgin

Benekruku:
The only victim that was rewarded with a marriage


What else do you expect her to say

crazygod:
From all this comments above, it is true when they say that most Nigerians don't even reason at all. Very sad.

MahatmaGhandi:

They want to control the narrrative of the wife too, this is so bad.

KanuSE:


You're just riding on emotions - you have no clue of what's playing out here.

SenorFax:
What would you have her do??

Condemn her own husband?
It's for better for worse.
Most of them bashing her are singles anyway.

ClearFlair:
It’s like social media makes people mad. Just look at Atiku supporters and these ones

9jaBloke:
If she totally believes what she is saying, fine.

If she's believes or knows otherwise, wrong.


Generally speaking, standing by your husband for better for worse does not necessarily translate to supporting him if you know he commited a crime.

If your spouse is doing wrong, God is not asking you to support or defend the wrongdoing, rather He wants you to stand and tell your spouse the gospel truth and help him/her get back on track.

9jaBloke:
If she totally believes what she is saying, fine.

If she's believes or knows otherwise, wrong.


Generally speaking, standing by your husband for better for worse does not necessarily translate to supporting him if you know he commited a crime.

If your spouse is doing wrong, God is not asking you to support or defend the wrongdoing, rather He wants you to stand and tell your spouse the gospel truth and help him/her get back on track.

justflow1:
A yoruba saying goes thus:
ta ni e'le shinshin o ba gbe bi ko ba n se e'legbo

translated as:
who do you expect a "housefly" to favour if not a person with a diseased patch of skin

connotatively: mummy D no get option than to support Daddy B lols....if push turns shove Daddy B might still be a virgin

KanuSE:


You have no clue what Modele is going through as a family woman, a wife.

id4sho:

So Timi Dakolo married a fairly used wife .
What do I know sef

SenorFax:
What would you have her do??

Condemn her own husband?
It's for better for worse.
Most of them bashing her are singles anyway.

Annie939:
what do you expect? after all her husband called her a cold dead body.

KanuSE:
Loyalty!

Modele is now BF's last wall of defence - virtuous woman who keeps her vow.

- in battle we stand shoulder to shoulder.

IamSoProlific:
I think is high time I stop reading anything that has to do with COZA till they take it to court.

The whole thing is driving me bananas, Nigerians are so daft and dumb. Now I know why our leaders are unapologetic with their ill behaviors.

Full of unwarranted abuse and insults, void of reasonable points to buttress their claims.

Most of Nigerians are oyes members, anywhere belle face, while some do it for clouts. Funny enough,most of them are simply envious and naturally bittered. Let the world scatter, so all man can start afresh.

Still don't know why I came back to this sh!thole.

saintokwuluora:
From Busola Dakolo's story, am finding it difficult to agree that Pastor Biodun raped her. I see it as consensual fornication between the two. Imagine someone knock on the door, you opened it, without a word he pushes you to the couch and without resistance of any manner he pulls off your pant and penetrates your private part and no atom of protest from you. This allegation of rape is poorly scripted for the gullible because it obvious Busola served Biodun and he ate.