A lady has taken to twitter to narrate how she turned her marriage around for good.

Read her details below


I started enjoying my marriage when I admitted that I had toxic traits that needed to be worked on and stopped making excuses.
I set up my mind to making it work and Husband reciprocated the same energy. It's never been the same since then ♥️


One day I will tell you guys how I got into marriage thinking that man's has to worship me because am pretty. I had huge pretty girl problems . Threw tantrums when I didn't get my way. Never wanted to compromise, never listened. I took the whole "I'm the prize" thing too far...


I never put in any work in the marriage. I wanted everything handed to me cos am cute. Thank God that he's blessed me with a patient man who through it all had my best interest in heart and fought for us when I was Wilding out ♥️. He's my Angel and I am greatful for him.

I had been in relationships where I was worshiped so much that I started idolizing myself. If a man didn't idolize me, I would leave. Never allowed people to be human around me. Yhu guys I come from far �. I'm grateful that I've been delivered from that. Idolatry as it's best.


And Alot of young women suffer from this. Especially the ones who've always been pretty and praised by everyone. That gets to your head and at some point you start thinking that's the best you got.


Admitting this was very painful cause I thought everyone was the problem. It was hard and depressed me. I couldn't believe it. I thought I was EVERYTHING & PERFECT & any man would be lucky to have me breath next to him. But I had to do more than that.


I believe that you will get the best out of any relationship if you can just focus on yourself. Love yourself first. Love yourself enough to want to become better for you and your partner. It's starts with you. And it won't happen over night. It takes time but you must want to.

hope say our nairaland feminist don hear ...
Una wey like to be idolized... I no no weda una 1turn statue

Tell them

Loud it oooooo

Aliencraft:
hope say our nairaland feminist don hear ...
Una wey like to be idolized... I no no weda una 1turn statue

guy you better take cover they are coming for you.

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You never jam my kind
Any rubbish movement, I will yab your destiny into seeking for another human host. Worship you my foot

Na dem o!!!!


I've dated a girl like this one! She always want to be worshipped but I left her when she least expect.

Beauty can never be enough because there will always be someone more beautiful than you. Some ladies can go overboard because of their beauty but later realized that men can only like your fine face for show off not when it comes to marriage.

You're on your own!

There can be only one captain

Texman21:
guy you better take cover they are coming for you.

That's for sure

bdchange:
Beauty can never be enough because there will always be someone more beautiful than you. Some ladies can go overboard because of their beauty but later realized that men can only like your fine face for show off not when it comes to marriage.

Our girls get dis kind mentality like craze and that's why they don't appreciate things guys do for them because they think doing them favor is their right not privilege.

I don't blame ladies. Too many mumu guys. Telling a lady she's your life and you can't live without her, isn't that insane. In the first instance, why would you give all your emotions to a girl? Once you do this as a man, your power is gone. She should be the one doing all her best to "sustain" the relationship, not you sacrifice your life and sanity all because you're in love. Love indeed.

There is another Version of This Feminism Madness.

TonyeBarcanista:
Na dem o!!!!


I've dated a girl like this one! She always want to be worshipped but I left her when she least expect.

After you left her, I am sure she PROBABLY told you something to the effect of "you are giving up because you can't handle a strong and classy woman."

Martinez39:
After you left her, I am sure she PROBABLY told you something to the effect of "you are giving up because you can't handle a strong and classy woman."

You sabi them

Martinez39:
After you left her, I am sure she PROBABLY told you something to the effect of "you are giving up because you can't handle a strong and classy woman."

. Hahahahahaaaaaa. For their mind

Hmmm

Martinez39:
After you left her, I am sure she PROBABLY told you something to the effect of "you are giving up because you can't handle a strong and classy woman."

hahaha person wey be say I cut all communication with her...(I no de keep touch with ex )

Awon misogynist them here, pained people, there were blind of the toxic traits because of beauty, and they say we dont matter, we are literally the air they breath.