ubunja:

Are you aware that in the good old days a man would give his very life for a woman he didn't even know? And do it with honor and pride.


Now I can't even take a pinch for a girl I love.

MiztaBobiGentle:


This is suppose to be something of just common sense. If I could help people when I have the opportunity to do so, would making my mum happier be an issue to me? Incase it didn't happen in your own case, I actually learnt the habbit of giving and helping people from my parents.

franchasng:
my own problem with ladies is, we now have so many Nigerian ladies who are doing well financially but I tell you, a Nigerian lady will rather die than help a man who is not her husband financially.

Go to USA, Canada, UK, etc there are hundreds of Nigerian ladies who are single and have no serious boyfriends, but they will rather die single than return back to Nigeria to meet a struggling Nigerian guy and marry and help him migrate to those countries. Instead they will give one million excuses why they cannot do it.

But despite the bad things Nigerian ladies have been doing to Nigerian guys who brought them abroad, Nigerian guys still come back home to marry broke, poor Nigerian ladies and transform their lives and help them travel abroad to start a better life there as couple, something Nigerian ladies will rather die than do reason u have so many old single Nigerian ladies in US, UK, Canada, etc.


Helping Nigerian ladies is a waste of time for any sensible man, unless God convinced you to help her, if not don't do it because they are not worth it at all because again if they were in your shoes and you are in their shoes, they will never notice you nor help you.

Nigerian guys wake up, don't let sex drive push you into helping any Lady u see, help men and women when God or your inner spirit pushes you to help not just ladies.

Help older women instead not these young wicked ladies of our time

ubunja:
that's what OP doesn't know. He's too hung up enjoying that sweet feeling of helping a woman to think straight. He's addicted to that high. That validation.

franchasng:
Continue helping ladies, as you grow and advance in business or career or whatever you do, you will get to realize how foolish you were helping those that never needed your help.

Most ladies you are helping will never notice you talk more of helping you if you were in their shoes and they were in your shoes.

Our ladies are selfish, wicked and close minded, you need to learn to be like them to excel in this present world.

Fountainofyouth:



You just described the kind of girls I was talking about,
1) They are still babies in the dating or relationship game as regards their age.
2) All they want is money.

Reason why I said it depends on the kind of ladies you encounter.

highpriestess:
Smh.
Our men have finally lost it.
See hating, as if they are any better.
Op, God will continue to bless you as you help the needy without anything attached.

AstroG:



Who called you here,comon gerrrahia here

AstroG:



Who called you here,comon gerrrahia here

MiztaBobiGentle:


That slap sha would have really fit your face more. So that your mindset will reset

highpriestess:

You should learn to know the people you ought to be rolling with.
Stay on your lane, make your comments and let others make theirs.

Respect your age. Bye.

PUSSYHOE:
Weren't most women once like that

MiztaBobiGentle:


Am very sorry bro but I just realized I don't roll in your kind of circle. Probably that is why I'm continuously blessed. Only very reasonable people get to understand the message being passed and for you all full of hate for Nigerian ladies I still wonder if you have met all the ladies in the full Nigeria that you just confidently generalize them as thesame. And I should also ask you a question. If you have sisters, are you trying to tell me that your sisters or female relatives are among these same set of Nigerian girls you believe are in the category you have put all ladies?

Fountainofyouth:



Tell me the percentage of MOST women you've met before typing a baseless assumption.

franchasng:
I do not expect any overzealous strange guy to go helping my sisters, if I ever catch you, I won't even take it lightly with you because you may end up being beaten or shot secretly, so be careful not all ladies you see need your pretentious help.

If you want to help, help people who are truly in need not just random ladies u are planning to bed in future.

If you want to help, start a business startup fund raising for small business startups targeting youths from poor or disadvantaged family backgrounds.

You can start a program to be paying widows in your Church monthly or annually.

You can visit hospitals, a lot of patients are dying because they cannot afford healthcare bills, help them pay their hospital bills.

Visit inmates in various prisons donate food and drugs to them.

Do same for motherless children homes.

We also have aged people homes that need your help.

Leave ladies alone. Stop pretending to be a good Samaritan when you alone know you have ulterior motive to achieve in future by helping ladies.

If you care to know, I run a foundation that does some of the aforementioned things, and I am working hard to expand my reach so more people in need can benefit from it but you see all these selfish wicked ladies expecting guys to splash money on them for free, I cannot give to them, never because they are selfish, and wicked.

My Reason:
If ladies were in guy's shoes, they won't help. I cited examples for you with our ladies living abroad and even those doing well financially in Nigeria, they don't help guys, so learn from them.

I use to be selfless to ladies but I realized ladies are cunning, selfish and wicked. They don't help guys as much as guys help them, it is bad, I can't condone it.


You can continue with your largesse Mr nice man

PUSSYHOE:
Atleast you finish sec school the ladies you described are young ladies and i said weren't most if not all were once like that(young) and exhibited the traits you mention.

Sorry to ask are you dyslexic.

Orhevus:
Guy you are full of wisdom, this is what should be encouraged

MiztaBobiGentle:


Am very sorry bro but I just realized I don't roll in your kind of circle. Probably that is why I'm continuously blessed. Only very reasonable people get to understand the message being passed and for you all full of hate for Nigerian ladies I still wonder if you have met all the ladies in the full Nigeria that you just confidently generalize them as thesame. And I should also ask you a question. If you have sisters, are you trying to tell me that your sisters or female relatives are among these same set of Nigerian girls you believe are in the category you have put all ladies?

franchasng:
I do not expect any overzealous strange guy to go helping my sisters, if I ever catch you, I won't even take it lightly with you because you may end up being beaten or shot secretly, so be careful not all ladies you see need your pretentious help.

If you want to help, help people who are truly in need not just random ladies u are planning to bed in future.

If you want to help, start a business startup fund raising for small business startups targeting youths from poor or disadvantaged family backgrounds.

You can start a program to be paying widows in your Church monthly or annually.

You can visit hospitals, a lot of patients are dying because they cannot afford healthcare bills, help them pay their hospital bills.

Visit inmates in various prisons donate food and drugs to them.

Do same for motherless children homes.

We also have aged people homes that need your help.

Leave ladies alone. Stop pretending to be a good Samaritan when you alone know you have ulterior motive to achieve in future by helping ladies.

If you care to know, I run a foundation that does some of the aforementioned things, and I am working hard to expand my reach so more people in need can benefit from it but you see all these selfish wicked ladies expecting guys to splash money on them for free, I cannot give to them, never because they are selfish, and wicked.

My Reason:
If ladies were in guy's shoes, they won't help. I cited examples for you with our ladies living abroad and even those doing well financially in Nigeria, they don't help guys, so learn from them.

I use to be selfless to ladies but I realized ladies are cunning, selfish and wicked. They don't help guys as much as guys help them, it is bad, I can't condone it.


You can continue with your largesse Mr nice man

franchasng:
I do not expect any overzealous strange guy to go helping my sisters, if I ever catch you, I won't even take it lightly with you because you may end up being beaten or shot secretly, so be careful not all ladies you see need your pretentious help.

If you want to help, help people who are truly in need not just random ladies u are planning to bed in future.

If you want to help, start a business startup fund raising for small business startups targeting youths from poor or disadvantaged family backgrounds.

You can start a program to be paying widows in your Church monthly or annually.

You can visit hospitals, a lot of patients are dying because they cannot afford healthcare bills, help them pay their hospital bills.

Visit inmates in various prisons donate food and drugs to them.

Do same for motherless children homes.

We also have aged people homes that need your help.

Leave ladies alone. Stop pretending to be a good Samaritan when you alone know you have ulterior motive to achieve in future by helping ladies.

If you care to know, I run a foundation that does some of the aforementioned things, and I am working hard to expand my reach so more people in need can benefit from it but you see all these selfish wicked ladies expecting guys to splash money on them for free, I cannot give to them, never because they are selfish, and wicked.

My Reason:
If ladies were in guy's shoes, they won't help. I cited examples for you with our ladies living abroad and even those doing well financially in Nigeria, they don't help guys, so learn from them.

I use to be selfless to ladies but I realized ladies are cunning, selfish and wicked. They don't help guys as much as guys help them, it is bad, I can't condone it.


You can continue with your largesse Mr nice man

MiztaBobiGentle:


You are complicating issues for yourself. Why are you protecting the sisters you are calling wicked and selfish because obviously you believe they are in the same category as other people's sisters as well. Of what good is the help you are giving to orphans and widows with hate in your heart for ladies because of what you believe they are. How many ladies have you met closely in your entire life that you judge them all together.

pocohantas:


I have come to realise our circle matters a lot. It shapes our ideologies.

franchasng:
Okay, continue helping ladies

MiztaBobiGentle:


You see yourself, if only you read and comprehended properly you would not have shown yourself as a mess. If you think I only help ladies then you really have a big problem and you need to work on yourself. Helping widows and orphans while you can't help ladies is a waste of time because I wonder what good that is.
So get the message right and then work on yourself properly because I only gave a particular instance which I have realized isn't right and I can see the reason why many ladies feel that way and that is because of the way people like you see them.
Doing charity work and condemning ladies is as good as doing nothing good.

MiztaBobiGentle:


Yes it really does. When you roll in a circle of people that reason very poor, you can never make progress. But when you keep yourself in a circle with people that reason the same way as you, then you will see alot of progress and blessings because everyone can connect to progressive reasoning together.

pocohantas:


Isn't it surprising that Nigerian men and women are always insulting and attacking themselves on SM. Outside here, shops are out of stock on condoms, because of the kind heavy knacking going on.

Go to supermarkets and relaxation spots tomorrow, na still Nigerian men and women full there. The same ones that have given up themselves, ONLINE.

There would always be people who will abuse your generosity. I can't eradicate this kind of people, I can only ensure they are not in my CIRCLE.

pocohantas:


Isn't it surprising that Nigerian men and women are always insulting and attacking themselves on SM. Outside here, shops are out of stock on condoms, because of the kind heavy knacking going on.

Go to supermarkets and relaxation spots tomorrow, na still Nigerian men and women full there. The same ones that have given up themselves, ONLINE.

There would always be people who will abuse your generosity. I can't eradicate this kind of people, I can only ensure they are not in my CIRCLE.