theButterfly:
Know someone well before you propose in public.

She could've accepted his proposal out of pretense, pressure, or to save him from embarrassment, but her candidness in declining and walking away will do both of them good in the long run as they move on w| their lives.

just as d guy could have end up not marrying her......engagement does not guarantee marriage

Oceannaagent:
Heartbroken

From now on, anytime the guy sees a video camera he'll run and hide.
Nonsense.

Embrass in public

abegi wan ask one question o.
1) is it by force to propose to your woman in public?. bcus this has bcom a disease in our men.
2) If u are dating any lady, ask her if u guys are in for sex machine only or marriage stuff cus ladies of now adays no want husband again, na person wey go dy service dem na im dem dey find.
3) don't proposed to ur woman in public, better tell her one on one nd see cus proposing to her in public is like u are taking advantage of her choice by not giving her the space to think.
4) Read no 3 again and again.





I REST MY CASE HERE.

SouthSouth1914:


But you can kneel and do the doggy style! Sadly, you are doing it with both legs.. Mtcheew

Fallacy!

He would be in charge doing that you mentioned and not the other way round as the stupi.d guy proposing.

Frank571:
What i don't understand is why do ladies keep on dating a guy they know they won't marry?

Any reasons?

Few reasons are
1.. money
2. The dude is handsome or brilliant or both
3. The female folks are sometimes Confused
4. Good in bed.

Chinekepikin:
Local Is Is Frustrated, See Reactions Below, Watch The Full Video HERE

The guy was a clown. Who does that? How can you do a public proposal, without having a solid idea of what the girl's reply is likely to be?

If both of them had taken time out to hold conversations about their future, or map out plans on how they intend to stay together in the next few years, then he would have known what her answer would be, if he proposed.

And he would have avoided this kind of humiliation! I don't blame the girl, because nothing compels her to say yes, in public. She did not hold a gun to his head, to force him to propose.

D1zion:
Maybe she has someone aside the guy,cos getting proposed is almost every lady's dream.I believe he's not the only one she's in a relationship with.

Which every lady's dream? Abeg, stop that rubbbish. The most important thing to a lady, is the person doing the proposal, and not the proposal itself. Wake up! Ask any lady you see around...

nzeobi:
serves the idiot right, marriage is for serious minded people and not social media boys.
discuss marriage with her at home and propose there.

Gbam! You talk am well.

theButterfly:
Know someone well before you propose in public.

She could've accepted his proposal out of pretense, pressure, or to save him from embarrassment, but her candidness in declining and walking away will do both of them good in the long run as they move on w| their lives.

Exactly! The guy didn't take out time to know what was in the girl's mind, before he even proposed.

Before embarking on this kind of step, both of you would have done in-depth research on your feelings for each other, and if possible, outline your plans for the future.

He was obviously so full of himself, and so sure of the response he thought he was going to get, because he believed she would not say no, which was why he staged that proposal. Such a silly kid!

lonelydora:
Dear Kings,

Before you embark on public act, make sure you have ticked all your checklist on your girl. Ask her questions on any part of the relationship you don't understand, it will help you to know if she will say YES or NO.

Even in my next world, I can't propose publicly

You talk am well. Collect one chilled bottle of Origin zero from Mama Rosette down the road. Tell her, all the drinks are on me!

At least she was honest.

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Kingrexyl:
Mehn but this to me is stupidity

Is just a movie not real ?

KanuSE:
All these guys with their mumuness, thinking they can get to the throne by hook or by crook. They fail to win the woman's heart coz they're tactless & misogynistic in their approach, then start to ride on a false sense of entitlement.

This PDA is becoming annoying coz it's beginning to appear as 'holding the woman hostage'.....WTF !

You are so correct. May the wisdom God gave to you never run dry....

The guy may even have messed up recently, and is trying to redeem himself, by proposing publicly, hoping the girl will overlook his shenanigans and fall for him again. Who knows?

duni04:
Hollywood movies are really turning people's minds upside down in this country. Why on earth do you need to propose to someone on the street or in a crowded place? Can't you sit down at home and look your woman in the eyes and explain to her why you want to marry her?
Why do you have to embarrass someone into saying yes to you? Complete nonsense! All these Instagram and Twitter boys please chill out o.

And he called camera men to record the scene, o! Can you imagine his stuvpidity??

YoungAncient1:
All these nonsense sef. Don't these people discuss marriage in their relationships at all? Why make a public spectacle of themselves with this charade of public proposal?

I wonder, o! Before deciding to do a public proposal, shouldn't you have had serious conversations with the girl, about the direction of your relationship? Or where you both see yourselves in each other's lives, in the next few years?

The answers you get will determine how serious both of you are, with that relationship.

Bahddo:
All these people saying she embarrassed him and that she should have said yes first and then no later, you all are stunningly stupid crowd-pleasing souls.

So he's the one that didn't embarrass her with his public spectacle? If I were a girl, proposing publicly despite knowing me is enough to make me decide I don't want anything to do with you anymore.

It's highly manipulative to try to pressure her into saying yes by putting her on the spot in front of people and cameras.

Bottom line is, know your partner and don't expect them to go out of their way just so your inconsiderate ass does not get publicly embarrassed by your own thoughtless actions.

Very well said! Nothing more to add....

nzeobi:
serves the idiot right, marriage is for serious minded people and not social media boys.
discuss marriage with her at home and propose there.

Even look at his bia bia like old he goat!

Frank571:
What i don't understand is why do ladies keep on dating a guy they know they won't marry?

Any reasons?

Guy, for the same reasons why guys also keep on dating women, they will not marry. Simple.

Good for him kai!!! No be everybody like this public sh!t...

3kay945:


Fallacy!

He would be in charge doing that you mentioned and not the other way round as the stupi.d guy proposing.

Technically, the point is kneeling! What’s the point of kneeling and being in control?

Why not do it the African way and get her pregnant , palm wine and kola will follow the ring, don know why black man de like do oyibo show off things

richie240:


Really? Are u sure dt won't backfire on her? Same niqqa will call her out on SM (its obvious he's a sm guy) for breaking his heart after publicly accepting his proposal.
Small-small, all ds pikins-with-big-preeks will get sense by fire by force.

theButterfly:
Re-read what I wrote, especially the part you bolded, then re-quote me when it is thoroughly understood.

bruv, d bolded was meant for d dudes duds doing all ds PDA nonsense, not u.

First any man who kneels before a woman dishonors himself; second what appears as an embarrassment may turn out to be the biggest blessing in this simp's life.

godofuck231:
Why not do it the African way and get her pregnant , palm wine and kola will follow the ring, don know why black man de like do oyibo show off things

Siddon dia!
what do we have 'krest' for?
You can begin to think of bringing kola when and only when d babe let's u know she's pregnant; or else, she 'krests' it behind ur back and life goes on.
lols

richie240:

Siddon dia!
what do we have 'krest' for?
You can begin to think of bringing kola when and only when d babe let's u know she's pregnant; or else, she 'krests' it behind ur back and life goes on.
lols

lol

SouthSouth1914:


Technically, the point is kneeling! What’s the point of kneeling and being in control?

Still Fallacy...

Cos the action you talking about wasnt meant to be done standing. You got to be laid. So kneeling while in control is a POINT!

It pains, broe. But thank God she said NO. You'll know why later.

sorry bros, you ve been delisted from her stock exchange, all your money spent on her including your self inflicted punishment was a waste.

accept my condolences she is a public liability company owned by many men like you.

laudate:

Gbam! You talk am well.


Exactly! The guy didn't take out time to know what was in the girl's mind, before he even proposed.

Before embarking on this kind of step, both of you would have done in-depth research on your feelings for each other, and if possible, outline your plans for the future.

He was obviously so full of himself, and so sure of the response he thought he was going to get, because he believed she would not say no, which was why he staged that proposal. Such a silly kid!

Thanks. You understood what I wrote. I'm glad one person on Nairaland doesn't have a reading comprehension problem.

Yes, I absolutely agree with you [the above is essentially what I was getting at]. He should've done his homework before proposing. She had obviously done hers and knew it was best to reject the proposal.

I appreciate your understanding.

Our Fathers used to propose in the Bush so only Casava leaves could bear witness....But our generation choose to copy everything Oyibo do.....by doing everything in public for eye service...soon they will start fvcking in public.....Ubiak.....

Martinez39:
The act of proposing in public is unnecessary. Just ask her in private, either she is in or out. Guys, please and please, when you are fvcking and rolling with a lady, let it be stated clearly by the lady if she considers you her boyfriend and wants to marry you or if you people are just fvck buddies. Not when she leads you on, you follow like a mumu and she then tells you that you are just a friend. Ask her if she is serious and wants marriage at the end or she just want to fvck and go.

Lastly, stop spending money on her. You are not her ATM and she is not entitled to your cash. She has her own father and can go and hustle. If she doesn't want, let her get the fvck out of your life. It doesn't matter how beautiful she is(her beauty can go fvck itself), the same rules apply.

That's the candid rule to relationship

That serves him right. Stupid idiots! Public proposal is a sign of pride and immaturity! Thanks to d lady! Rubbish everywhere. I hate anything pride

Mine was twice.She said no the first time.
She said YES the second time.
None was done in Public.

Go after her best friend she may be your woman

is that a new thing