Sexual Imprinting.

How the people who take our virginity, and the circumstances surrounding the event forever shape our sexuality.

THE IMPRINTED WOMAN.
Ever heard a woman complain that she seems to be attracting only Players and Bad Boys? Or that she seems to attract only married men? Or that she seems to be approached by only a certain type of men? And that no matter how hard she tries to break the pattern, she always finds herself dating the same type of dudes over and over?

That's because of something called the Sexual Imprint.

The type of men a woman keeps falling for, more often than not, is the same type like the man who was her first. The kind of men she has a weakness for, 99% of the times, is the same kind like the man who took her virginity.

Human sexuality is PREDICTABLE that way: Our preferences are forever set by our First. Our first time, both the INDIVIDUAL and the CIRCUMSTANCES set a pattern than we follow for the rest of our life.

THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING A WOMAN'S SEXUAL IMPRINT.
Ever heard of educated and professional women, married to successful respectable men, but who keep cheating with lowlife thugs who are goodfornothing losers? Ever seen those sophisticated polished females with everything going for them, familywise and careerwise, who, for some strange reason keep getting entangled with jailbirds and criminals to the complete embarrassment of their spouses and families? Why do thugs and other scum of Society have such a pull on these ladies? --------------->Because these are the same type and kind of men these ladies gave their virginity to back in their reckless impressionable teenage years. The lowlives IMPRINTED on these women. And the imprint bears its unfailing fruits throughout these ladies' lives.

Women get forever attached to the guy who takes their virginity. If the guy leaves, they gravitate to the guy's type and kind. For the remainder of their lives. A woman deflowered by a Player forever has a weakness for Players. Even if she marries a gentleman, Players will easily make her cheat. To see the type of man a woman gave her virginity to, look at the men she CHEATS with. That's her imprint. Not who she marries. Who she marries is not even her first choice, or second, or third. Who she marries is who she chooses to impress Society and to survive . Not who pushes her buttons and sexually satisfies her. That will be her imprint. Because her imprint determined her sexuality ages back. So after marriage, if a woman cheats, the men she cheats with will follow closely the Player archetype. That's the power of sexual imprinting.

The consensus on the Manosphere is that the imprint doesn't necessarily happen with her first man, but her first 3 men. The type of men a woman's first 3 men are, will be the type of men who'll appeal to her sexually. Even if she doesn't marry that type. But she'll masturbate to it and, more often than not, mentally picture it to orgasm while fvcking her husband, provided he does not fit her imprint, as the majority of husbands don't.

TYPE VS CLASS.
Every woman has her type and her class.

A woman's "class" is her choice of men relative to her social standing or career level. It can be men on her level or men at the higher level that her hypergamous nature aspires to. Class has more to do with resources than anything else. Class is more to impress society and to survive.

While a woman's "type" is the sexual side of the equation. The men who catch her attention and make her vagina tingle. The men she masturbates to and cheats with. That's her type. She may not marry it. And society might not approve if it. The type is her imprint. And it has nothing to do with looks. A woman can say, "That guy is gorgeous, but he ain't my type!".

WHEN YOU MATCH A WOMAN'S IMPRINT.
Ever met a girl and she told you, "You remind me of someone..." Or ever had a girl show you a picture of her Ex and you noticed striking similarities between you and him? (Maybe you're both extremely tall. Or fat). That means she has a TYPE. And you are it.

That type a woman develops directly from sexual imprinting: The first man she had sex with.

Imprinting makes women have a type that they gravitate to time and again. The closer you match your GF's Exes or men she cheats with; the safer you are because you match her imprint. If your girl's Exes are thugs, and you're a church boy, just know she's in uncharted territory with you. She's trying to break the pattern. And more often than not, it won't end well with you. Even if you marry her, thugs will always have something in her.

A WOMAN'S HISTORY IS HER FUTURE.
Who a woman has messed up with can not be discounted. Her past is her future. The men she starts out with are the men her destiny is tied up with. Literally.

Women are receivers. Men are givers. That's why semen goes from men to women and not the other way round. That's why resources go from men to women. That's why love goes from men to women. Life begins with men, women continue it. Men are the Source. Women are empty vessels.

Literally and figuratively.

A woman's pussy is an empty hole that you fill with your Dick. A woman's womb is an empty space that you fill with your baby. Just like her bank account is an empty space you must fill with your money. And her head is an empty space you must fill with knowledge and wisdom.

Women take everything from men. Even character traits and behaviors. A woman who loves a man starts acting and speaking like him. And even looking like him. Because she is taking in his nature. She is receiving from him.

The more natures a woman takes in, from different men, the more her system becomes corrupted. Men hate virgins for the simple reason that they're clingy and become too attached. But it's a good thing. The very thing a woman loses the more men she sleeps with.

Men love sluts and whôrés but lament how sluts and whôrés easily cheat and have a hard time bonding with them emotionally. These men are looking for the living among the dead. What they're looking for can only be found among virgins. Not among whôrés with their numb pussies that have clocked tripple digit dick and to whom 2 rounds of sex no longer counts as sex but pre-intimacy. Definitely no love from numb hearts that have seen so much heartbreak they've hardened to steel. For the more men a woman has dated it means the more breakups she has endured and the more she has learned to harden her heart to make the next breakup less painful. At the end you've a woman who hardly sheds a tear after a man leaves her because she didn't allow herself to really fall in love to begin with. Which is where the majority of modern women are. With the exception of virgins.

THE VALUE OF THE VIRGIN.
Between a non-virgin and virgin it is the virgin who will fulfill your fantasies better.

A virgin's sexuality has not been set.

Like the Earth at the beginning of Genesis, a virgin's sexuality is "without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep." (Genesis 1:2).

While a non-virgin is a clay pot or a vase that has already been shaped and can't change anymore because it's set; a virgin is a lump of clay unshaped, unmoulded and ready to be made into ANYTHING a man desires. The type of sex a virgin will lose her virginity to, will define her sexuality for life. A virgin who loses her virginity in a 3sum will find 3sums her weakness. If she loses her virginity to clean sex her sex life will be clean. If she loses her virginity to freaky shît her sex life will be freaky and shitty. And to make her cross the floor to the other side will be a challenge. She can pretend but secretly she'll search out for the sex that she lost her virginity to. That's how educated and professional women who are sophisticated and polished keep crossing paths with Players, thugs and Bad Boys, because it's these men that these women gave their virginity to as naive careless teens, and bearing that particular imprint, it's only sex with these type of men that will satisfy them. All other sex is duty sex AKA chore sex.

Virgins are pure. Sexually, as well as spiritually.

Spiritual purity here does not mean holy in the Christian sense, but innocence. Virgins are innocent and receptive of new light. That's why long ago God commanded the Israelites to kill all men and non-virgin women after conquering an enemy nation (Numbers 31:17-18). But spare the Virgins. Because 1) virgins were going to bond with the Israelite men who would take their virginity, forever tying the destiny of these heathen virgins with that of the Israelites. And 2) Because virgins are lumps of clay still unmoulded which can be easily shaped into anything. Even outside of sex. It's easier to convert a virgin to your faith, culture and way of life than it is to convert a whôré. Because first of all a virgin still respects men and is willing to submit and learn; while whôrés believe "no man can tell me shît" and "respect is earned" because so many men have let them down. That's the lesson God wanted ancient Israel to learn. The lesson modern men need to learn: Whôrés will convert you. You can't save a whôré. Just ask King Solomon.

Back in the days of our ancestors where tribal wars were the order of the day, young men had to prove themselves as brave warriors in battle to be given a wife, who was a virgin. This way all the women of the tribe carried the imprint of the warrior and never felt any desire whatsoever for weak and cowardly men effectively shutting these men out of sex and procreation to encourage all men to be warriors for the survival of the tribe.

I hear there are indigenous tribes somewhere out there that have their virgins deflowered only by the bravest warriors for the same reason of establishing that Warrior Imprint in their women.

OUR PARENTS ARE OUR FIRST SEXUAL IMPRINT.
Sexual Imprinting is a broad and complex phenomenon that begins well before our first sexual encounter. With our parents. It is our parents who lay the groundwork of all our sexual preferences. It is also this part of sexual imprinting (as opposed to the first sexual encounter part) that the scientific world and mainstream media endorses and promotes: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprinting(psychology)

For obvious reasons Society doesn't talk a lot about how our losing our virginity also imprints us. That would open a can of worms especially concerning women. Who are the most affected by the phenomenon because by nature they're receivers.

HOW PARENTS SEXUALLY IMPRINT ON THEIR CHILDREN.
A young man searches for a woman like his mother. As a little boy he takes his opinion of what a woman should be like, from his momma. Not to say the boy is sexually attracted to his mother, but he gets the visual cues of what a male finds attractive from the female who raises him. If he's a white boy but raised by a black woman, chances are he'll be into Interracial dating. That's a mother sexually imprinting on his son.

There's more.

If the boy's mother was a heavy smoker, chances are the boy will have a fetish and an attraction for women who smoke. If his mother was older when he was born, the boy will find older women attractive; the opposite being true also. Furthermore, the facial dimensions of his lovers if measured will more or less be the same as his mother's facial dimensions.

All these apply to the boy child as well as the girl child.

Read more here: https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2013/3/27/are-we-sexually-attracted-to-people-who-remind-us-of-our-par.html

And watch this YouTube video for more:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wpc9Uu7URGU


So, Your desire to date a woman like your mother, girls have that desire too: To date a man like their father. Consciously or subconsciously. In every man she loves, a girl is always looking for her father - whether a man as good as her Father or a man better than her Father. Even if she never had a father. That idea of what a perfect father must be like, will be the standard with which she'll measure all men she dates. Her Father is ALWAYS her point of reference. Daddy issues or not. Present father or absent father. And all it takes is for a guy to look like her father, or act like him or even dress like him or use the same perfume like him, for the girl to be attracted. Or repelled. It works both ways. A guy who looks too much like her father can either freak her out or draw her closer. Again, that's imprinting. It begins with our parents, both for humans and for animals.

IMPRINTING IN ANIMALS.
When a duck hatches from it's egg, the first and nearest living thing it sees within a certain time-frame it follows thinking that's the mother. If a dog is the first thing a baby duck sees, then the baby duck will follow that dog up and down. When mating time comes, guess what? The duck will seek to mate with dogs. It's a proven science:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2982058/ and

https://poultrykeeper.com/blog/imprinting-ducks-geese/ and

https://www.sparknotes.com/biology/animalbehavior/learning/section3/
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luvyaself95:
yea but in a nutshell. I've dated Three Girls in my life..
first girl = i don't know she like bad boys and she keep me because am a good guy later find out she is pregnant and a LovePeddler back then in the village

second girl = Claiming to be virgin and as a virgin too i was happy to have her so i decided to trust later regret i should have play the bad guy game..

third girl = always says am her type that i behave like her daddy have hair style like him and all others you mentioned...

I may have to read this again with some yanni in the background

The same reason the new girl you're dating always compares everything you do to how her ex( probably the guy who deflowered her) did them. It's a really powerful psychology.

YouTube videos on Sexual Imprinting:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VUT1Rj9Xbv0&itct=CBEQpDAYCCITCOaq9rjGy-MCFdOTVQodVZEFqVIRU2V4dWFsIEltcHJpbnRpbmc%3D&gl=ZA&hl=en&client=mv-google




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnpxSaw5Jwo&itct=CBQQpDAYBSITCOaq9rjGy-MCFdOTVQodVZEFqVIRU2V4dWFsIEltcHJpbnRpbmc%3D&gl=ZA&hl=en&client=mv-google



https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=25s&v=onD7ldxlaO0&itct=CBkQpDAYACITCOaq9rjGy-MCFdOTVQodVZEFqVIRU2V4dWFsIEltcHJpbnRpbmc%3D&gl=ZA&hl=en&client=mv-google




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekH9wbjkfVE&itct=CAwQpDAYDSITCOaq9rjGy-MCFdOTVQodVZEFqVIRU2V4dWFsIEltcHJpbnRpbmc%3D&gl=ZA&hl=en&client=mv-google

ubunja:
yar. And the bad part is they are deflowered by the worst men. So it sets a pattern

Exactly. A girl who was physically assaulted and abused in her earlier relationships has it imprinted in her psyche that's how a man should behave. She therefore sees a caring man as weak and is always attracted to the rough abusive tout guy. Mad stuff.

BLUEJAYY:
Exactly. A girl who was physically assaulted and abused in her earlier relationships has it imprinted in her psyche that's how a man should behave. She therefore sees a caring man as weak and is always attracted to the rough abusive tout guy. Mad stuff.

l wanted to touch on rape and abuse but i was tired.

True. If she lost the virginity to rape, her whole sexual arousal system usually becomes a power thing, where it takes harshness to arouse her. Usually.

Interesting.

i learnt something,

but what am confused about is are you saying if her current boyfreind fvck her in a mind blowing way(every woman treasure good sex), she would still cheat with a not so good in bed guy because that kind of guy deflowered her?

skywalker240:
Interesting.

i learnt something,

but what am confused about is are you saying if her current boyfreind fvck her in a mind blowing way(every woman treasure good sex), she would still cheat with a not so good in bed guy because that kind of guy deflowered her?

The point is, if you don't know the circumstances of her first 3 guys you really are shooting in the dark and doing guesswork.
Eg, if she was deflowered by a much older man, a teenage guy can screw her strong but still there would be something missing because her sexual arousal template is set to older men.

ubunja:

The point is, if you don't know the circumstances of her first 3 guys you really are shooting in the dark and doing guesswork.
Eg, if she was deflowered by a much older man, a teenage guy can screw her strong but still there would be something missing because her sexual arousal template is set to older men.

Okay,

i get it, ...?

. . . . reading

"numb pvssies"! lmao
Ubunja I recommend you for stand-up comedy

more hoes to your crib

Ubunja is no doubt the greatest Nairaland member of this generation and any other Generation.

harry2sexy:
I may have to read this again with some yanni in the background

and to think there's this stripper hoe called Yanni

Just imagining the scenario

Otedola, Bill Gates,Dangote and Adenuga are the class of men who retain that exclusive right to call women gold diggers not a broke cripple Ubunja wey no get wood to be dug.

These men as wealthy as they are have wives. Who you be? That only points to one thing. You dont have a wife because you lack the wherewithal to be a bread winner aka Poor man. You think its easy to have your name taken to the next generation and not the womans SURNAME. Stupid AF. Jobless lazy and broke.

. Girls know older man . equals wishy washy Shrunken dick. No enjoyment. ;DShrunken dick means you have to buy punnah to get some groove. Your pain is you wish you had that money. We are much younger we do the job better hunku. She wont remember anything other than you grunting like an exhausted paedo pig with disgusting grey pubic hairs When i say she, i mean the Maroko based teen age hoes with slacked pvssies with 3 kids at home who you manage to buy sex from once or twice a year being broke and miserably sex starved.

skywalker240:
Interesting.

i learnt something,

but what am confused about is are you saying if her current boyfreind fvck her in a mind blowing way(every woman treasure good sex), she would still cheat with a not so good in bed guy because that kind of guy deflowered her?

This is the same question I wanted to ask, but I am not fully satisfied with the Op's reply.
I think we need to hear the ladies opinion on this issue... before we draw conclusion.

But where are the romanceland ladies?
Why are they avoiding thread like this?

PUSSYHOE:
Ubunja is no doubt the greatest Nairaland member of this generation and any other Generation.

No wonder you are Pussyhoe too much stupidity in one person.

gentlegenius:

This is the same question I wanted to ask, but I am not fully satisfied with the Op's reply.
I think we need to hear the ladies opinion on this issue... before we draw conclusion.

But where are the romanceland ladies?
Why are they avoiding thread like this?

as long you're still waiting for women to tell you what is right and wrong you're still simping. You need to get over confirming things with women. If my answer doesn't satisfy, then ask other Red Pill men. But never women. That era is gone.

Charelsz:
No wonder you are Pussyhoe too much stupidity in one person.

that's a loser's response


A real G would express his own opinion and we discuss it like people with heads.

Charelsz:
No wonder you are Pussyhoe too much stupidity in one person.

gentlegenius:

This is the same question I wanted to ask, but I am not fully satisfied with the Op's reply.
I think we need to hear the ladies opinion on this issue... before we draw conclusion.

But where are the romanceland ladies?
Why are they avoiding thread like this?

Dont bother, you will never get an answer from them, except maybe for missreine69 the others hate unbuja with glorious passion, sentiments are their judge if they were to comment. So its dead on arrival.

ubunja:
that's a loser's response


A real G would express his own opinion and we discuss it like people with heads.

Did I post to you? Attention seeking cunt.

Charelsz:
Did I post to you? Attention seeking cunt.

Express your view not your emotions

ubunja:
as long you're still waiting for women to tell you what is right and wrong you're still simping. You need to get over confirming things with women. If my answer doesn't satisfy, then ask other Red Pill men. But never women. That era is gone.

Actually, I agree with most of the points you raised here, but I beg to disagree with the main point of your post - that a woman's sexual preference(type of man) depends solely on the kind of man that deflowered her.
God created sex for two reasons: pleasure and conception. Most women were deflowered in their teen age, and at that stage of life, every sane young girl will decide to have sex because she wants pleasure, money or both from a man. Even when a girl consciously have sex for money, her number one emotional need at that moment is to be fully satisfied sexually. Emotions dominates our subconscious minds and dictates how certain programs are imprinted therein. Based on this fact, it is not the kind of guy that deflowered a girl that got imprinted in her subconscious mind, rather, it is the kind of guy that gives a girl her first orgasm. Of course, not all sexual intercourse results in orgasm. Research has shown that majority of women don't achieve orgasm at their first sexual experience. This is due to several factor that cant be discussed here right now.
There are women who lost their virginity to rapists, criminals, kidnappers etc. You cannot tell me that such women, in their right senses will keep falling for these unworthy set of men or call them her type, just because a certain son of a bitch deflowered her. Almost every lady I know, that got deflowered through rape or blackmail, hates to remember the kind of men who victimized them. I know a girl who hates all men in my community just because someone from my community once raped her. We were good friends on Facebook, but she quickly unfriend me the moment she realised that I hail from the same community with the idiot who raped her.
Women are highly emotional in nature, and their subconscious mind treasures every pleasurable experience that satisfied their emotional needs, while abhorring every experience that ruins a their chances of satisfying their emotional needs. This means that if you deflower a girl, and make that experience very painful for her instead of pleasurable, her conscious mind will hate to remember such experience, thereby making it almost impossible for you and your type to be imprinted in her subconscious mind. But if I meet that same lady, sleep with her and help her to reach the peak of sexual satisfaction for the first time in her life, her conscious mind will keep repeating the thoughts about that pleasurable experience, making it very easy for me, who gave her that experience to get imprinted in her subconscious mind. This is why some women who got their first orgasm through intimacy gadgets still use intimacy gadgets even after marriage. Repetition of thoughts is the simplest way to get an idea imprinted in our subconscious minds. People only repeat pleasurable thoughts in their minds, not painful thoughts. In most cases, deflowering a girl is a painful experience.

gentlegenius:

Actually, I agree with most of the points you raised here, but I beg to disagree with the main point of your post - that a woman's sexual preference(type of man) depends solely on the kind of man that deflowered her.
God created sex for two reasons: pleasure and conception. Most women were deflowered in their teen age, and at that stage of life, every sane young girl will decide to have sex because she wants pleasure, money or both from a man. Even when a girl consciously have sex for money, her number one emotional need at that moment is to be fully satisfied sexually. Emotions dominates our subconscious minds and dictates how certain programs are imprinted therein. Based on this fact, it is not the kind of guy that deflowered a girl that got imprinted in her subconscious mind, rather, it is the kind of guy that gives a girl her first orgasm. Of course, not all sexual intercourse results in orgasm. Research has shown that majority of women don't achieve orgasm at their first sexual experience. This is due to several factor that cant be discussed here right now.
There are women who lost their virginity to rapists, criminals, kidnappers etc. You cannot tell me that such women, in their right senses will keep falling for these unworthy set of men or call them her type, just because a certain son of a bitch deflowered her. Almost every lady I know, that got deflowered through rape or blackmail, hates to remember the kind of men who victimized them. I know a girl who hates all men in my community just because someone from my community once raped her. We were good friends on Facebook, but she quickly unfriend me the moment she realised that I hail from the same community with the idiot who raped her.
Women are highly emotional in nature, and their subconscious mind treasures every pleasurable experience that satisfied their emotional needs, while abhorring every experience that ruins a their chances of satisfying their emotional needs. This means that if you deflower a girl, and make that experience very painful for her instead of pleasurable, her conscious mind will hate to remember such experience, thereby making it almost impossible for you and your type to be imprinted in her subconscious mind. But if I meet that same lady, sleep with her and help her to reach the peak of sexual satisfaction for the first time in her life, her conscious mind will keep repeating the thoughts about that pleasurable experience, making it very easy for me, who gave her that experience to get imprinted in her subconscious mind. This is why some women who got their first orgasm through intimacy gadgets still use intimacy gadgets even after marriage. Repetition of thoughts is the simplest way to get an idea imprinted in our subconscious minds. People only repeat pleasurable thoughts in their minds, not painful thoughts. In most cases, deflowering a girl is a painful experience.

Have you ever deflowered a virgin before?

ubunja:
Have you ever deflowered a virgin before?

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Akinbahm:

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these guys do theory. Some of these concepts they know from a distance. Then form conclusions that have nothing to do with reality.

ubunja:
these guys do theory. Some of these concepts they know from a distance. Then form conclusions that have nothing to do with reality.

waiting for is reply...

ubunja:

Have you ever deflowered a virgin before?

JAMB question

true talk but it is hard now to find a virgin even most of this secondary school teenagers are not, men want to wife virgin's, any tip on how to find one?

fcdgrand:
true talk but it is hard now to find a virgin even most of this secondary school teenagers are not, men want to wife virgin's, any tip on how to find one?

I'm not sure I can give any. But church is a good place to start, Even tho there are reformed virgins you're bound to find a few real ones.

But virgins are everywhere. Search on Social Media