"Anayo, finally she dumped me for another; her reasons was that am not romantic.
Me: well I saw it coming when you were arguing with me that you don't need money to maintain a healthy relationship except she is materialistic"

The truth is when a woman says you are not romantic it doesn't necessarily mean being able to get her to orgasm maka ama that's what some of us men specializes in�..... Being romantic has to do with a lot and believe me it involves money.

Yes I know you have a 97 inches plasma TV with 1 year DSTV subscription but nwanne once in a while you need to leave that your TV and take her out to Cinema to see a movie, that will be romantic. Don't buy food anytime she visits or ask her to cook, try and cook for her even if you are useless in the kitchen she will appreciate the effort, the love and that will be romantic. Don't wait for her birthday to gift her. You cannot always give her advice anytime she is going through financial difficulties- maka some men bu specialist in giving advice�. Help out no matter how small. It goes a long way to show you care. Remind her how lucky you are to have her as your woman. 'I love you' shouldn't be the line you use after a good round of sex; say it more often, like everyday. Let your home be a home and not a brothel; you must not demand sex anytime she visits.

And umunwanyi same goes to you guys, I know you don't have money besides naija women don't have money in relationship but biko nne from that little you have treat your man too. Buy him gifts even if it's just handkerchief �. Surprise him on his birthday don't always be on the receiving end maka na 'aka nri kwuo aka ekpe, aka ekpe akwuo aka nri' . Treat him to a date sometimes, men need to feel loved. Spend on your man. Why do you think Igbos have this saying that ' etoo dike na nke omere, ike adikwa ya ime ozo' ? Your way of appreciation must not only be sex. Support him financially to the best of your ability. Give reasonable advice. Push him to achieve his goals.

Don't forget that relationship bu ihe diri mmadu ibuo, obughi ofu onye.

Money answereth all things ...

It doesnt narrow down to money for every girl.
romance too doesnt come cheap. A picnic with the both of you still requires cash.
everything in this world is bought and sold.