OK so i met this girl 3 days ago today we went out for a date we got to the place she started saying she's feeling hungry and want to order food I told her to hold on a bit I'm thinking of leaving her here and leave I hate this kind of rubbish . why can't these girls respect their self for once . must you girls order food every time you go out with a guy I need advice on what to do now cos I can't spend 1800 for Food on this girl just like that

mmadu5:
OK so i met this girl 3 days ago today we went out for a date we got to the place she started saying she's feeling hungry and want to order food I told her to hold on a bit I'm thinking of leaving her here and leave I hate this kind of rubbish . why can't these girls respect their self for once . must you girls order food every time you go out with a guy I need advice on what to do now cos I can't spend 1800 for Food on this girl just like that

you know what to do

bigpriik:


you know what to do

please tell me.what to do

seriously

mmadu5:
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Calm down my brother. The solution to handle Nigerian women is HUMOR, not anger or money.

When I say humor, I don't mean being a clown, but knowing how to disarm her and change her thought and behaviors until she laughs and give up without being upset.

Very hungry and is disgusting

iLegendd:


Calm down my brother. The solution to handle Nigerian women is HUMOR, not anger.

is disgusting

Just buy the food for her if you can afford it,help a soul

Lol... Last week, I was hanging out wt my G, as we were having the bottles he remembered a new babe that gave him number the previous nite n decided to invite her to our venue. Without even alerting my guy, she decided to bring along her friend. On getting to the venue, we ordered thier brands for them, on the first sip, the one that accompanied my guys new catch boldly asked us if we are not ordering meat and snail for them, I was dumfounded cos I have never seen such stupidity before. I mean if she wanted to eat meat, she would have whispered it to me as friendly request n not asking openly and boldly like it's an obligation. Trust me, I sharply asked her openly if her friend told her they were coming to meet fulani herdsmen. The friend dat brought her along was so ashamed.... Some girls are really not well trained n yes many of them u see forming are gluttons forming slay queen.

You want to take a girl out on a date without spending!?

More like you want to smoke huge amount of weed without getting high!!!


Naija girls are not the only one hungry oo. The men sef are starving.

millionboi2:
is disgusting

Yes, it is, but the more you understand women, the more you know they are sweet to be around with.

I have no problem with women. They are simple to handle and there is no need to panic. Just study how they work and stay ahead. This will save you headaches and hypertension in marriage.

Whenever you're not good at something, don't panic, but work on it. The reason I can write books in almost any topic is not because I'm smart, but because I used to suck, but worked on them.

Take it easy nahhh....

millionboi2:
Very hungry and is disgusting

iLegendd:
Yes, it is, but the more you understand women, the more you know they are sweet to be around with.

I have no problem with women. They are simple to handle and there is no need to panic. Just study how they work and stay ahead. This will save you headaches and hypertension in marriage.

Whenever you're not good at something, don't panic, but work on it. The reason I can write books in almost any topic is not because I'm smart, but because I used to suck, but worked on them.

hahaha....local man no go fall4ur trick oo.

Look4all dos secondary schl pupils weh Neva know anytin

millionboi2:
hahaha....local man no go fall4ur trick oo.

Look4all dos secondary schl pupils weh Neva know anytin

You're welcome.

mmadu5:
OK so i met this girl 3 days ago today we went out for a date we got to the place she started saying she's feeling hungry and want to order food I told her to hold on a bit I'm thinking of leaving her here and leave I hate this kind of rubbish . why can't these girls respect their self for once . must you girls order food every time you go out with a guy I need advice on what to do now cos I can't spend 1800 for Food on this girl just like that

Why did you take her out on a date in the first place? Just say I don't have 1800 to spend on food Biko

Nostradamus:
You want to take a girl out on a date without spending!?

More like you want to smoke huge amount of weed without getting high!!!


Naija girls are not the only one hungry oo. The men sef are starving.

u obviously do not undstand.

See ah

If u call an average Nigerian gal up now or she calls u,like we want to see.

D next u hear is she is hungry ooo......big turnoff4me

jimyjames:


Why did you take her out on a date in the first place? Just say I don't have 1800 to spend on food Biko

stop intimidatin d dude


U know how wired some of dis gals could be

jimyjames:


Why did you take her out on a date in the first place? Just say I don't have 1800 to spend on food Biko

I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

It's jobless ladies that do those things, Ladies need to be independent and make a life for themselves. This stuff irritates me.

Inspectorsuga22:
Lol... Last week, I was hanging out wt my G, as we were having the bottles he remembered a new babe that gave him number the previous nite n decided to invite her to our venue. Without even alerting my guy, she decided to bring along her friend. On getting to the venue, we ordered thier brands for them, on the first sip, the one that accompanied my guys new catch boldly asked us if we are not ordering meet and snail for them, I was dumfounded cos I have never seen such stupidity before. I mean if she wanted to eat meat, she would have whispered it to me as friendly request n not asking openly and boldly like it's an obligation. Trust me, I sharply asked her openly if her friend told her they were coming to meet fulani herdsmen. The friend dat brought her along was so ashamed.... Some girls are really not well trained n yes many of them u see forming are gluttons forming slay queen.

chai which kind thing be this now ?? girl these days no get shame

Some of them don't have shame at all, What a disgrace.

Inspectorsuga22:
Lol... Last week, I was hanging out wt my G, as we were having the bottles he remembered a new babe that gave him number the previous nite n decided to invite her to our venue. Without even alerting my guy, she decided to bring along her friend. On getting to the venue, we ordered thier brands for them, on the first sip, the one that accompanied my guys new catch boldly asked us if we are not ordering meet and snail for them, I was dumfounded cos I have never seen such stupidity before. I mean if she wanted to eat meat, she would have whispered it to me as friendly request n not asking openly and boldly like it's an obligation. Trust me, I sharply asked her openly if her friend told her they were coming to meet fulani herdsmen. The friend dat brought her along was so ashamed.... Some girls are really not well trained n yes many of them u see forming are gluttons forming slay queen.

mmadu5:



I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

millionboi2:
stop intimidatin d dude


U know how wired some of dis gals could be

Am not in anyway intimidating him, he invited her on a date what type of date was it, just a sit and talk date? He should have made it known to the girl in the first place, there are different types of dates, it could be at the movies, shopping, sit and talk with drinks, food etc

jimyjames:


Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

people like you are the reason why these girls feel they can chop us mugu on every outing imagine taking a girl out she didn't even wait for awhile and started making order for food .

mmadu5:



people like you are the reason why these girls feel they can chop us mugu on every outing imagine taking a girl out she didn't even wait for awhile and started making order for food .

There's nothing wrong with that, let's say you invited someone into your house, the first thing you ask the person is what will you like to drink or eat, your number one priority is to make that person feel comfortable in your house, it's same thing with inviting someone on a date

Na WA to nairaland boys sha.

If she no order for any thing at all, Una go say she de form.

Now she order, Una say she be hungry girl
Ah ah, wetin sef?

While it's true some girls can be shameless, using such word on them everytime is annoying. I like girls that are real. I'm not saying she should order the whole delicacies in the place sha, but at least, just gbe body!
While I don't know the context in which she placed the order, I really don't think it means she's a hungry girl.

The only problem I see here is the N1800, and I believe that's also where you got upset op.

N1800 is way too much, except if a plate is 1800.

mmadu5:



now I know I'm talking to an idiot . inviting someone to your house is different from going out on a date It was my first time going out with her a sensible person will eat at home before coming out ....father christmas why don't you go and pack all the girls you see on the streets and feed them

I just gave you a simple illustration,
it was your first time of going out with her so she should have ate at home?
So if you invite someone in your house for the first time you won't give the person anything cause you expect that person to eat at home?
You say inviting someone in your house is different from inviting someone on a date Biko can you enlighten me more before calling me an idiot?

I should pack all the girls on my street and feed them? Am I inviting all the girls on my street on date?

mmadu5:



I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

You replied him well

That's a typical naija gal for u... For me i do that for my female friends steady without having anything in mind. But these ones that think they can play guys and eat what they want all in the name of dating/love, taar

jimyjames:


There's nothing wrong with that, let's say you invited someone into your house, the first thing you ask the person is what will you like to drink or eat, your number one priority is to make that person feel comfortable in your house, it's same thing with inviting someone on a date

..... The girl should ve waited for him to make the order. Do you visit somebody in his house for the first time and start demanding for food?

ladiesreject:
Na WA to nairaland boys sha.

If she no order for any thing at all, Una go say she de form.

Now she order, Una say she be hungry girl
Ah ah, wetin sef?

While it's true some girls can be shameless, using such word on them everytime is annoying. I like girls that are real. I'm not saying she should order the whole delicacies in the place sha, but at least, just gbe body!
While I don't know the context in which she placed the order, I really don't think it means she's a hungry girl.

The only problem I see here is the N1800, and I believe that's also where you got upset op.

N1800 is way too much, except if a plate is 1800.

your username says it all lady rejected boy like you should have no say in this