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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:21am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:23am On Jul 12, 2019 |
If you thinking about establishing a business i woud suggest you consider school locations( nsugbe, main market road, ekwulobia etc) rents around those places are cheap too Hullabaloon: |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by healthpal: 9:30am On Jul 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:you have started...why asking this question...."na dem" |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by nuelyoyo(m): 9:43am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Dudeweedlmao:you are welcome |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by seaboyzen: 9:45am On Jul 12, 2019 |
AntiMCU:.
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by nairaland0753: 9:54am On Jul 12, 2019 |
[quote author=Conquerdem1 post=80176386]Am 28. Dad n mom splitted couple of years ago after more than 35yrs of marriage. All my elder ones are married and I’ve got one junior Sis. Ever since mom left since two years now. Dad hasn’t been giving me any attention or talk to me since I came back from school 4years ago even before mom left. He goes on his own cos he’s got a Pussy outside but scared to bring her home cos of what ppu in the area will say cos he’s a churchy person and no one expected it. The pussy caused their fight and mom had to move to her own house that she built. I’m tired of the area too and I really wanna move out for greener pasture. I’ve gotten my own rented apartment but don’t know how to tell him cos I don’t think he believes in me but always imagining how am surviving without him. He’s 67 and sometimes am not always happy my mom and Dad are not together. I just want to move on with my life. Someone help me. I need work!! And Gods grace to make it cos nija no easy[/quote After 35years of marriage? Hmmmm really heart breaking. May Almighty God strengthen you and may his grace continue to sustain your family. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Duggedised12(f): 9:59am On Jul 12, 2019 |
truthsayer009:working on it,thanks for your concern. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by 007lss: 10:02am On Jul 12, 2019 |
[quote author=Hullabaloon post=80154166]Guys I need advice on what to do at this point in my life. Got a job, in my state, place of work not far from parent's house (rented flat). I've managed to save up to 400k so far, I've always longed to move away from my parent's house and get my own place, but they'd always kick against it, citing that there's no need for that since work is close to home. Left for them, they'd like me to stay till I plan for marriage whenever that will be; Lol, parents sha. I'm already 28 years old, so I think it's time. My colleagues already yab me anytime they get the opportunity, they love reminding me that I still dey chop mama thank you. Problem is, the job security at my place of work is not that encouraging. I have older colleagues who have been in the company for 8 to 15 years, I've also, within my short period (less than a year now) seen about 5 workers sacked, it's a place where any thing can happen at any time. So, should I invest this 400k in renting and furnishing an apartment with the constant uncertainty hovering over the job,and no side income yet, or should I continue staying with my parents while I invest the money in a side business which I don't know how it'll fare... Now, frankly speaking, I'm not cut out for business, it's not my forte at all, so starting any at all comes with great risk but I still feel the need for another source of income. On the flip side, Staying with my parents is not even as economical as most would think. Ever since I got the job, parents no dey gree say them get money again. All the bills are on me. I'm just confused. Salary fluctuates between 60 to 80k[/stay more with them,get a plot of land or half plot and start doing something on it and don't leave your place of work too,opportunity comes once,I did the same last 8 years ago and I'm still enjoying my life now,houses rent nowadays is not encouraging, 120,000 per year,think wisely |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Celebsnews: 10:29am On Jul 12, 2019 |
2blockus: Baba O. How did you achieve this much in two years? |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 12, 2019 |
AntiMCU:I didn't use my life as a yardstick. I used the lives of our thieving politicians who as hard as it may seem to believe, achieved great things at young ages. 28 shouldn't be an age to contemplate living in Daddy's house for the purpose of saving money. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Katier00(f): 11:05am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Mrjuice:beautiful |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Noel1:You in luck! I love bicycles |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Graduateacher(f): 11:09am On Jul 12, 2019 |
LadySarah: It will bother any mamma if their 28years old offspring is still eating in their house for free. That's not why they invested in your education. Let's stop being sentimental. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Stricklybidness(m): 11:10am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Katier00:Business woman... |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Young cub simply gotta move out to establish its own territory. @Op be a man and move out. Brave the climes 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Holiegrail2: 11:11am On Jul 12, 2019 |
You are so so me |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Graduateacher(f): 11:11am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon: Better move out and grow up. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by bbjayone(f): 11:14am On Jul 12, 2019 |
GOD BLESS U FOR THIS LadySarah: |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Dpharisee: 11:15am On Jul 12, 2019 |
When you move to your own apartment, the first thing you will notice from those your friends making mockery of you is telling you how beautiful your apartment is, then suddenly you will see them begging you for the keys so that they can come and spend sometime with their girlfriends. You will see them eating up all the food which you would have shared with your parents as are you doing now. You will end up paying for two apartments as well as you will contribute in paying the rent in your parents home and other bills and also in your own apartment. Then you will notice that your savings will start dwindling. Dont leave your family house until you are ready, no hurry in life. Like many have said, having your own apartment is not an investment 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 11:29am On Jul 12, 2019 |
MasterRahl:Did you consider their background. Again still using another person's life as a standard. We are all unique bro 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 11:33am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Xeexeex:Thank you. Another good advice. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 11:34am On Jul 12, 2019 |
ogbonti: 2 Likes
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Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by jay7(m): 11:45am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Mrjuice: Please I will like to know the side huzzle you add to make you spend above all Nysc has in stock for you because with your analysis 19800*12=237600. State Allowance of 5k =60k for 12 months which know state pays more than 10 or 11 months, so 237600+60000=297,600. From what you have now 70,000 laptop plus 40,000 you send to your friend =110,000 plus the 180,000 you have it will be 290,000, mind you I know you haven't been paid the last 41,100 and I have already included it in my calculations. So tell me don't you eat, buy things throughout your service year? 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Abcruz(m): 11:52am On Jul 12, 2019 |
IamSoProlific: You have spoken well. As regards the proverb, you well know that the meaning of a word depends on it's context. It is written in the context of the advice given to him by his friends. Rephrasing my statement; The man who takes into consideration the negative opinions of his friends is slave to them. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Brainardc(m): 12:08pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Gloriagee:I Concur with this |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Hullabaloon:I want to be like you when I grow up. But do you know you can become a billionaire from working from home. You can become your own boss forever |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by NkemChukwudi: 12:39pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
naijjaman: The had you by choice or by accident. There is a reason some countries are richer than the others. Most Nigerians were born as a result of sex interaction and not based on family planning or purpose. Hope you won't do the same, having accidental instead of planned children. |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by Conquerdem1: 12:47pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
[quote author=nairaland0753 post=80186759][/quote] Thanks !! |
Re: Should I Stay With My Parents And Invest Or Should I Leave? Advice Needed by IamSoProlific: 1:00pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Abcruz: Keyword:- NEGATIVE |
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