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Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 9:48pm On Jul 31
If u check my last thread you'll see I talked about this girl bringing love that I wasn't ready, I haven't asked her out but I thought I could grow some feelings after she came all on me so I decided to oblige and have sex with her, note I didn't force or asked for it but she initiated it.

The issue now is I'm regretting it and I don't have a single feeling for her, my problem now is I don't know what to do and I don't wanna hurt her.
Pls I need good advice her.



PS: she works close to my office so avoiding her won't be plausible


Thanks landers
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by echibuogwu(m): 9:51pm On Jul 31
Stop picking her calls regularly, limit the attention u give to her, always bring up excuses not to b around her. Only she go use her head avoid u but she will b hurt sha ooo

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by catwalq(f): 9:51pm On Jul 31
You were told to let her be but you didn't, meaning if you're advised again,you still won't adhere.

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by missimelda01(f): 9:52pm On Jul 31
You'll hurt her more if you don't tell her now.

Take out her out for lunch and talk to her like a man that you are, she'll understand.. if she doesn't, give her some space.. with time everything will fade.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by BUSINESSARENAA(m): 9:53pm On Jul 31
Give her your salary account ATM and the PIN, Then leave her, trust me she won't feel your absence.
Nonsense and Rubbish.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 9:54pm On Jul 31
catwalq:
You were told to let her be but you didn't, meaning if you're advised again,you still won't adhere.
I don't know what to type, I really wish she didn't come
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 9:56pm On Jul 31
missimelda01:
You'll hurt her more if you don't tell her now.

Take out her out for lunch and talk to her like a man that you are, she'll understand.. if she doesn't, give her some space.. with time everything will fade.
I'll try but this one she'll be seeing me at work I pray she understands
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by greatnaija01: 10:20pm On Jul 31
stop doing like someone who doesnt know whatsup....

find out what TURNS GIRLS LIKE HER OFF... Find out what she HATES.... THEN DO IT... its so simple.

-get another girl that you LIKE.... show her off infront of this girl
-dont give her attention anymore AND Never apologize.
-NEVER listen to her or take her advice.
-If she asks you if you like something always go for the opposite


SEE, if you do it well... ONE of two things will happen... either SHE WILL DUMP YOU AND HATE YOU FOR A WHILE or YOU WILL FALL IN LOVE WITH HER FOR LOVING YOU DESPITE ALL.

clive2u:
If u check my last thread you'll see I talked about this girl bringing love that I wasn't ready, I haven't asked her out but I thought I could grow some feelings after she came all on me so I decided to oblige and have sex with her, note I didn't force or asked for it but she initiated it.

The issue now is I'm regretting it and I don't have a single feeling for her, my problem now is I don't know what to do and I don't wanna hurt her.
Pls I need good advice her.



PS: she works close to my office so avoiding her won't be plausible


Thanks landers
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by Isha327(f): 11:29pm On Jul 31
Why did u have sex with her in d first place when u have no feelings for her. sad

Guys ehn
I 'll rip off ur d**k if I were her abi if she was me ni sad
Don't let me make blunders jare
tongue
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by frankkydee: 11:35pm On Jul 31
clive2u:
If u check my last thread you'll see I talked about this girl bringing love that I wasn't ready, I haven't asked her out but I thought I could grow some feelings after she came all on me so I decided to oblige and have sex with her, note I didn't force or asked for it but she initiated it.

The issue now is I'm regretting it and I don't have a single feeling for her, my problem now is I don't know what to do and I don't wanna hurt her.
Pls I need good advice her.



PS: she works close to my office so avoiding her won't be plausible


Thanks landers














But why do people that someone that loves them for granted and go for someone that doesn't love them as such?
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 12:01am On Aug 01
Display the "I've been extremely busy" attitude and only show up to fvck her. Act cold when you're with her. She'll get the message.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by lilmax(m): 12:07am On Aug 01
I don't really know

but know this, if she was in your position She'll drop you like a used condom

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 6:38am On Aug 01
frankkydee:
you'll understand when someone u don't love falls for u














But why do people that someone that loves them for granted and go for someone that doesn't love them as such?
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 6:40am On Aug 01
lilmax:
I don't really know

but know this, if she was in your position She'll drop you like a used condom
probably but I still don't want her to be really hurt
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 6:40am On Aug 01
stefanbanach:
Display the "I've been extremely busy" attitude and only show up to fvck her. Act cold when you're with her. She'll get the message.
fvcking her again will make it hard for her don't u think
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by shege45: 6:42am On Aug 01
Isha327:
Why did u have sex with her in d first place when u have no feelings for her. sad

Guys ehn
I 'll rip off ur d**k if I were her abi if she was me ni sad
Don't let me make blunders jare
tongue
having sex doesn’t mean you must have feelings or you date the person. Sex is just sex
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by Truthsbitter: 7:10am On Aug 01
Just leave...
have you seen girls care about guys when they leave or reject a guy, even when it's public proposal grin (they would've had sex with the guy, squander his life savings but they would say "it wasn't by force" knowing they were not really in love"wink...
pity will only make matters worst for you. but make sure you don't promise marriage anytime you date girls , unless you just want to fvck her by all means and dump her lerra.. grin
no matter what the case may be, always treat women good, but never be forced to stay in a relationship with any woman. angry

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 7:11am On Aug 01
Isha327:
Why did u have sex with her in d first place when u have no feelings for her. sad

Guys ehn
I 'll rip off ur d**k if I were her abi if she was me ni sad
Don't let me make blunders jare
tongue
she brought it, I never had the intention to have sex with her yet
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by omale88(m): 8:10am On Aug 01
clive2u:
If u check my last thread you'll see I talked about this girl bringing love that I wasn't ready, I haven't asked her out but I thought I could grow some feelings after she came all on me so I decided to oblige and have sex with her, note I didn't force or asked for it but she initiated it.

The issue now is I'm regretting it and I don't have a single feeling for her, my problem now is I don't know what to do and I don't wanna hurt her.
Pls I need good advice her.
But guy why? Why didn't you just avoid her or at worst tell her you are sorry for not having same feelings towards her? There is no two ways about it,either way she would still be hurt because you ended a nice relationship she thought she had,now you had sex with her,giving the impression that you are not just attracted to her but sexually attracted to her, you want to call it quits without hurting her,oya na just buy her a Porsche and tell her its a parting gift for her if its easy?you wicked Sha, just know its almost impossible to get off this without any grudge.



PS: she works close to my office so avoiding her won't be plausible


Thanks landers
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by oyatmicah(m): 9:16am On Aug 01
play her "OMATENA" by Solid Star
Thank me later
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by generationz(f): 11:36am On Aug 01
Isha327:
Why did u have sex with her in d first place when u have no feelings for her. sad

Guys ehn
I 'll rip off ur d**k if I were her abi if she was me ni sad
Don't let me make blunders jare
tongue

I'm a lady but it is very good for her.

Next time she will learn her lesson to allow a man ask her out first before she starts forming love.

It never ends well the other way around.

If Mugu fall guyman must chop.

The best a lady can do is give signals and remain friendly.

Most manly guys wont admit it but it's actually a turn off to be directly chased by a girl.

Except the guy is a Dusty, effeminate or has hidden intentions.

She is lucky this one is willing to dump her quickly some guys will chop your body, food, money, call you baby and still dump you after two years.

When you cry they be like "I didn't ask you out na."
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 11:39am On Aug 01
generationz:


I'm a lady but it is very good for her.

Next time she will learn her lesson to allow a man ask her out first before she starts forming love.

It never ends well the other way around.

If Mugu fall guyman must chop.

The best a lady can do is give signals and remain friendly.

Most manly guys wont admit it but it's actually a turn off to be directly chased by a girl.

Except the guy is a Dusty, effeminate or has hidden intentions.
you're so right, this is my second kinda relationship a girl came to me, the first girl still hate me till now. I love it when a girl gives me tough time

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by generationz(f): 11:41am On Aug 01
Truthsbitter:
Just leave...
have you seen girls care about guys when they leave or reject a guy, even when it's public proposal grin (they would've had sex with the guy, squander his life savings but they would say "it wasn't by force" knowing they were not really in love"wink...
pity will only make matters worst for you. but make sure you don't promise marriage anytime you date girls , unless you just want to fvck her by all means and dump her lerra.. grin
no matter what the case may be, always treat women good, but never be forced to stay in a relationship with any woman. angry

You are contradicting yourself.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by generationz(f): 11:43am On Aug 01
clive2u:
If u check my last thread you'll see I talked about this girl bringing love that I wasn't ready, I haven't asked her out but I thought I could grow some feelings after she came all on me so I decided to oblige and have sex with her, note I didn't force or asked for it but she initiated it.

The issue now is I'm regretting it and I don't have a single feeling for her, my problem now is I don't know what to do and I don't wanna hurt her.
Pls I need good advice her.



PS: she works close to my office so avoiding her won't be plausible


Thanks landers

Op you are not a sincere person. Check your heart well.

You created a topic and still went on to have sex with her without following the advice there.


I'm sure you only created that topic to boost your male ego that a girl is checking you.

Same reason you created this one.

If you really wanted to break up with her you would have done so since.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by Jpapexjunior: 11:44am On Aug 01
By letting her be from d on set
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by bigpriik: 11:44am On Aug 01
This is so pathetic when women want to breakup with you they do it straightaway without thinking about it they don't even care about your feelings but men will be asking foolish questions s.m.h.

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Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 11:46am On Aug 01
generationz:


Op you are not a sincere person. Check your heart well.

You created a topic and still went on to have sex with her without following the advice there.


I'm sure you only created that topic to boost your male ego that a girl is checking you.

Same reason you created this one.

If you really wanted to break up with her you would have done so since.
that's what u think bro, but what do I gain from ego? Nada
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by generationz(f): 11:49am On Aug 01
clive2u:
you're so right, this is my second kinda relationship a girl came to me, the first girl still hate me till now. I love it when a girl gives me a tough time

You will have to grow up then and stop looking for the feelings that come with proving your manhood and look at the quality of the person you are dating.

We are not living in the '50s anymore.

Most girls today hardly give tough times to a guy they like. Now that sex is easy it's even easier.

Chances are if a lady is playing hard to get 70% of the time she is not into you and WIll NEVER BE.

If I'm lying tell me how your relationships we're you professed mad love to the girl faired?
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by generationz(f): 11:50am On Aug 01
clive2u:
that's what u think bro, but what do I gain from ego? Nada

I'm a lady.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by paix(m): 11:54am On Aug 01
bigpriik:
This is so pathetic when women want to breakup with you they do it straightaway without thinking about it they don't even care about your feelings but men will be asking foolish questions s.m.h.
You're talking like an ALPHA MALE. I like associating with people like you.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 11:54am On Aug 01
generationz:


You will have to grow up then and stop looking for the feelings that come with proving your manhood and look at the quality of the person you are dating.

We are not living in the '50s anymore.

Most girls today hardly give tough times to a guy they like. Now that sex is easy it's even easier.

Chances are if a lady is playing hard to get 70% of the time she is not into you and WIll NEVER BE.

If I'm lying tell me how your relationships we're you professed mad love to the girl faired?
most of them dumped me some just died a natural death.
Re: Please How Do I Leave A Girl Without Hurting Her? by clive2u(m): 11:59am On Aug 01
generationz:


I'm a lady.
my apologies, I didn't check

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