ufotty2001:
My advice to ladies are don't wait on till you get to 35-40 try and get pregnant even without husband

That is when you are financially buoyant and mentally independent. Nigeria is not the kind of country you bring children into the world just becos of age without proper planning and fund to take care of them .

Pregnancy wrecks a woman’s body not just physically but internally, there’s a lot that happens. I know what I went through during my pregnancy and what most women face through pregnancy and labour. It is not a joke it’s the closest thing to death. I was 24 when i got pregnant, as for me I cannot carry any children in my 30s, it’s too much stress. Not to talk of 39 or 40, I just feel logically it is very risky. Life happens of course and it’s not always the woman’s fault. But if you can I would advise most women to have their children in their 20s to early 30s and get it over and done with. Your body will also handle it much better 9 times out of 10.

Food for thought especially for those materalistic and choosy ladies.

membranus:


So what's wrong with beggars and cobblers?

Many of them have wives that are more beautiful than girls on NL.

Nothing is wrong with them ok, make sure your daughters and sisters marry them.

ofiko123:
Can anyone really get pregnant at age 40..

Yes it's very possible!

olabrinks:
Pregnancy wrecks a woman’s body not just physically but internally, there’s a lot that happens. I know what I went through during my pregnancy and what most women face through pregnancy and labour. It is not a joke it’s the closest thing to death. I was 24 when i got pregnant, as for me I cannot carry any children in my 30s, it’s too much stress. Not to talk of 39 or 40, I just feel logically it is very risky. Life happens of course and it’s not always the woman’s fault. But if you can I would advise most women to have their children in their 20s to early 30s and get it over and done with. Your body will also handle it much better 9 times out of 10.

My goal to make good money and be financially independent that will be more than enough to freeze my egg and get my baby through surrogate. Then adopt my second baby so that my baby will have a sibling . Life is not has complicated as we see it . Just have an open heart and work hard and the sky will be your limit .

omoharry:
My goal to make good money and be financially independent that will be more than enough to freeze my egg and get my baby through surrogate. Then adopt my second baby so that my baby will have a sibling . Life is not has complicated as we see it . Just have an open heart and work hard and the sky will be your limit .

do you want to be married ? Parenthood is much easier with two parents I think

FalseProphet1:
This is human report, with fervent prayers you can still get pregnant even at 80.

This I have seen.

80 years pure lies only in the bible

orispee58:


https://punchng.com/your-chances-of-pregnancy-at-40-and-above

What God cannot do does not exist!!

Solofresh2:
Lol nawa oo

That is not my moniker, it was created recently by a troll.

lprintMONEY:
insult back but don't insult someone's mother.
I'm watching you on this forum, next time you try that nonsense again na your image from your previous profile picture I will use and litter it on this forum, blackmail you and tag you a fraudster and criminal.
Be very careful.

Anyone that insults me unprovoked will be referred back to his mother, if you like say nonsense about me, it doesn't change my life offline, your fellow male that insults females every time you no see that one troll, it's me you are threatening, you are sick in the head, me that put my profile before, you think I'm ashamed of what I look like? Place my beautiful face everywhere na, when you are tired, you will go and sleep.

Fertility treatments, frozen eggs, and frozen male genetic material mean a woman can probably have a kid when she's in her 60s. But just because it's possible doesn't mean it should happen. Older mothers are higher risk pregnancies. And does it really make sense to have a young child in middle age?

There are tons of kids born to worthless parents. Better to adopt a young kid. In fact, older parents who really want a kid would be excellent parents for adopted kids.

lprintMONEY:
that Jovialjune was seen begging for money to feed in one thread.
See Screenshots

Keep lying and crying, if you like create another type of my moniker or what is more than that, na you go tire.

Nice

JovialJune:
Right, there should also be an extensive awareness of male infertility like low sperm count and the rest, the rate at which men consume drugs and alcohol with reckless lifestyle which affect their fertility is worrisome, they don't know this, they ignorantly marry their wives and assume only women have this problem. A doctor friend told me of infertility cases caused by men, who refuses to tell their spouse, they prefer the blame to be heaped on her, God help us.

Women will always turn tables!

The article is about the decline of chances of fertility in women over the age of 30 which every intelligent person knows and here you are talking about men who smoke and drink!

if you're single man please ensure to marry a lady of 29years below except if the 30years above have once given birth before



this topic was straight and true

olabrinks:
do you want to be married ? Parenthood is much easier with two parents I think

Ya! You are right but I will never marry someone just becos time is not on my side and end up become miserable like so many Nigerian married women.
If I find love, why not. But if not, then, it's not a do or die affair.
A single independent woman can still start her family and bring up her children properly with good values .
She does not have to end up alone just becos she could not find the man of her dream .
Thank God for IVF, Surrogacy and adoption.

Kobicove:


Yes it's very possible!

How??

Opexzy:


If I hear wedding from your mouth when you never get belle.

omoharry:
Ya! You are right but I will never marry someone just becos time is not on my side and end up become miserable like so many Nigerian married women.
If I find love, why not. But if not, then, it's not a do or die affair.
A single independent woman can still start her family and bring up her children properly with good values .
She does not have to end up alone just becos she could not find the man of her dream .
Thank God for IVF, Surrogacy and adoption.

it’s true but let that be the last option.

JovialJune:
Right, there should also be an extensive awareness of male infertility like low sperm count and the rest, the rate at which men consume drugs and alcohol with reckless lifestyle which affect their fertility is worrisome, they don't know this, they ignorantly marry their wives and assume only women have this problem. A doctor friend told me of infertility cases caused by men, who refuses to tell their spouse, they prefer the blame to be heaped on her, God help us.

This issue of infertility goes both ways we know, but we r discussing about women, their tendency to become less fertile as they age now, on this topic, don't deviate cus u just think , the op just decided to talk about women, instead of to learn d lessons inherent in what op is saying, u r here fighting a battle of d sexs. Hmmm!!

Ladies in d house I see alot of u fighting d men here as if they r d ones who made u. It is d natural nature of women that their fertility wanes as they grow older, noboby is forcing any woman to marry anybody cus of their biological clock, but it is good u know , what is happening with ur body , n know d consequences of ur delay or negligence, The men also ve their issues bothering on d natural make up of their bodies, so pls ladies try to get d lessons here and stop attacking d men.

As much as this post doesn't concern me let Me use this opportunity to extend my condolences to Samson's family there was no phone when he died

Evercurious:



Thank you for educating all these half baked 'veterinary' doctors we ve here on nairaland... You re right. I used to experience lactation and irregular menstruation. After series of test and consultation, I was told told the lactation was due to hormonal imbalance and the irregular flow was due to stress and emotional instability ( pressure, stress ,sudden mood swings etc all from my job as at that time). Funny enough, my menstrual flow became regular immediately I left that job. Next was the lactation. All sorted without any medication. At that point I discovered that STRESS can do alot of harm to the body..Maybe he has his own reason for that...

Me I saw my mum menstruating almost at 50 years ..while I saw some with irregular and as good as no menstruation get pregnant and give birth. So why do I ve to bother my life?.. when i reach that bridge , I go sure cross am as long as i dont live any complicated life.. That's my principle..However it is, it ll surely end well

I love your optimistic approach to life. Keep it up, it's surely going to take you far

JovialJune:


Nope, married at 28, have kids

You are not interested in marriage, I would hooked you up, but you are kind of hot tempered

Really..

Ernestforyou:



It’s not jargon but the fact and it’s applicable to men too.When I was younger ,I used to impregnate ladies anyhow but now at over 40,I have been doing it raw with three different 32 year old ladies for two years now and no belle.Doctor say Na age cause am

Na wah o!!

It's your job description an "Impregnator?"

What do you mean by you used to impregnate ladies anyhow?

JovialJune:
Right, there should also be an extensive awareness of male infertility like low sperm count and the rest, the rate at which men consume drugs and alcohol with reckless lifestyle which affect their fertility is worrisome, they don't know this, they ignorantly marry their wives and assume only women have this problem. A doctor friend told me of infertility cases caused by men, who refuses to tell their spouse, they prefer the blame to be heaped on her, God help us.

a man with low sperm count can still get a woman pregnant… a drop of sperm has millions of spermatozoa cells, the egg needs just one… the difference is a man who has low sperm count would need to try as much as possible to get a woman pregnant, but he’s still capable of doing it

lprintMONEY:
stop lying you're into escort services and your sex starved hungry clients connect with you through coded runs and other prostitution apps.
Just came after this post of yours..
Screenshots below

You're the most pathetic miserable loser I've seen on this forum bar none, with all the time in his hands to troll strangers on a faceless site.

It still amazes me how you go about cloning peoples Monika with the sole aim of trolling and creating a false impression of them, are you that jobless? Pray tell, how many Nairaland accounts have you created just today? Total?

Outside of this site, I wonder what kind of life you live.