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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dairykidd(m): 11:39pm On Aug 13
blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.

You see her at work regularly and that is the major issue.. but u can get over it. It will be difficult to erase those shared memories but u gotta get a very active life outside of work, meet new people, focus ur attention on higher interests and most importantly hold no grudges against her. Yes she fvcked up big time & everyone does. You need to focus on ur work and urself and know that u owe urself real happiness. Please do not try to cut a slice of the leftover cake u will be digging a very bad grave for urself. Try ur best to forget her but don't try too hard instead focus on being the man u used to be before u met her.

FOCUS ON YOU!!!

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Akinbahm(m): 11:40pm On Aug 13
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

In Airtel advert voice "That thing dey pain" you would have cope better if u pple ain't working in the same place.
From my perspective follow these steps hope it work for u;
1. Limit ur social media; If u pple r friends on Fb u don't need to block her just un follow her this would restrict u from seeing her post, mute her status on WhatsApp don't delete her digit but don't forget to delete all her pictures and ur conversation be it text message, watsapp etc...
2. This time around u have to improve yourself in all ramifications that's from ur mode of dressing, increase ur work rate (to make cool cash), consume good food and don't forget to lock up anytime u see her (u don't need to frown against her a sheepish smile is enough and u don't need to run away from her in case u bump each other just greet her d way u greet a random person (Brief conversation is needed here cause extensive converse can make u fall in love back).
3. Be more successful than before and divert all ur attention to what will aid u to be successful quickly (Legit stuff) and don't forget to do some random babes to cool off after work...

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by OCHKESTINE(m): 11:44pm On Aug 13
I dated and sponsored my Ex for 6 years andem found out the worst things u could ever think of. I didn't dive into another relationship, I focused on my life and pursue things I had always wanted. I improved myself in many ways
I took 2 years away from women. My next relationship was my last and the best, i am married now and I thanked my Ex for doing what she did back then. I wouldn't have improved my life if she had behaved well.

Turn that pain into something profitable. Focus on something that will better ur life. U will forget about her in no time. It's a normal feeling.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Lugianostar(m): 11:44pm On Aug 13
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by nairalanduseles: 11:47pm On Aug 13
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by lexy2014: 11:48pm On Aug 13
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.


Pls go back 2 her. She is all u need

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Lexusgs430: 11:48pm On Aug 13
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.



Therapy/counselling...........
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by arrestdarrester: 11:48pm On Aug 13
The best way to get a thought off your mind is replacing it with another. In this case replace her with another in thought and in reality
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by nicepoker101(m): 11:50pm On Aug 13
Op. I beg you. No near that Sniper pls. grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by akmath: 11:51pm On Aug 13
BlackIvory:
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?
BlackIvory youuuu? no worry I go tell your mummy for you...
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 11:52pm On Aug 13
Blackivy27:
wise guru. I dare not put aside your wisdom but that instruction? I should apply vasline in a hole. Isnt there no side effects??

i once tried mast***ting with a bead necklace. It was deep inside when the twine cut. All the beads up my...
i full hand enter... that day.

What?!
For real?
Scary movie7 cheesy
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by favour32(m): 11:53pm On Aug 13
The world is not comfortable with vacuum.
Get yourself a new girl ASAP.
That is the only solution to counteract/neutralize your emotional turbulence.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 11:55pm On Aug 13
emeijeh:

What?! For real? Scary movie7 cheesy
lol. as if you know.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by J111333(m): 11:56pm On Aug 13
When I read things like this, I start to believe that some people are wired differently.
For me, when I'm done, I'm done and that is it even if I share bedroom with her.

For you I suggest you get a job transfer if you can because getting another girlfriend won't solve your problem since you work in the same office.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by YorubaWarrior: 11:57pm On Aug 13
OP, see it this way... why kill yourself over someone that doesn't give a sh!t about you? She's there living her life and you're here trying to die over her.

She never really loved you in the first place. Think of how there're maggots in her pvssy and how she poops when you guys are fvcking.... grin grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 12:02am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
lol.
as if you know.
I pictured it already,
Saw your troubled face too.

Please don't try it next time
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Olanipekun1: 12:03am On Aug 14
YorubaWarrior:
cool
nonsense
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:03am On Aug 14
akmath:
BlackIvory youuuu? no worry I go tell your mummy for you...
Why nah...
are you a vasline crew member?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by InvertedHammer: 12:03am On Aug 14
/
You love the thrill.

E too sweet na im dey kill pass.

Ever wonder why victims of DV can't let go?

I see STI knocking at your door.

/
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by YorubaWarrior: 12:04am On Aug 14
Olanipekun1:
[s][/s]nonsense

I sight you Mr. Yaba Left V.I.P cool
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:06am On Aug 14
emeijeh:

I pictured it already,
Saw your troubled face too.

Please don't try it next time
grin nothing will make me. The fear was to much. Close to 40 beads in my p*ssy. Plus if i tell my mum she'ld kill me. Im a virgin so the beads didnt get too inside.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by effacofresh(m): 12:09am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
hmm... But i havent faced a d!ck one on one.
and as for the cucumber i dont think anything more than my two slender fingers can enter my tight...
cheesy cheesy
ah really wanna know you.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Luvlyna(f): 12:11am On Aug 14
romenna:
Try to get anoda girl who's more prettier than ur ex.

LOL this is not a solution. This is like giving a child biscuit because he's crying but you not asking to know why he's crying so that the problem can be fixed undecided

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 12:11am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:

grin nothing will make me. The fear was to much. Close to 40 beads in my p*ssy. Plus if i tell my mum she'ld kill me. Im a virgin so the beads didnt get too inside.

And u rescued all 40?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:15am On Aug 14
emeijeh:

And u rescued all 40?
ofcourse, yes... im proudly bead free. I miss that necklace tho. We shared good memories.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Rosskiki: 12:15am On Aug 14
here's how to get her off your mind...

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by okokkk(m): 12:15am On Aug 14
Give liberty unto thine eyes. Examine other beauties
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Freeman59: 12:15am On Aug 14
Time bro. That's all .... Time
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:17am On Aug 14
effacofresh:
ah really wanna know you.
Imma guhd girl off nairaland, being faceless is so kul.. grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Olanipekun1: 12:17am On Aug 14
YorubaWarrior:
OP, see it this way... why kill yourself over someone that doesn't give a sh!t about you? She's there living her life and you're here trying to die over her.

She never really loved you in the first place. Think of how there're maggots in her pvssy and how she poops when you guys are fvcking.... grin grin

childish thinking

grow up dude

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