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Never Compare Yourself To Others by Petlizjudith(f): 12:02pm On Aug 06, 2019
"NEVER FALL INTO THE TRAP OF COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS,EVERYONE IS FIGHTING SILENT BATTLES WE KNOW NOTHING ABOUT,AND NO ONE HAS FULLY ARRIVED''-Leslie Tucker

If you compare yourself to others,you may become vain and bitter,there will always be greater and lesser persons than yourself.Stop comparing yourself to other people,you could go further if you focused on your own unique gifts rather than getting stuck on what others do better than you.It's time to stop comparing and start doing ,you got where you are today on your own merit,so you don't need to worry about anyone else.
You are not them,comparing yourself to others means you compare what you see in others to what you know about yourself.Things always look better from the outside than they do from the inside,people often put up a good front,making themselves look better to the world than they feel inside.

Life is enough,stop comparing yourself to others,enjoy your life without comparing it with that of another.If you took the strengths of others and compared them to your weaknesses,how do you think you'd size up?,do you think it will make you feel good?.
When we focus on other people,we lose time that we could otherwise invest in ourselves.Instead of wasting time comparing your path to someone else's,spend it investing,creating,and caring for yourself.

You have to accept where you are because you can't change something you don't acknowledge,don't resist or fight where and what you are,come to peace with it,say yes to every part of your life and from that place,make decisions that will move you in the right direction.
Your life might have being messy and bumpy,it might have being colored by mistakes,anxiety and fear.But all those things were catalysts to help you become a better,wiser and more courageous version of yourself.So embrace your story and how much you have grown from it.

We tend to compare our behind the scenes with someone else's big moment,we tend to focus on their success,not on the thousands of hours they have spent preparing and working for their achievement.Instead of letting other people's triumphs be a time to get down on yourself,let it be a door opener to possibilities.Let it be an inspiration for what you can be,do and have in life.
Comparing yourself to people ain't sexy at all,it brings nothing but negativity and lack of self esteem,and it's never usually a productive or positive thing to do.

Re: Never Compare Yourself To Others by Ajoboss(m): 12:05pm On Aug 06, 2019
Petlizjudith:
"NEVER FALL INTO THE TRAP OF COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS,EVERYONE IS FIGHTING SILENT BATTLES WE KNOW NOTHING ABOUT,AND NO ONE HAS FULLY ARRIVED''-Leslie Tucker

If you compare yourself to others,you may become vain and bitter,there will always be greater and lesser persons than yourself.Stop comparing yourself to other people,you could go further if you focused on your own unique gifts rather than getting stuck on what others do better than you.It's time to stop comparing and start doing ,you got where you are today on your own merit,so you don't need to worry about anyone else.
You are not them,comparing yourself to others means you compare what you see in others to what you know about yourself.Things always look better from the outside than they do from the inside,people often put up a good front,making themselves look better to the world than they feel inside.

Life is enough,stop comparing yourself to others,enjoy your life without comparing it with that of another.If you took the strengths of others and compared them to your weaknesses,how do you think you'd size up?,do you think it will make you feel good?.
When we focus on other people,we lose time that we could otherwise invest in ourselves.Instead of wasting time comparing your path to someone else's,spend it investing,creating,and caring for yourself.

You have to accept where you are because you can't change something you don't acknowledge,don't resist or fight where and what you are,come to peace with it,say yes to every part of your life and from that place,make decisions that will move you in the right direction.
Your life might have being messy and bumpy,it might have being colored by mistakes,anxiety and fear.But all those things were catalysts to help you become a better,wiser and more courageous version of yourself.So embrace your story and how much you have grown from it.

We tend to compare our behind the scenes with someone else's big moment,we tend to focus on their success,not on the thousands of hours they have spent preparing and working for their achievement.Instead of letting other people's triumphs be a time to get down on yourself,let it be a door opener to possibilities.Let it be an inspiration for what you can be,do and have in life.
Comparing yourself to people ain't sexy at all,it brings nothing but negativity and lack of self esteem,and it's never usually a productive or positive thing to do.
nice words OP...
D best is to be d best u DAT u can be..
Quit d victims mentally...
Front page worthy..
Anyways OP,ur sister is fine sha

Re: Never Compare Yourself To Others by ndat(m): 3:03pm On Aug 06, 2019
permission to use this for a paper presentation...
Re: Never Compare Yourself To Others by mrpoul(m): 6:31am On Aug 07, 2019
ndat:
permission to use this for a paper presentation...
permission granted

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Re: Never Compare Yourself To Others by ndat(m): 4:53pm On Aug 08, 2019
thanks

soliciting for more tips, I'm preparing for seminar presentation on the topic; "determinants of depression and alarming rate of suicide".
I will classifies this one under lack of contentment as one of the determinant.

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