Amakavula:
Go and make money and stop complaining about.

Womenareape:
your type can open leg for just 20 naira!

@op! Don't follow this creatures called naija women!

They have nothing to offer apart from there onions smelly pusssay!

Find a foreign woman and they will love you for who you are and nothing but love!


Leave those black female baboons alone.

IamPlato:
Why You Talking Like sense Is Missing... What Is Wrong With A Girl Bringing The Money? Una no Sabi Bring Money but You Won Collect.


I Hope Your Boyfriend Is Not On Nairaland, he Should Run Because You Are An Instigator Of Fake Love

luminouz:

Lol,seems to me that you are attracted to the wrong men.
What are the attributes you like in a man physically? If you're into the body and less into the mind,you might get hurt. Sometimes who makes us happy might not be flashy or outwardly catchy but yet they are always there. You just need to calm down and observe more.
You have said nice things about yourself...but how do I or any other guy confirm? If you're that good,why even one of those guys will pause before jilting you. Look deeper Darling, is there something you do that pisses/chases them off?

All the points are based on physical and not spiritual assumptions.

Isha327:
So we are to look for a foreign girl for u abi...

Alwaysking:
Any other foreign girls I can try because it seems this generation of girls are born leeches

carter009:
True, people don't just love yoy for who you are, is only what they will get, relationships here is not worth it, there's this guy living near my street, he married an Asia woman from South Korea, they have two lovely kids together, she's young and pretty,, people envy them a lot,, he met her when he traveled to South Korea for business deal,,he's a business man who imports clothes. he said she sacrificed a lot for him when the are dating, and he loved her so much, he said most Nigerian girls are all after your money, they cheat a lot, bleeping from one guy to other, he said he knows that cheating in relationships is everywhere all over they world, but naija own is they worst.

Womenareape:
naija women are naturally low self esteemed black creatures.

She want someone good to come her way but she is as rotten as an egg!

carter009:
Lol, una no deserve foreign guys.

carter009:
True, people don't just love yoy for who you are, is only what they will get, relationships here is not worth it, there's this guy living near my street, he married an Asia woman from South Korea, they have two lovely kids together, she's young and pretty,, people envy them a lot,, he met her when he traveled to South Korea for business deal,,he's a business man who imports clothes. he said she sacrificed a lot for him when the are dating, and he loved her so much, he said most Nigerian girls are all after your money, they cheat a lot, bleeping from one guy to other, he said he knows that cheating in relationships is everywhere all over they world, but naija own is they worst.

carter009:
Please stop, why all this Harsh words on my sister...

AkataWoman:


I’m not saying it’s right but the Nigerian culture kinda created a situation where women must look to a man for money. What options does she have to earn her own. In the west women can provide for themselves so they seek more than money from a partner. They’re more concerned with love, companionship and the things money can’t buy. A man is a partner-not a lifeline or your only way to eat or get what you want financially.

Womenareape:
I guess this is a punishment for you!

At young age you most have friendzone your Mr right and give your pusssay to Mr useless!

You are now reaping what you sow!

Womenareape:
I guess this is a punishment for you!

At young age you most have friendzone your Mr right and give your pusssay to Mr useless!

You are now reaping what you sow!

DanXplore:
LMAO.

It is sad but true that majority of nigerian girls in the dating scene are opportunists that cannot be trusted (especially those within ages 17 to 25 from my own perspective). It is becoming so apparent and appalling to be ignored. I really thank God for the gift of '6th sense' with which I easily discern 'gold diggers/potential gold diggers' just by conversing and interecting with them for at most a few weeks. There is just something about their outlook and ideologies that exposes them - this isn't about judging a book by its cover. It is even so pathetic that most of the aforesaid ladies are often so dull and uncreative in their approach that they keep using the same format all the time i.e. trying to form sophisticated initially, next is to make very harmless looking requests to test the waters and If you succumb, they gradually raise the magnitude of their demands. On the other hand if you do not succumb, they switch to emotional black mail/guilt-trip. Popular among the guilt-trip approach is to either conciously call you broke just to perhaps challenge your feeble mind or as a subconcious response expressing their frustration for not falling for their antics. This I have observed severally on nairaland and even among my peers.

In truth, some guys just need someone they can trust. Someone they can confidently kiss without reservation, knowing that the person loves him in spirit and truth. Such girls are rare and are becoming endangered. We need to find a way of locating the few ones and preserve them

A genuine girl who has earned a guy's trust will in most cases (say 95%) have access to the guy's resources but the irony is that whatever resources the guy might have means nothing to such a lady of virtue. It is just extremely difficult and perhaps impossible to fake genuineness and integrity at least for a given period of time. This is why gold diggers and fake people in general are easy to spot if one is watchful and patient enough. One thing I have learnt is that time is a revealer. Time is the acid-test for character and motives. No price should be too small to pay for seiving the wheat of genuine people - in this case, lady from tars - in this case, gold diggers

In my interactions, I have met just one lady (about a decade ago) who I can vouch that loves from her heart of hearts. She is an embodiment of virture and grace. The world would be at its best with people like her in it (lol). I blew my chance and will never forgive myself for letting her slip away. I consider it my greatest misfortune.

Just to balance things up, this is not to say nigerian guys are excellent. I am only talking from a man's point of view because i am one.

Logobenz0:
If you want to enjoy your relationship or get a better wife. Please go to foreing countries and find a foreign woman to date or marry. and leave this bunch of bleaching, lazy broke ass girls we have in this country. They're very Useless

Amakavula:


Can I be honest with you?

No girl in this life would love you for who you are only what you are. What value do you bring to the table?
Even your mum loves you because you're her child. Stop dreaming dear. Find a babe that respects you at least, but you will spend small Las Las ..

AkataWoman:


I’m not saying it’s right but the Nigerian culture kinda created a situation where women must look to a man for money What options does she have to earn her own. In the west women can provide for themselves so they seek more than money from a partner They’re more concerned with love, companionship and the things money can’t buy. A man is a partner-not a lifeline or your only way to eat or get what you want financially.

Logobenz0:
That's why most of you in this country haven't married yet. Money money money money. Go and hustle and support your man. [b] Look at South Africa girls and Kenya girls. Fvck [/b]you and your money, they only need your love. Not some lazy broke ass girls we have in this country.

JjBankys:
South Africans don't like Nigerians

when it comes to gold diggers, no one beat Kenya women.

JERRY1925:


A woman was not ment to love... But to submit to you.
Create and atmosphere to which she can submit to you. That's all you need.

DanXplore:


I strongly disagree. Submission is a woman's way of 4 love while provision and protection are men's way - even children show love in their own innocent and simple way. Saying women are not meant to show love sounds ridiculous to me because humans irrespective of age, gender and race are love-beings. Rather, i think it is more appropriate to say both genders show love in different ways.

AkataWoman:


I’m not saying it’s right but the Nigerian culture kinda created a situation where women must look to a man for money What options does she have to earn her own. In the west women can provide for themselves so they seek more than money from a partner. They’re more concerned with love, companionship and the things money can’t buy. A man is a partner-not a lifeline or your only way to eat or get what you want financially.