ikechukz:
Truth be told, I won't even allow my sister to marry a guy that lives in a place like this. The guy should be thinking of how to better his condition not making it worse by getting married. And for the ladies saying yes, we know it's just to get likes and praises from guys.

That not true I have once live in that kind of house when we are in school and glory be to God my wife stand and by now she stay in her different room while her kids also have there room too with library and she doing well in her business today so ladies there's nothing in those big house than rest of mind I can assure somebody that if this guy have package if he comes out from this room and dress well nobody will know that he live somewhere like this

1Sharon:



Lol I'm happy that at least it does look tidy and clean, some guys are dirty...

How can it not be with just 3 things in the entire room?
But yeah, you're right. It's spotless.

Hmnn..inside life! A big shout out to all the girls who looked beyond my similar situation and still went ahead to make me 'feel like a prince'. BTW, I look like a prince. *Wink*

RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read my signature

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All of you mentioning me because I said Yes na wa for una ooo.
What is your own definition of poverty please It could be that your own definition of poverty is different from mine.
To me, a man who is rich spiritually, morally, wisdom, knowledge, values is the definition of riches. With all that I have mentioned combined, financial wealth will flow in in due time if properly guided/managed and mentored, He will be super rich in no time.
A man who sleeps on a student size mattress or on the mat today can sleep on a king size bed tomorrow if he finds the wife the bible referred to as good thing because that good thing (Wife) comes with Favor from the Lord.
Read the story of the virtuous woman again in the book of proverb.
The woman is meant to help the man build/grow and not scatter.
What some of you don't know is that there are some men that God has destined to be blessed through their wife. There are some men that God will bless the woman first so she can use it to lift the man up.
You all need to understand the principles of marriage in order to understand what I am talking about.
That's why so many marriages can't stand the test of time today because many are built on money money money foundation...

I can make a bronze statue for you really then arrange worshipers. A lot of wisdom and wittiness here.

chai men dey suffer ooohhh

Assuming I am a woman despite the fact that I know that no condition is permanent the Idea won't go down well with me but if the guy is focused, works hard, filled with bright ideas to walk us out of such low life loves me genuinely and fears God I will change my mind but if we are to have kids we can't have more than one until things get batter

I father had some tenants four years ago they were living exactly in this conditions but gradually they starting living fine now both families own their own houses, one of the families now own a school where the fam work while the other family now have better jobs, you see determination,love and hardworking conquers

Reason why I said I would eventually change my mind

ImaIma1:


The stats ain't wrong? Where did you get it? You came up with it yourself based on your own restricted knowledge probably based on what you see on social media or in your area.

Nigerian's population is over 201 million. Let's assume that half of that are females... that's about 100million. Except you have done a survey and got information from at least 25million of them. Or you got your data from a recognised statistics organisation, your figures are irrelevant.

Please don't come and misinform people here just in a bid to discredit Nigerian women. If you are going to badmouth us, at least do it with real and verifiable facts.

A lot of women will settle down with a guy in this condition. You see my remaining 4% can still be called a lot because of the population. The difference between you and the 4% is strength of character and wittiness which you obviously lack.

RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read my signature

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All of you mentioning me because I said Yes na wa for una ooo.
What is your own definition of poverty please It could be that your own definition of poverty is different from mine.
To me, a man who is rich spiritually, morally, wisdom, knowledge, values is the definition of riches. With all that I have mentioned combined, financial wealth will flow in in due time if properly guided/managed and mentored, He will be super rich in no time.
A man who sleeps on a student size mattress or on the mat today can sleep on a king size bed tomorrow if he finds the wife the bible referred to as good thing because that good thing (Wife) comes with Favor from the Lord.
Read the story of the virtuous woman again in the book of proverb.
The woman is meant to help the man build/grow and not scatter.
What some of you don't know is that there are some men that God has destined to be blessed through their wife. There are some men that God will bless the woman first so she can use it to lift the man up.
You all need to understand the principles of marriage in order to understand what I am talking about.
That's why so many marriages can't stand the test of time today because many are built on money money money foundation...

bless you

XhosaNostra:


Is it by force? I said that will never happen & that's that! A guy in that kind of situation shouldn't be looking to settle down. Period. That'd be unfair to the spouse & any offsprings born out of that union. A sparsely furnished room, really? Get real! Not in this lifetime!

Chai, who come post my room for Nairaland oooo

RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read my signature

Modified

All of you mentioning me because I said Yes na wa for una ooo.
What is your own definition of poverty please It could be that your own definition of poverty is different from mine.
To me, a man who is rich spiritually, morally, wisdom, knowledge, values is the definition of riches. With all that I have mentioned combined, financial wealth will flow in in due time if properly guided/managed and mentored, He will be super rich in no time.
A man who sleeps on a student size mattress or on the mat today can sleep on a king size bed tomorrow if he finds the wife the bible referred to as good thing because that good thing (Wife) comes with Favor from the Lord.
Read the story of the virtuous woman again in the book of proverb.
The woman is meant to help the man build/grow and not scatter.
What some of you don't know is that there are some men that God has destined to be blessed through their wife. There are some men that God will bless the woman first so she can use it to lift the man up.
You all need to understand the principles of marriage in order to understand what I am talking about.
That's why so many marriages can't stand the test of time today because many are built on money money money foundation...

And u just scattered my brain with dis piece. pls lemme marry u na...

czarina:
Take away the sentiments, you won't in your right senses let your daughter or sister live in a place like that. This is just irresponsible.

You can offer to furnish or take them somewhere better but be prepared, they'll still be tied to your apron strings/wallet for long.


P. S

Expect fights every time, poverty can mess anything or anyone up.

Any small provocation, na to ponch each other ice.

The bed is even too small for them to Bleep. What else will they enjoy in life? No good food, no good house, no good sleep, no good sex.

pocohantas:
We can't date, let alone acceptance.

We are not even the same circle...
He should pick a wife from his circle. Guys should learn to pick a wife from their social class and stop disturbing SM.

you need to get laid ASAP, I can feel it from here

First of all it's about choice, and everyone should respect if she says yes or no.

The primary thing a lady should check is if the guy has future, goals and ambitious. hard working and have a plan even when the money is yet to come.then other things that makes you love him.

This is the kind of guy a lady should be inspired to have, if the guy is rich it's a win win. If he is still building his life my dear join him and build it together.

What ladies should know a guy can be rich today and poor tomorrow and poor today and rich tomorrow. What makes a man is the ability to focus, have a plan and pursue his goals either rich or poor guy this is what you should look for in any guy. Same goes for guys looking for a lady.

Ones a lady have that same chemistry, ideology with the guy my dear they would move mountains. Been rich or poor is of mind set not necessarily physical aspect

DrObiHogan:


A lot of women will settle down with a guy in this condition. You see my remaining 4% can still be called a lot because of the population. The difference between you and the 4% is strength of character and wittiness which you obviously lack.

These your words are as irrelevant and inconsequential as your opinion and stats.

Korllami007:
Accept kor, acceptance fee ni.

Clearly, the guy can't even feed himself talk more of feeding a woman and kid(s).

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XhosaNostra:
No, I will never accept. His priorities are all mixed up for starters. Why rush into marriage when you only have a handful of things & flip flops to your name? I've seen homeless people with more stuff than this!

U r spot on

Those who woun't say YES shud nt be blamed cox Nigeria of today is HARD.the wife of a wealthy man i know told us how she started with the husband.the man had nothing they slept with mat and little or nothing in their house but today the man paid additional salary to all the staff where i work for one month honestly.very humble man. na for port harcourt

ALL of you talking crap here about not looking down on a guy's humble beginning, una never see disappointment that looks like witchcraft dey run ur life. From one shocking problem to another. From one issue to another. Frustration would set in; the guy if he has a heart would begin to find a way to let the poor girl go marry someone else, cos he is tired of keeping someone's daughter is perpetual poverty. Suicide would be his everyday thought. Disappointment would drain every determination in him, when he sees those way below him, climbing up and he is left in the slums and can't even afford the slum life. Una never see strong thing. Sotay ur bad luck go begin affect ur woman life. She too go begin see serious shegey wey she never see before. My guys and gehs, if I all diz geh wey dey say dem no fit do am, no matter how God fearing I expect u to be, I no dey blame u at all, becos who don see, don see and e no go want make u see Wetin e don see.

nisai:
Chai, who come post my room for Nairaland oooo

Hahaha

pocohantas:
We can't date, let alone acceptance.

We are not even the same circle...
He should pick a wife from his circle. Guys should learn to pick a wife from their social class and stop disturbing SM.

we were first humans, before religion separated us, politics divided us and wealth classified us. When I imagine the depth of the grave and the pound of sand that will be thrown at us ...it is all vain. Back to the qstn, the place is not too habitable but the lady can assist too and they can get a comfortable place.

Hotzone:

Should be: ‘my pop used to tell me this’

You wanna turn into grammarnazi? Thx though

chrismex:
First of all it's about choice, and everyone should respect if she says yes or no.

The primary thing a lady should check is if the guy has future, goals and ambitious. hard working and have a plan even when the money is yet to come.then other things that makes you love him.

This is the kind of guy a lady should be inspired to have, if the guy is rich it's a win win. If he is still building his life my dear join him and build it together.

What ladies should know a guy can be rich today and poor tomorrow and poor today and rich tomorrow. What makes a man is the ability to focus, have a plan and pursue his goals either rich or poor guy this is what you should look for in any guy. Same goes for guys looking for a lady.

Ones a lady have that same chemistry, ideology with the guy my dear they would move mountains. Been rich or poor is of mind set not necessarily physical aspect

My guy, I say u LIE. U never see at all. No let men wey don see, teh u Wetin dem don see for this life. Forget all that talk. Let the ladies pick Wetin dem want. No b issue. Guy, if u see Wetin some men don see ehn, Chai! This life no be everybody get am o. Some things go just dey happen to u ehn, even native doctor go fear say ur issue go rub am. E go begin take style dodge u. U never see my guy. No let person wey don see, tell u Wetin e see.

Kingosytex:
99.99% of ladies can't accept that, a greater percentage of ladies out there are slay queens who virtually live for instagram. These slay queens have an already made mentality, they are after the suitors who have made millions, cruise in exotic cars, live in mansions and have huge amount stacked in their various account. "e go better no dey their own diary." Most of them are just ready to reap where they didn't sow.


I don't blame guys who always try to conceal their identity in their quest to find true love. Most ladies are all about the money

You are living in that type of house and you think your major concern is marriage? If you had a sister and she wanted to marry someone like that, would you agree?

Bsmartt:

It was a mini flat with no curtains, no TV, no fans, no bed, no furniture.
I only have pots and camp gas cylinder.

And you proposed? Wow

RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read my signature

Modified

All of you mentioning me because I said Yes na wa for una ooo.

This is the person saying this. This is how she truly looks.
DO YOU BELIEVE HER?

Quorax:


There are rich dumb men, which if they fall today they can never rise again. You don't know anything.

My bros had no job when he met his wife with a child not too long after. He hustled hard and manage to get a job, they moved from one room to two rooms and then 3 rooms and to another 3 rooms...
Then he moved all his family to the US, while he stayed back.

He reversed to a single room since he is alone in Nigeria.

I repeat, you know nothing. Parasites!

Do you guys on this forum not have examples of rich guys who married and are successful and happily married?

So because your SIL married a struggling you means every lady should. Not every lady will marry a poor guy. And there should be no issue there.

Even d ones in face me and face you with parents with aluminium sheet covering somewhere outside as bathroom are making mouth here...waiting for 2k tundeednut giveaway are talking...

Na dat road you see so in front. Den find vgc boy web go out amg for ur bottom...

Person web parent Don tell say him no sure say den fit afford utme not to talk of ordinary college of education think na bed of rose or go just jam sweet boy...

No pray well and hustle... Day vagina weh u believe in fit make u rich with jazz but it go work like hen for many station or den go use u do ritual before u even reach 21...

God help the hustlers and every hustler has a pay day.

ornicus:


Unfortunately I have better things to do than babysit you through puberty.

Raalsalghul, this is epic!

nwaimoroseyaho:
I got married in that condition in 2008 but today we have our on house. I mean house we built with our own money. Even that our room then was 2 by 2 not up to this size. My colleagues that can to visi t me after the wedding didn't see a place to seat. But today non of them have a House but I do.

I guess everyone should marry poor guys now. If we marry rich guys, we are doomed

tracyberry:





Okay this is fucking wrong!!!!!! It has done a lot of harm to the society, some people never prayed to be where they are, with heresy ruling the society the middle class are seen as peasant, but then again it's your opinion. One thing for me is that I'm not going into any marriage without achieving my life goals and making it big so I won't have to be a burden to my man.

Almost every Lady your age, share your sentiments; buth truth is life happens...I pray you achieve your life goals as you desire...but there will always be that grey area you have no control over.

Quorax:


There are rich dumb men, which if they fall today they can never rise again. You don't know anything.

My bros had no job when he met his wife with a child not too long after. He hustled hard and manage to get a job, they moved from one room to two rooms and then 3 rooms and to another 3 rooms...
Then he moved all his family to the US, while he stayed back.

He reversed to a single room since he is alone in Nigeria.

I repeat, you know nothing. Parasites!

He moved his family to US and he stayed back. Hmmm.
How do u up and move your family to US. Many would like to know

czarina:
You've been crying on people's mentions.

Na your room be that?

I can't stop laughing . I have tears in my eyes from laughing at this comment.

Mypeople2 is that your room?