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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 12:20am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
ofcourse, yes...
im proudly bead free. I miss that necklace tho. We shared good memories.
Oya come for examination tomorrow.
Goodnight.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Myhusband(m): 12:20am On Aug 14
avoid loneliness and anytime you're lonely get some interesting games on your phone or anywhere to keep you busy



the very day you get occupied with something else is the day you will stop thinking about her

1. avoid loneliness

2. hangout with friends or play games

3. avoid love or emotional songs. if you're Yoruba listen to Fuji even if is not your kind of music

4. avoid her pictures and if you can't unfriend her on social media, stay off where you've her as friends for a month


do this for just a month and you will forget about her. do it for more than a month and see yourself turning to a misogynist

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by millionboi2: 12:20am On Aug 14
IamPlato:
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Thank Me Later
thy are born to make men forget dia wife......can't stop laughing.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by SAGGAT: 12:23am On Aug 14
i have a lot to say but First you have to go for a test. you know what i mean? tgen put on these advice like a shield

1. You are obsessed with her
2. Your a nice guy.
well you see nice guys always get fu*****ced up by these promiscuous and damaged women all the time and trust me she knows your weakness and can possibly be waiting for you come beg her if you seem mostly likely to do.
you need to be an Ass...hole to bit**ch**es like your ex and thats the only way you can survive in this saturated sexual market place, so now what next since you've dumped her cra**zy rooster Hoping ass.?


realizing you've been a fool all along will help you alot better and realizing she is not worth you time and attention is a perfect key.

when you see her always look at her as a damaged good and promiscuous bit**ch that would have infected you with std.

if you are opportune to ever have a conversation with her, just let her know how worthless she is to you with a smile on your face and tell her all she is good at is just for sex and thats exactly what your friends think of her, you knew this all along and your glad you got your piece of cake and broke up at the right time.

don't ever be lonely meet new friends male and female be happy.

and also stop feeding her information through your social media accounts.

stop those funny whatsapp write ups, trying to pass an indirect message.
Try to be happy and realize your worth more than a cheating girl friend. she only cheated herself out of true loyalty.

never speak bad of her cus you both had your time.

in the end there is greater coming back at a lady than making more money and nake her always recal how foolish she was.

all these apply if only you where a faithful boyfriend oooo.

life is to short and women are just too many to waste my time on a cheating babe.

Alpha males know this already.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:23am On Aug 14
emeijeh:
Oya come for examination tomorrow. Goodnight.
Lol... Im too shy for that. gudnite.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by safarigirl(f): 12:23am On Aug 14
Don't get a new girl


Nobody deserves to be a rebound and it is not likely you will treat yhe new girl right, since you are obviously still hurting from the transgressions of your ex and sulking over her. You are not psychologically ready to move on and nobody deserves the baggage you are carrying around.

Take yourself out and reacquaint yourself with the single life. If you have guy friends, hang out with them more, give yourself treats and just have a good time.

You are going through a hangover from being in a committed relationship and moving on seems difficult, if you can, take a paid leave, so, you can escape the toxic space that has your ex in it. This is why it id advised you don't date your colleagues, but una no go gree hear word

I wish you luck in your quest to move forward.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by larryking540: 12:24am On Aug 14
go sleep with other girls and ur mind will kw that other babes are sweeter thanher

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 12:26am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Lol... Im too shy for that.
gudnite.

And u didn't consider the poor beads before the act abi?
I will be their advocate.
We will sue.

Close your eyes, it's late.
Sweetdreams
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by macho44(m): 12:27am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

This SHIT isn't easy. WOMEN can be very very MANIPULATIVE, and still wanna PLAY the VICTIM afterwards. Here's a word of ADVICE, next time you find yaself in a RELATIONSHIP; abeg no dey do like BRODA wey mumu. You LOVED her to a fault, and she saw you as just another SIDE-KICK. Who knows, you fit dey give am your SALARY sef to spend on your behalf.
My apologies for the harsh words, but you needed to be told TRUTH in its raw form. Break-Ups aint easy, especially if it's you who LOVE's most. You need to occupy your MIND with other things, stuffs which would contribute to your GROWTH as a person, both morally, physically & otherwise. More importantly, learn to see your ex FUCKMATE as just another person, don't make the mistake of developing goose pimples down under whenever you come across each other. Imma tell you a secret, KILL her with sweetness & smile at her. Make it obvious to her that she's part of your past and her chapter in your life belongs to the thrash cans of HISTORY. In LIFE, we Live, We LOVE & most of all; WE LEARN.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Tvegas(m): 12:28am On Aug 14
Time heal all wounds. Give it time and put yourself in other activities. You will be fine. Dont bother going back ooo, as she doesnt love you at all. You were the one loving yourself.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by koyyess: 12:31am On Aug 14
'I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday. And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues. We see each other everyday.'


Above is the reason behind your problem. Fix it!
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by effacofresh(m): 12:34am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Imma guhd girl off nairaland, being faceless is so kul.. grin
something tells me we are compatible. But hw sure am I? Just that I don't doubt my instincts
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:37am On Aug 14
effacofresh:
something tells me we are compatible. But hw sure am I? Just that I don't doubt my instincts
i need to know you first to know if we are.
cheesy But if i know you off nairaland... Thats the end.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Validated: 12:39am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Go for deliverance. Go to MFM to deliver you from spirit of evil soulmate. You will be fine thereafter and be ready to wait for your wife.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 12:41am On Aug 14
emeijeh:

And u didn't consider the poor beads before the act abi? I will be their advocate. We will sue.
Close your eyes, it's late. Sweetdreams
The beads tempted me to commit that slutty act. im the victim here. lol. Promise to be gentle??
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by adanny01(m): 12:47am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.


Replying the title, just go on a f.ckong spree.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:48am On Aug 14
Pray! Your feelings for her is normal, it’s all deceit, don’t fall for it, and one day you’d be glad you moved on.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by cooooooks(m): 12:52am On Aug 14
Someone needs to slap you.

No amount of sweet talk will put proper sense in your head.

Your girlfriend was cheating on you with TWO guys and you're here writing rubbish.

Please, move on. Get busy. Don't date anyone seriously now but don't think of your ex.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by cooooooks(m): 12:54am On Aug 14
He should be very clear that he is still reeling from a relationship and not ready for a serious one.

Getting a casual relationship and/or talking to more people should help him get over his ex.

safarigirl:
Don't get a new girl


Nobody deserves to be a rebound and it is not likely you will treat yhe new girl right, since you are obviously still hurting from the transgressions of your ex and sulking over her. You are not psychologically ready to move on and nobody deserves the baggage you are carrying around.

Take yourself out and reacquaint yourself with the single life. If you have guy friends, hang out with them more, give yourself treats and just have a good time.

You are going through a hangover from being in a committed relationship and moving on seems difficult, if you can, take a paid leave, so, you can escape the toxic space that has your ex in it. This is why it id advised you don't date your colleagues, but una no go gree hear word

I wish you luck in your quest to move forward.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by SAGGAT: 12:54am On Aug 14
i have a lot to say but First you have to go for a test. you know what i mean? then put on these advice like a shield

1. You are obsessed with her
2. Your a nice guy.
well you see nice guys always get fu*****ced up by these promiscuous and damaged women all the time and trust me she knows your weakness and can possibly be waiting for you come beg her if you seem mostly likely to do.
you need to be an Ass...hole to bit**ch**es like your ex and thats the only way you can survive in this saturated sexual market place, so now what next since you've dumped her cra**zy co*c**k Hoping ass.?


realizing you've been a fool all along will help you alot better and realizing she is not worth you time and attention is a perfect key.

when you see her always look at her as a damaged good and promiscuous bit**ch that would have infected you with std.

if you are opportune to ever have a conversation with her, just let her know how worthless she is to you with a smile on your face and tell her all she is good at is just for sex and thats exactly what your friends think of her, you knew this all along and your glad you got your piece of cake and broke up at the right time.

don't ever be lonely meet new friends male and female be happy.

and also stop feeding her information through your social media accounts.

stop those funny whatsapp write ups, trying to pass an indirect message.
Try to be happy and realize your worth more than a cheating girl friend. she only cheated herself out of true loyalty.

never speak bad of her cus you both had your time.

in the end there is no greater coming back at a lady than making more money and nake her always recal how foolish she was.

all these apply if only you where a faithful boyfriend oooo.

life is to short and women are just too many to waste my time on a cheating babe.

Alpha males know this already.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by chally4real(m): 12:56am On Aug 14
millionboi2:
stop lying na taste of her pussy u dey miss or maybe she gives u mouth.


Local man knows

Hahahhahaha.. I like this guy... Hes too real... Local man knows too well...

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Niageriaunite: 1:01am On Aug 14
bro 5months ago I was in ur shoes, it affected my level of productivity my business went down seriously is not a good experience one should wish his enemy

with the experience, I was able to understand the reason why the Bible teaches us to to stay away from fornication, pre marital sex is evil, these are sins we comite not to hurt God but to hurt our selves, now see how u are feeling now who is suffering it God or you?

I was laughing when people were advising you to get other girl, bro u will add more salt to ur injury, cos u will be with the new girl ur mind will still be beckoning on ur ex, and the now one will noticed and leave u again, when u must have slept with new u will now be having double heart break.

it very unfortunate that 2 are in same office, this is what u will do

first Go to living church alter lie face down and cry to God that u need help that he should come and deliver ur from the Spirit of ungodly soul tie you find ur self

secondly go to a living Church seek for deliverance let her spirit be cast away from ur soul

then give ur life to Christ completely not partially

delete her number don't view her on facebook, Instagram and whatsapp status

do all this bro u will get back ur life

I did It and I have permanent peace of mind now, how are wish I can talk to u on phone
send me an email let's talk more

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Tobesky1: 1:04am On Aug 14
May be you are too emotional. I still dont know why guys are emotional like this.See bro...all this relationship of a thing is nothing. You have to know a relationship can end at anytime. My relationship of 5yrs ended.I wasnt moved.Infact it helps alot.it didn't occur to me that i lose anything. why ..i always bliv i don't own anyone and i cherish success more than D so called relationship.Stop pressurizing yourself

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by effacofresh(m): 1:10am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
i need to know you first to know if we are.
cheesy But if i know you off nairaland... Thats the end.
Am from crossriver, 21yrs old, am a student of unical. Hw can I link up with u so as 2 know u better?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by excanny: 1:12am On Aug 14
Talk to more women and start getting laid, idiot.
Stop wasting your life thinking about a slut.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by mullerman: 1:23am On Aug 14
Guy,I would suggest you go back to her but since you send that is not the best option for now,kindly hook up with a new chick with faithful heart then keep yourself busy by engaging fully with her,with short time you would get her off your mind asap.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Kamsichime(m): 1:24am On Aug 14
Attitude is everything! When U have a health challenge nd d doctor prescribes some drugs, nd after somedays u went back nd d doctor said u are reacting to the drugs that he will change d medication,how wil u feel? U hv taken d decision instead of reacting u respond to d situation.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by rayobaba(m): 1:35am On Aug 14
I think sex uv had wt her is giving u memory.
I guessed u can't control ur self cos l wonder why a man will still be having feelings for girl dt cheated u wt another "TWO" guys.
Catching her suppose be ur source of joy. God showed u ur enemy yet u not happy.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by BENEAMATA: 1:36am On Aug 14
love strong . don't know what to say .
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by madjune: 1:41am On Aug 14
Dance Naira Marley soapy.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by daddyfreeman1(m): 1:43am On Aug 14
Bro if you check very well... Last time I posted about how I broke up with my girlfriend sometime in march or April. I passed through exactly how you're witnessing it now. The advice I got here made me forget everything about her within few days... I advice you to do things that will make you happy, listen to music and all that... Remember that you were happy and still alive doing your things before she came into your life... If possible go to search box and type (I broke up with my girlfriend, a Nairalander cries out) that's my post when I broke up with my girlfriend... Read the comments under, I think it will help you a lot... Thank you

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Nobody: 1:55am On Aug 14
BlackIvory:
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?

I am in that area... seems you joke a lot? I'm very busy though. But of course, a shout out can work smiley

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