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|My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by bev12: 7:30pm On Jul 11|
Hi guys, I need your candid advice pls.
No insult pls
I met this Caribbean guy last year here in New York and we started dating afterwards around November last year. He is from Jamaica to be exact and I Nigerian.
I fell in love with him because of the many attributes, his character, ethics to work and other things.
We became really close, I visited him, and spent nights at his every other weekend ..
As we progressd I noticed he wasn't spending money on me. I waved it and felt it was more of a Nigerian mentality thing.
So on this particular day in May, I was at his, was meant to spend the night over there. After we went to bed, he slept off I couldn't sleep and decided to go home instead . Before I left I told him I was leaving he wasn't happy and said i was going to another guys house, i told him no and left anyway.
Afterwards I tried contacting him, called, sent him text messages and he never responded.
I left him alone for a while like 3 weeks without contacting him.
Recently I learnt he is with another girl. I feel so heart broken because I was so in love with him.
I'm so heart broken right now I really need him back.
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by donbachi(m): 8:24pm On Jul 11|
Is it him u want back or the ganja?
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by ekitimanalways: 9:02pm On Jul 11|
bev12:...move on with your life!
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by CheedyJ(m): 11:15pm On Jul 11|
Heartbreaks are normal, with time it will pass & u wud b fine again..
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by nuggarito: 11:31pm On Jul 11|
You think your Nigerian shakara will work with the Jamaican guy, madam if you love someone stop messing around, or perhaps you wanted to feel special, it's your loss, not all guys are the same.
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|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Charelsz(m): 11:33pm On Jul 11|
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by bev12: 12:36am On Jul 12|
nuggarito:i never messed around I was honest and straight with him
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Chrisus(m): 12:46am On Jul 12|
You left him alone for three weeks without contacting him? Wtf who does that?
Move on, you're not getting him back.
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Obodo999(m): 12:58am On Jul 12|
Story for the gods. Your motivation for 'loving' him was for your own greed. He is better off without you.
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by SIRTee15: 1:02am On Jul 12|
Thank your stars u dodge the baby mama bullet...
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Nobody: 1:44am On Jul 12|
3 weeks u no contact am. Is he supposed to be begging u Serves u right. Jamo guy no be 9ja guy wey dey tolerate crap fro ladies.
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by frozen70(f): 2:58pm On Jul 12|
Take control of your emotions before you destroy other people chances in your life
Men can't even stay with out having a spare girlfriend unless the most decent ones
You loved him but he loves you too and still have the same ability to live another person
It hurts but you have to move on
Men don't experience heart break like women because of our emotional being
Free your heart and yourself and search for another that will appreciate you
They don't worth dying for because they don't want to know how it feels to be heart broken
Assuming is marriage and he left all the expenses for you
Will you still love him and carry the burden alone ❓
Pls be happy and move on, someone out there is crazy about you, try and locate him and give him a trial
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Dobson43: 3:59pm On Jul 12|
My dear Nigerian Queen, its unfortunate that guy failed to see that he lost a treasure in you. Its sad that you overlooked certain attributes In him such as the fact he doesn't spend a dime on you. That should have been an indicator he wasn't really into you.
Heartbreak hurts. Time will heal you. Meanwhile find a time and emotionally demanding task and throw yourself in it.
Let that Jamaican guy go if he was into you when you withdrew he would have come knocking but alas it is what it is. Take care of yourself and don't let anyone, I mean anyone make you feel less of yourself.
This is a passing stage better men will come. Meanwhile upgrade yourself. Learn a new skill or something. Stay positive
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by Merit123(m): 6:19pm On Jul 12|
My sister dt guy doesn't like you the way u do, just bcs you ppls are not from the same country, he just wants to eat you and live, move on with your life and wait for your own man.
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by bev12: 4:29am On Jul 13|
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by bev12: 4:34am On Jul 13|
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by StrikeBack(m): 7:38am On Jul 13|
|Re: My Caribbean Boyfriend Broke My Heart by frozen70(f): 8:06am On Jul 13|
You are welcome
Mourn it and move on
You deserve the best
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